It is toys like this that show you how different you and your partner can be! This was both our first time with a plug and we were very anxious to use it. The material was very pliable and easy to bend. I was actually the first to use it. After applying a heavy amount of lube (water based), I began the insertion process. I've often used butt-play when masturbating or during intercourse, but I've never used anything made for the anus.

The insertion process was rocky, but once I got it inside, I immediately noted my discomfort. Again, this was a first for me. I pressed through it and allowed my partner to penetrate me, just to see how an orgasm would feel with it inside of me. After about 3 minutes, the discomfort was unbearable so I removed the toy. I think it was just too large for me. Normally, I'm used to just a finger, so an entire object was way too much for me!

However, a few days later, I allowed my partner to use it (after a thorough cleaning, of course). The insertion process was even rockier for him. He admitted mild discomfort, but just as I had, pushed through it. When he actually started penetrating me, he began to really enjoy it. Even though he was paranoid that it was falling out, he had a mind-blowing orgasm with it. He actually plans on using it again. He used it in conjunction with a cock ring and actually enjoyed the plug much more. He rarely ever enjoys butt play, but this was a really great product for him!

The thickness of the product is about the size of an adult male's middle finger. The base fit comfortably on both of us. We honestly had very few complaints about this product, aside from me just not liking it! The product is silicone so only use water-based lubricants with the toy. It is safe to boil and I suggest doing so! The material feels great and slides in gently (if you're used to it!).