The Spade by Eden Toys is primarily for men and women's anal use, but it can also be used vaginally if the user wishes to do so. It can serve as a plug for long term wear during the day, or it can be used for the purpose of a full feeling during double penetration in women. It can be worn under clothing, in bed, or in the shower, tub or pool if one wishes to do so, as there are no any mechanical parts to worry about and the flared base is efficient in keeping the toy from slipping in and becoming 'lost.' The plug is intended for advanced users due to the circumference, so beginners will need to work their way up to this bad boy's girth. It is certainly not for the faint of heart, nor anus.

It is recommended to use a lube with this item. You will need liberal amounts when using this toy anally, as the silicone tends to be a bit draggy. I would not recommend trying to insert this plug without lube as the toy tends to grab at the sensitive skin and could cause irritation if forced in. Do not use flogging toys while the toy is inserted, as this could cause internal bruising from the size and firmness of the plug. You may travel with this plug if you are not easily embarrassed should TSA check your bags. It can easily be identified for its use.

The Spade anal plug is made from non-porous, hypoallergenic, latex and phthalate-free silicone. It ranks the highest on the Eden safety scale (10/10) due to its resistance to bacterial growth. Users can share silicone toys because they have the ability to be sterilized through boiling. The Spade is made from a firm silicone with a soft, velvety feel that is buttery soft under the fingertips. It is matte in finish but does not have any texture that lends to the stimulation.

There is a manufacturing scent to the silicone, but it goes away when the toy is left out overnight. This scent is more than likely caused by the releasing agent when they mold the silicone. There are not any strange tastes associated with the material, and when licked for the purpose of testing it, it did not leave me with any unsavory flavors in my mouth. While the toy itself is not flexible, the base has flexibility for comfort purposes when wearing the plug. It is not realistic in shape but is not discreet in design either.

The design of the plug is simply as the name implies. It is shaped like that of a spade in the deck of cards and provides both comfort and efficiency while in use. It is not quite the heart shape of the spade in a deck of cards, nor is it as pointy, but these are both good things when it comes to using the product. It's bulbous and has a larger circumference for more advanced users than the usual plug. Its measurements are as follows:

Overall length: 3-3/4"
Insertable length: 3"
Circumference: 6-1/2" at the widest insertion point
Diameter: 2"
Neck circumference: 2"
Neck diameter: 1/2"
Base: 3-1/2" in total length


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The plug features a narrow neck and a curved t-shaped base that is meant for comfort during wear. The overall design and material of the plug are built for comfort and extended use. Beginners should not use this plug and should work their way up to it because of the size to prevent any injuries from occurring.

This is a wonderful plug and works exactly for what it is intended. The base cradles the backside while inserted, and the neck helps grip onto the large size easier. The silicone has a bit of weight to it, so it provides a full feeling while not being so heavy that you'll worry about the plug slipping out constantly. It can be worn comfortably under underwear and clothing and does not bulge out in any visible way while inserted underneath clothes. The base is flexible and moves with you, whether in a seated or walking position and does not get in the way.

Use lots and lots of water-based lubricant with this plug. If you feel like you've used too much, use a bit more. If you'd like, you could implement the use of a lube shooter (a syringe-like tool without a needle attached) to insert water-based lubricant inside of the anus before trying to put this large plug in. Remember to also lubricate the toy itself as well, to make the insertion of the silicone easier. Once inserted, any excess lubricant can be removed from the outside of the body.

The toy doesn't have a suction cup or any other features, but it's a great toy to sit on. It can feel a little pokey at times when seated, but it isn't so bad that it's troublesome, and the friction of the silicone adds to the pleasure of the toy overall if it doesn't become too dry. A lubricant may need to be applied via a lube shooter often, as silicone has a tendency to dry lubricant up faster.

This is a great plug for double penetration, and my partner went wild when she had this inserted anally, and I used a strap-on to penetrate her vaginally. The full feeling drove her mad in minutes, and an orgasm ensued not long after. It's also great when just wearing around the house or out to town if you're feeling adventurous, as it's large enough that you will constantly feel it moving around but discreet enough that no one else will know your secret.

Silicone can be boiled for up to 3 minutes, placed in the top rack of the dishwasher without detergent, bleached in a 5% bleach solution (95% water), wiped down with wipes or toy cleaners, or just simply washed under hot, soapy water. All these methods are efficient in cleaning your toy, but it is recommended that you boil silicone toys at least monthly. While bacteria cannot harbor or grow on silicone, boiling helps to sterilize the material fully and also remove any unwanted scents that might linger on the surface. Boiling should also be done if the toy is being shared as a safety precaution. Toys should always be washed before and after each use.

Dry your toys with a lint-free towel, or simply leave them to air-dry. Silicone attracts lint, dust, and hair like a magnet, so this is the reason for washing your toys before each use. Store silicone toys in a cool, dark, and dry area and do not expose to direct sunlight for extended periods of time. Do not store silicone toys with lesser materials such as TPE, TPR, PVC, Cyberskin, jelly, or rubber as these materials can melt or discolor silicone. Storing silicone toys with other silicone toys is fine as long as you are sure the material is made from 100% silicone. If unsure, store in separate Ziploc or organza bags. You can also store silicone with glass and steel toys without reactions.

If your anal toy retains a scent, simply leave the toy out in a sunny, open area to 'air out' for a few hours. If this doesn't get rid of any unwanted scents, boil the toy or place it in the dishwasher without detergent. You can also store your anal toys with natural potpourris in order to give them a fresh scent. Things such as vanilla beans or coffee beans give the toys a nice scent to open your toy box too. You can also use an anal douche on yourself to remove debris and bacteria before using anal toys to lower the risk of scents becoming attached to the surface of the toys.

Silicone toys should be used with water-based lubricant only . If you'd like to test a hybrid lubricant (silicone and water-based), do so on an inconspicuous spot. Place a small drop on the base or another small area of the toy and leave the lubricant on for a few minutes. If the spot becomes sticky or gummy, wash the toy immediately with soapy water and do not use the lubricant with the toy.

Shipping is always discreet. The toy is shipped in a plain, cardboard box without any indication that it's from an adult store. The only things on the outside of the packaging are the shipping addresses, and it does not say Edenfantasys anywhere on the box. If one were curious they could google the address, but other than that the box is discreet. Inside of the box, there are air pillows to keep the toy from bumping around during transit.



Inside of the box, the toy comes packaged inside of a plain, clear cellophane bag. The only thing on the packaging is a bar code sticker for inventory purposes. There aren't any instructions included with the toy for neither care nor use, but none are truly required for it. Underneath the toy, there was a packing slip in case you have any issues with your toy. There are numbers you can call for exchanges on this slip, and should be kept for reference if needed.

You cannot gift the toy as is in a presentable manner, so the use of a gift box or bag is required. Always let someone know that you are gifting them an adult item in case they are easily embarrassed and would prefer to open the gift in private. All of the packaging can be recycled if needed, but not used for storage.