Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:

How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )

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No secrets here either. The only secret I keep is if I get a new piece of lingerie and if he tells me he wants it to be a surprise.

Toys are an important part of our sex life, I wouldn't want any of them to be a secret from him! He's quite egalitarian in his views, and feels all women should have a nice toy collection. less

Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:

How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )

Thank you less

Hello!
I am starting to collect (I guess! ) sex toys...MOST my fiancé has never even SEEN! While I wouldn't mind him discovering my toys, I DO have one or two that I would like to keep my "little secret"!
So, my question is THIS:

How you feel if your guy/girl found your toys?
(or in MY case "box O' toys! )

Thank you less

Firstly, he knows about all of them, and it's probably not the healthiest choice to "hide" things like this from a spouse. I don't think I'd personally be comfortable hiding my toys, and I really wonder what would make one feel the need to be secretive in the first place if the partner hasn't shown any sign of diapproval. I mean, you should be able to share everything with the person you're married to, in a rel. with.

I personally don't like secrecy in the least, and I don't know how nicely I'd feel if I found out he had some toy he felt the need to hide from me. I'd worry about a lot of things then. Like why he thought he had to hide it and all. So I can't give you advice on how to keep secrets from a spouse.

However, you could always just communicate with him about it. I mean, if he's a fiance, it might be a bad idea to be hiding things when the relationship is that serious, and you shouldn't feel you have to keep secrets from someone you plan to marry. I'd have a good, healthy discussion about the toy thing before the big day. Better now than for him to come across a hidden stash, and when something is hidden and if found, it's obvious that a person meant to hide it, and that could raise some issues if he prefers honesty entirely.

If it was a simple new boyfriend, I wouldn't see much wrong with hiding them. But my partner and I have been together for 7 years and it's never been something I've hidden. So I would not care if he came across them.

Hope it goes over well. less