Bob is made with men in mind. However, this doesn't mean that only men can use it. Definitely not. I can't speak on behalf of P-spots out there, but my butt loves this plug. If it can deliver such pleasure to me, I can't imagine what it would be able to do for P-spots. This is a great plug for beginners as the diameter is only a little bit thicker than a finger, and it isn't extremely long. The overall shape is very classic and comfortable.
If you are someone who is interested in anal play but don't know where to start, I highly suggest looking into Bob. He is made of body safe materials which means it can be shared and sanitized. Plus, silicone will last for a very long time. The single finger loop handle sits very well between the cheeks making this toy a home run for long term wear. When bent over, the handle sticks out slightly, but it doesn't get in the way when it comes to double penetration sex.
The curve isn't just meant for anal play. If you know that your G-spot is close to the vaginal opening, and you like or prefer shallow penetration, Bob could very well make a wonderful G-spot dildo. Even if you are advanced and you like a stretched feeling vaginally or anally, Bob would be the perfect warm up toy. Find the right sized bullet, and you could turn this into a vibrating vaginal and anal probe. If you can't find a bullet to fit in the loop handle, press any vibrating toy to the handle and you will have an instant vibrating toy. This is one of my husband's favorite tricks esepecially when we are playing with our massaging wands. Boy, that silicone carries vibrations extremely well!

Do you dream in silicone? I do. I dream of the soft silicone that Lelo provides. Their silicone is unlike any other. It feels almost like butter and velvet mixed together. The neck and handle are flexible, but the head is as stiff as can be. I cannot pinch the material in at all. It feels like silicone covered steel! The rigid head makes initial insertion very easy as it does not buckle under pressure. I highly suggest holding the toy right underneath the head when inserting the toy as the flexible neck will bend when pressure is applied. This isn't to say that the toy is floppy. It keeps it shape quite well when held in the air by the handle. There are absolutely no seams on Bob! Even the inside of the handle is smooth and silky. I like to put Bob on my finger and make it spin around. The handle is just like the rest of the toy in the fact that the material cannot be pressed in. The neck of Bob has the Lelo name engraved into it, so fluids and other unmentionable things like to get caught in there.
Silicone is a great material in so many ways. It is non-porous, which means it will not harbor any bacteria. It is free of latex and phthalates. Silicone is hypo-allergenic and an all around body safe material. Unfortunately, it can only be used with water based lubricants. It came without any smells or tastes, but Bob is one of those smell retaining toys. If you notice that your Bob smells funny, it might be time for a good sanitizing.

Bob is a "no bells and whistles" type of toy. It is designed for ultimate stimulation. Fortunately, it was designed with good looks as well. Bob has a tapered tip, and it is very easy to insert. The buttery glide of Lelo's silicone is heavenly. The shaft gently swells to the beginner friendly 1 inch diameter. 1 inch is smaller than two of my fingers put together, and my fingers are fairly small. After the biggest part of the shaft is inserted, it gently tapers back to the thin and slim neck. The neck has a diameter of 1/4 of an inch. Since the neck is flexible, Bob moves with your body whenever you sit down or change sexual positions. The head has raised contour lines, but other than that the body is completely smooth. Be aware that even the flexible neck is rigid in terms of pushing the material in. The entire toy is 4 3/4 inches long, but only 3 1/2 inches of that is insertable. The handle is about 1 1/4 inches long and wide making it a complete circle. The ring of silicone that makes the handle is about 1/8 of an inch thick and 3/4 of an inch deep. The handle has no stretch to it at all, but most fingers will be able to fit. Bob denfinitely looks and feels mroe ergonomic than most butt toys, so thanks for that Lelo! I mainly use this as a warm up plug and a wear around the house plug. Unfortunately, Bob looks like a toy meant for anal use. It fits very well between two bodies, and it makes the perfect toy for partner play.

Bob has proven to be one of the most comfortable anal toys in my collection. It is the first one in a very long time to be perfect for long term wear and sex with my partner. The handle pokes out a bit whenever I bend over to pick something up, but it does not create any unwanted issues. The thick loop of the handle can get a little irritating, but only after wearing it for a long time. The one thing I absolutely love about Bob is that he isn't really a plug. He is a probe. For that reason, the neck tends to slip out a little. This causes my sphincter to tense up and make it slide back in. Gravity is constantly playing tug of war with Bob while it is in me. This motion causes my bum to relax and tighten up contantly. It is like giving my anal muscles a work out! After experiencing this, I know that I want to try the Aneros Tempo. Bob does not require a bunch of lube as it doesn't have very much drag, but it will require multiple lube applications just like any other anal toy being used for long term. I had an Ella, but the end was way too pointy for me. Bob, however, has a wonderful rounded tip. He has never felt pointy to me.

As for using this with my partner, Bob exceeded all of my expectations. We really have trouble finding toys to use for double penetration play because my anus is very close to my vaginal opening. If the base of a toy is too large or thick, it causes pain on my hubby's part as his balls constantly hit or scrape it during certain positions. Bob's loop handle stayed out of the way and caused nothing but pleasure for both of us. The curve of Bob's shaft made my husband's cock press directly up against my G-spot. Talk about seeing stars! The toy stayed in very well, which surprised the heck out of me. I was expecting it to constantly pop out causing us to stop and put it back in. He never popped out. Even during my intense orgasms he managed to stay in. There is no perfect position to use Bob in as they all managed to work well for us.
The pictures below are comparing Bob to Njoy's Pfun plug.

Bob is silicone and can therefore be sterilized. This is perfect for those looking to share this toy with other people and for those who want to use this as an anal and vaginal toy. For everyday quick cleanings, I use warm water and antibacterial soap. Toy wipes and cleaners can also be used to clean this toy. In order to sanitize the toy, you have three options: boiling for 5-10 minutes, wiping down with a 10% bleach solution, or sticking in the top rack of a dishwasher (no soap). The Lelo etching on the sides of the neck likes to collect fluids and such, so pay special attention to this area when cleaning.
Bob's silicone material does not really collect lint and hair, and it doesn't get sticky or tacky after washing it, so he can be stored pretty much anywhere. Luckily, he comes with a wonderful small silk pouch that makes him very easy to stuff into a small space. For this reason, I would definitely travel with Bob. In fact, I would never leave without him. He is my new love.

Even Lelo's more affordable pieces comes in luxurious packaging. The outer sleeve matches the color of whatever Bob you purchased. There is a picture of Bob on one side of this outer sleeve, so it isn't very discreet. However, the inner box is just a plain thick cardboard box. It has the Lelo name on the top lid, but other than that, it does not say or picture anything that might give the contents away. The box holds the Bob, a sample of Lelo's lubricant, a user's manual, the 1 year warranty/10 year guarantee, and the wonderful small silk pouch. The pouch is just large enough to store the Bob, so it fits easily in a purse or other small area. The pouch is closed via drawstrings, and it stays closed pretty well. The drawstrings can be tied if you want to make sure the toy stays in place. The black thick box can also be used for storage if you prefer that to the pouch. I would never hesitate to give a Lelo toy as a gift.