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Would you ever consider fisting?

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Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Free
I'm open to anything my partner would be interested in, but fisting to me at least looks a little scary. Would you ever consider it?
I've been fisted before and really enjoy it.
05/28/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Quote:
Originally posted by Free
I'm open to anything my partner would be interested in, but fisting to me at least looks a little scary. Would you ever consider it?
It's intriguing but I would be worried about getting stretched so much that sex wasn't that pleasurable any more.
05/28/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Eucaly
It's intriguing but I would be worried about getting stretched so much that sex wasn't that pleasurable any more.
Doesn't happen unless you do it very wrong. The vagina can have a baby pass through it and shrink back up, so a hand isn't going to mess it up.
05/28/2011
Contributor: lunapixie lunapixie
No, it is not something I am interested in.
05/28/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
No, not my thing.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Gotta say, I just don't find the idea of having a whole hand inside me to be anything resembling a turn-on. Fingers, sure. Hand, no. I get a weird sort of "mad scientist" vibe from the thought, actually.
05/29/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
No it is too much for me
05/29/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I've actually considered it. Call me insane, but I have. The thing is, I'm so darn tight! It's like no matter what you do to my pussy, it goes right back to the same size it was in high school!

Therefore, I don't know if it's the best idea right now. Maybe after I've had a kid and things are a little looser.

My only reason for not doing it EVER may be that I want to be as tight as possible. I never want to have that issue where you are just so loose that you need reconstructive surgery.
05/30/2011
Contributor: ChickRocking ChickRocking
Quote:
Originally posted by Free
I'm open to anything my partner would be interested in, but fisting to me at least looks a little scary. Would you ever consider it?
We do vaginal fisting. I love it. The feeling of being stretched is amazing. I will not do anal. I worry too much about tearing and damage being done.
05/30/2011
Contributor: cherie2188 cherie2188
I don't see the point in it. I get plenty of pleasure with a couple fingers, No need for a whole fist. That's an absolutely not for me too!
06/30/2011
Contributor: Summersong Summersong
noooooo
07/03/2011
Contributor: lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
Quote:
Originally posted by Free
I'm open to anything my partner would be interested in, but fisting to me at least looks a little scary. Would you ever consider it?
both giving and receiving fisting is so intimate
07/03/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
kind of to much
07/03/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
This seems a little too scary for me!
07/03/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Its something I have considered will see what happens in the future
07/03/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Definitely not my cup of tea!
08/07/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I've done it but the guy had small hands, larger hands would be too uncomfortable.
08/07/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
I am into and will try many things but I really don't think I can bring myself to try this one.
08/07/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
maybe. if he has big hands, probably not. if he has smaller hands, why not?
08/07/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I can hardly stand it when my gynocologist sticks his hand inside me, so I doubt I would be able to do fisting. A bit too much for me!
08/07/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Maybe if she had tiny hands, but not my husbands hands they are huge.
08/08/2011
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I've been to a place where one of the other girls was fisted they both thought it was hot. She described when his whole hand was up there how he opened and closed his fist and how it all felt.

Me it's been tryed and it's still an impossiable feat. She even tryed with her smaller hands, she kept getting stuck on the pelvic bone. I just figure it's because I've never had a kid come out down there.
08/08/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I think I'm open to it because I love the feeling of being "full". And not just full by a penis or a dildo, but extremely full. You'll often find me buying toys that are thicker. I haven't found any of the right size here on EF but at my local megaplex I've been able to find a lot of really nice, thick dildos and I have myself a pretty large collection.

I was originally worried that I would get "loose" but my vagina goes right back to the same size and is tight as it was when I was 16!

The first time I was fisted was oddly enough on the last day of my honeymoon and it wasn't a horrible experience like I had imagined. It takes a lot of relaxation, a lot of lubricant, and a lot of time. But once you do it it's like nothing. I was surprised how my body opened up so wide yet went back to original size in a day! It gave me a better idea of childbirth, that's for sure haha.

But we bought a book on fisting called "Guide to Fisting". I forget the author but it was really helpful throughout the entire process.
08/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
you should check out these SexIs mag articles on fisting, written by the same author.

your kiss, your fist

and

vaginal fisting is good for you


as well as the thread and poll i created regarding fisting. for the record, i have tried it and found it a spiritual experience. it was incredible and brought my boy and i so much closer together.

fisting, raise your hand?

08/08/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
I tried it . . . but it didn't work 100%.

Funny how The Whole Lesbian Sex Book can make you want to do things like that with hetero partners.
08/09/2011
Contributor: JaxJim JaxJim
Have both received and given. It is the BEST way to give a good prostate massage in my opinion. Love how the bumps of her knuckles "strum" the prostate.

This obviously is an advanced activity and cannot be something to rush in to. You really need to trust your partner when working up to being able to take an entire fist. It's actually easier for a guy since a girls hand is so much smaller.
08/19/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
I think I'm open to it because I love the feeling of being "full". And not just full by a penis or a dildo, but extremely full. You'll often find me buying toys that are thicker. I haven't found any of the right size here on EF ... more
I think a lot of people have the concern that they'll be looser than before, but I haven't had that experience either! And yes, yes, yes- relaxation and LUBE!
08/19/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
I think I'm open to it because I love the feeling of being "full". And not just full by a penis or a dildo, but extremely full. You'll often find me buying toys that are thicker. I haven't found any of the right size here on EF ... more
Also, I wish we had thought about researching it a little more first. We just sort of jumped into it.
08/19/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Nooooooooooooo! hahahaha
I just think it would hurt lol
I don't want my vagina to be strached as if I'm giving birth every night.
08/19/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
Maybe after I've given birth and am already stretched out
08/19/2011