what do you "focus on" during solo play?

Contributor: caramilk caramilk
just curious about what others use to aid in stimulation mentally/visually during solo play. porn can be too distracting but reading something before play is sometimes helpful for me.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
video porn
Amber Sweet , lalalalove , Collogue , matry , Etonia , Pretties , okno0 , Ava , SecretKinksters
9
still images or gifs
literotica
gorgeous , matry , Tigrica , Pretties
4
fan fiction
personal/mental fantasies
Klynn4splat13 , lalalalove , gorgeous , Bill220 , tommy408 , matry , TransMarc , Etonia , Tigrica , Pretties , DirtyAngel7 , C&K0143 , okno0 , SecretKinksters
14
none of the above
LAndJ , ilovemysex , edeneve
3
Total votes: 30 (20 voters)
Poll is closed
07/13/2013
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Contributor: Klynn4splat13 Klynn4splat13
Granted it's personal/mental fantasies that finish the job but it's video porn that most often starts it.
07/14/2013
Contributor: lalalalove lalalalove
Quote:
Originally posted by caramilk
just curious about what others use to aid in stimulation mentally/visually during solo play. porn can be too distracting but reading something before play is sometimes helpful for me.
Either a fantasy or porn, and the pleasure!
08/05/2013
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
Mostly personal fantasies/thoughts but on occasion I'll indulge myself in some kinky or BDSM internet porn.
08/07/2013
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Mostly concentrate on the feel itself.
08/10/2013
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
To myself.
08/11/2013
Contributor: Etonia Etonia
Many times I'll use porn to get me going, but sometimes I just get plain horny and just indulge myself to the feelings hehe.
08/11/2013
Contributor: dm dm
If I start to think about someone other than my wife that usually last for a short time but I always end up thinking about her. I consider myself a lucky man?
08/17/2013
Contributor: Pretties Pretties
Depends on my mood and where I am - I often get put into the mood by a story, then move to porn and my mind has wandered to a fantasy of my own by the time I reach orgasm!
08/17/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I focus on what my body is feeling.
08/17/2013
Contributor: DirtyAngel7 DirtyAngel7
Quote:
Originally posted by caramilk
just curious about what others use to aid in stimulation mentally/visually during solo play. porn can be too distracting but reading something before play is sometimes helpful for me.
Mainly personal/mental fantasies for me. I tend to get really into it and kinda zone out and end up saying things to myself like my guy says to me. Sometimes I read, or I'll write out things and get myself turned on. Sometimes, I don't need anything, I'm able to just jump right in and enjoy the ride. : )
08/17/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Porn and/or personal fantasies.
08/20/2013