I originally purchased this for myself (no prostate here!) but I did not like it for my body. My boyfriend had a few p-spot toys that he enjoyed, but most of them had the problem of popping or sliding out. Since the perfect p-spot is glass, we sanitized it, and although it was a little thicker and heavier than he was used to, we gave it a shot on him and haven’t looked back since.

The Cyberglass Perfect P-Spot is nearly 2” across at its widest point and is insertable up to about 3-1/2”. It has a tapered but not sharp tip that makes it much easier to insert than something with a more rounded head on it and an ever so slight angle to make it curve upward toward the p-spot. The neck is thick enough to be felt, but thin enough in comparison to the bulb of the toy that it has never popped out. The whole toy is made of solid clear glass and if you didn’t know what a prostate toy looked like, you probably wouldn’t guess this to be one, making it great for travel or someone with limited secure storage. By the time we started using this toy on him, he was pretty advanced as far as anal toys go – I would NOT recommend this for beginners because of its size and rigidity.

When we use this toy, we find it best to get him warmed up first, usually just with fingers but a smaller toy would suffice as well. We then lube him and the toy up quite well with Maximus (a super thick lube) and slide it in holding the large glass “O” shaped ring at the end to glide it in. It moves very smoothly because of the flawless glass texture, and it tends to kind of hesitate about 2/3 of the way in, at which point I stop pushing on it. Within a few seconds, his muscles loosen and actually pull the rest of it in. His body grips onto it so quickly that if there were anything less than the large glass ring as a base, I’d be nervous that he’d suck the whole thing in. I’m not sure how comfortable this would be to wear walking around because of the loop, but we use his prostate toys during play only and he says he doesn’t even notice the base.

Once this toy is inside him, it brings him pleasure without him doing anything at all – it is sized and shaped absolutely perfectly to rub against his p-spot. When he begins contracting the muscles around it, he can have sex with me (or pleasure himself) and have a really intense ejaculatory orgasm. What we prefer to do however is to continue foreplay while he moves himself to make the toy do its best work, and he can have several non-ejaculatory orgasms in a row. I can’t really instruct on how he contracts his muscles or makes the toy rock or shift inside him because first off, it’s not my body and secondly, it’s one of those things that’s going to be different for every man. Even with the perfect toy, it will take time to achieve, but this toy allowed us to get to this point far earlier than we ever expected.

What we’ve found works best for him is for him to be on his knees (usually pleasuring me at the same time) and I lightly massage the other side of his p-spot through the perineum. Between the extra stimulation and the pressure on his p-spot from the weight of the toy, it gives him great orgasms, and they will hit one after the other in pretty rapid succession. This can go on for well over an hour, and then when we’re ready, he will have an orgasm through oral or vaginal sex. He says it is by far the most extreme, intense thing he’s ever felt. Being able to see him reach this point, I have to say that I’ve never seen him react as strongly to anything like this, as it usually has him screaming and thrashing around the bed and is far longer than a normal orgasm.

When we’re done with this toy, it’s super easy to clean. A thorough cleaning with soap and warm water does it for us, but since it is glass, it can be sanitized in any way you prefer. It is also compatible with all lube materials and if you choose to store it among other toys, it won’t react with any other materials. We keep ours in a padded velvet bag just in case it is dropped, but its so thick and solid that I really don’t think even dropping it could damage it.

If anyone is looking to experience p-spot orgasms and hasn't been able to find a toy that works, this may be one to try. It is affordable, easy to use and maintain, and does its job extremely well. The only caution I would have is not to use this on the anally inexperienced, and definitely go slow on insertion with this one. It may be smooth and slide easily but it is large and heavy so it could definitely cause some bruising and soreness if not used properly.

We chose to use this toy only on my man and only for p-spot play once I decided that it wasn't for me. However, women that enjoy a very full, satisfying anal experience may want to try this, and I cant see any reason why (when sanitized of course) it couldn't also be used in the vagina to achieve a similar fullness, and possibly even g-spot stimulation.

We've purchased several prostate toys since this (just for fun and to see what else is out there) and nothing has come close. The shape and weight of this toy make it easier for him to orgasm with it than any other toy. It is so easy to store and care for and such a pleasure to use that a week hasn't gone by since we bought it that it hasn't been used. Still our absolute favorite!!!