This toy is not the same firmness as the other Nexus toys I bought. I wasn't sure if I would like that but it turns out to be very nice. The size was also very nice. At first it seemed to be quite large but after a couple of times that I played with it the size seemed perfect. The second time I used it I was a little more relaxed than the first. I did a lot of massaging with my thumb and when I felt ready for the toy it was very easy to insert. I always read that lots of lube is needed and I completely agree but being relaxed is also a huge part of being able to enjoy this toy to its potential. Having it being so large is a bonus because it makes you relax and forces you to do foreplay before being able to use it. If it was any smaller for me I don't think it would have been such a fun toy to use.

I have never used a vibrator with a p-spot toy but it did add to the sensation. This was the reason that I bought it. This is the first toy that I use with a vibrator and the speed to it was perfect. It comes with about 5 different variations which I think I will learn to enjoy. When the toy is inserted it is very hard to switch the vibration mainly because I am concerned about being able to clean it later without getting water near the electrical parts.

I have 3 p spot toys. Two are nexus and one is an Aneros. The Aneros is too small and the Nexus excel was a little stiff. This Nexus is by far the best toy of the three.

The second time I used it I was a little more relaxed than the first. I did a lot of massaging with my thumb and when I felt ready for the toy it was so easy to insert. Lots of lube and be relaxed will make this toy a lot of fun to use.