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kinky girlfriend
is it ok to use some materials during your monthly or do u think thats just gross or maybe just in the shower?
my monthly grosses out my boyfriend and I used a red condom once and it helped..forgot the brand where can I get a nice box of red only?
With the exception of laying down a maroon sheet and a maroon towel, and needing to shower after sex every time, our sex life is pretty much the same when I am not menstruating as when I am menstruating. Orgasm helps cramps for me, so it's a must. My Man doesn't care if I have my period, we just use the sheets and the towels (we lay them on top of the regular bed, so they can be taken away and washed after we have sex.)
We have sex once or twice a day and my menstruation lasts often 5 to 7 days, it used to last more. I can't imagine going without sex for that long. Toys are part of at least 3/4 of our sexual encounters, so of course we use them when I have my period.
It's just bodily fluids. It washes off. It isn't "dirty" and it might help your cramps. My Man never had a problem with period sex. I used to tell him he "didn't have to" go down if he didn't want to, but he ignored me and did it anyway. I was glad. I am still glad.
The only time we didn't have regular sex during my period was when I had endometriosis and I had pain all the time, and it was really intense during my period. Except for that time, a year or so, we have had sex during periods, all the time.
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