This was my first anal toy and I went into buying it with what I felt were not unreasonably high hopes. I wanted it for anal penetration during partner sex. This toy still managed to disappoint me. It was not so easily inserted, due to the toy being a little too soft. After that, it just didn't stay in, because the toy's stem-to-bulb ratio wasn't great enough for it to be kept in place during sex. It kept popping out, which is really really not sexy and also just a huge pain. You just can't expect the giving partner to keep one hand busy keeping the thing in for you. This was definitely a mood-killer.

The really disappointing thing was that the toy really exceeded expectations once it was in, however. The size was good, not too big at all. The firmness (though it felt insufficient going in) was also perfect once it was inserted. This made it all the more annoying that it didn't stay in right. The size and shape were not too threatening for beginners but also, in my opinion, enough for someone with more anal experience. It definitely would please a wide variety of users.

I can see how people would want to buy this anyway since it's pretty non-threatening and beginner-friendly. That's what drew me to it. But, if you're looking for something that will stay in during sex once inserted, this is not the toy. I definitely think this could do the trick during foreplay or for warming up to anal sex, however. The material, though cushy feeling, felt nice and not tacky or gross to the touch. Cleanup was pretty easy with soap and water. Since it's rubber you might want to consider using a condom on it if you plan to use it with different partners.