First of all, before I get to the review: BIG UPS TO EDENFANTASYS for gifting me with the Bob for the last video rumble. That was very unexpected and very appreciated. Thank you!

With that said. I'm very lucky to have a partner that is every bit as into toys as I am. It's sort of a bonding activity, quality time and such, test driving the newest arrivals from Edenfantasys. Of course, test driving usually consists of me being pleasured by whatever new toy we've received, or occasionally me commissioning him to partake in some strap-on play. I try to pick things up for him that will make him feel more included, but a lot of times I feel like he misses out. It's for this reason that I was so thrilled to get my hands on the Bob. It was a total (insert deity here)-send. LELO makes some of the most decadent luxury toys out there and I couldn't think of any gift more perfect for my most loved one than this pint sized prostate massager.

Measuring in at a mere five inches in length with less than four of those being insertable, with less than an inch in diameter at its widest point, this is no monster of a prostate stimulator. I will admit Bob's dimensions had me just a tad concerned that this little fella wasn't going to be big enough to hit the right spots for my partner. Many greatly beloved butt toys have fallen short for us because my guy is 6'3" when he's slouching, and it seems most prostate toys aren't made with tall dudes in mind.

If I'm perfectly honest, Bob didn't deliver the way that some other toys have. My partner had to do some serious prodding and jiggling and rocking in order to get this to make him moan. And yet? Even though this isn't the sort of toy that zooms right in on his P-spot and mercilessly stimulates it to explosive orgasms, it does provide very pleasurable stimulation. And with a little patience? A pretty damn satisfying climax, according to him.

So I would put this toy decidedly out of our quickie arsenal and confidently place it in our kick back, relax and enjoy some long, teasingly slow and delicious sex arsenal. This does not by any means make it a bad toy, not by a long shot. I'll admit we're sometimes a bit too invested in instant gratification and having a really swanky, sexy toy like this around is a great motivator to take some extra time to really savor our time together. My guy has also likes using this solo by inserting it plug-style, sitting down and watching porn for a good twenty minutes, rocking back and forth on it and slowly working himself up to intense arousal. Only after about a half hour does he manually stimulate himself, and at that point he says it takes about a minute flat to climax and that it's GLORIOUS. Intense, deep, and longer and more um, abundant, than usual.

You can see in the video above that LELO once again accomplishes crazy, super-human stuff with its silicone. Similar to the Ella, the Bob has an incredibly firm, rigid matte silicone design that is virtually inflexible except for where it's needed. The majority of the Bob is so hard it almost feels like velvet cote plastic, but the neck and O-ring are very flexible and squishy so as to be extra kind and gentle to the anus and butt cheeks! What this means for you? Lots of firm pressure in the body - and you'll need it, because it is rather small - so you get maximum stimulation of the prostate. The O-ring is nice and chunky so there's no chance it'll slip up into the rectum during play, but it's also nice and plush so that it doesn't poke or irritate your cheeks. This is definitely a great option for those with more ample booties! The O-ring is a bit on the large side though so it may stick out of a bit, making it a little strange to sit on, but not uncomfortable.

Bob comes in two colors: a beautiful dark burgundy (which looks a little pink in my video due to lighting, but I promise it's not!) and a deep navy blue. My partner and I both really liked that LELO found a way to accomplish a "masculine" feel without resorting to the far too played out black or red template. Masculine doesn't equal no variety, a word to the wise at other companies! The burgundy has a rich, expensive look to it...like warm mahogany wood or something. My partner was very excited to get something in a color other than black, which he's not very fond of.

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This toy comes in LELO's traditional sturdy black cardboard box with the LELO insignia engraved into the lid. It's very handy for storage and will last a long time, but LELO also include a white satin pouch with draw-string for a more space-efficient storage option. Included in the package with your toy is a 10 year warranty along with some information about the toy itself. The warranty is definitely worth holding on to! It's not terribly likely anything will happen to your Bob, but just in case it's good to have tucked away somewhere.

You can clean your Bob with a 10% bleach solution or boil it in hot water for 3-4 minutes to remove most bacteria. These cleaning options are most effective and are highly recommended if you are going to share this toy or insert it vaginally after anal for any reason. For regular old day-to-day cleaning, a vigorous lathering with some anti-bacterial soap and warm water will do just fine. Silicone is 100% non-porous so bacteria cannot be absorbed into the toy, but can only collect on the surface. Therefore, a diligent cleaning should leave your toy quite sanitary. Water and oil based lubes are recommended because silicone based lubes may bond to your Bob leaving a gummy mess behind. Do not store Bob openly with non-silicone soft toys made from materials like TPR, TPE, jelly, rubber and others because silicone can melt or warp the shape of these toys.

But above everything else? ENJOY BOB. Because he's awesome.

Technically it's my boyfriend that still likes this toy. But like it he does! He's such a cutie pie, he kept the box and everything because he loves how fancy the whole affair is. Toy manufacturers: take note! Men like to feel spoiled too, and LELO does an awesome job at making a guy feel like royalty with the Bob.

Even though my partner does say this is just a half an inch shy of being perfect, the density of the silicone puts a lot of pressure on his prostate once he can maneuver Bob to hit it. It's stood up fantastically to regular use - usually a couple of times or more a week since my guy will often slip this in during masturbation. Definitely worth the money.