I love how soft and flexible this toy is. It feels so gentle going in. My boyfriend's body reacted perfectly to the texture and size of the product. We don't use it with a condom, though I suppose one could. Like any plug, getting past the first sphincter was difficult, but my boyfriend said it was a hell of a lot easier to get in than any other plug he's tried before. The best part about this plug is that it stayed in him during intercourse; this is also something we've struggled with in the past, but not with the Ryder. It fits securely and is extremely pleasurable for both of us.

The Ryder really opened me up to anal exploration as well. Beforehand, I wasn't sure if I would like something up my ass. The Ryder is extremely pleasurable and really got me into anal play. It is extremely smooth and rounded in the tip, so it slides in without much pain. It did not hurt as much as I had first expected. It is so smooth - I must re-emphasize that fact. It feels like solid lube because it just slides in and out easily.

This toy is great for both men and women. I am going to buy another one so that my boyfriend and I can both enjoy the plug simultaneously. I would encourage those who are new to anal play to try the Ryder. It may look intimidating at first but it will become your friend in no time. After warming your ass up with fingering and lubricant, turn to the Ryder to get a very full feeling. Having your pussy or cock stimulated at the same time will help ease the plug in. Once it is in, have fun with it! I love to use it in the shower. My boyfriend doesn't even have to be there with me. I'll just take a shower with the Ryder in my ass because it is just that comfortable!

I was extremely unsure of what to get my bisexual boyfriend for Christmas this year. He kept complaining that his current plug was too hard and not flexible at all. This made it pretty hard to find a plug suitable for him. I read a ton of reviews on the Ryder and it looked perfect! I now have it and it is the softest plug I have ever felt. It is extremely flexible and it goes in and out with 100% ease (when used with lots of lube, of course.)

Continues to be a "blast". This is such a great plug and so much more comfortable than I could have imagined.