Trying anal for the 1st time.

Contributor: JadeGreen19 JadeGreen19
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The first time I wore a simular outfit it made my fiancee want to try anal. Something about the look of the outfit made him feel i was up for the dirty risk. Did anyone actually enjoy the first time they tried anal? The first time I tried it, it was so painful I didn't wanna continue anything. Then he suggested me get ontop and let me be in control and I (to my surprise) I enjoyed it!
01/19/2013
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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
My first try was so painful. We continued to try after that and it was still terrible! Finally recently he was able to get all the way in and finish. It was still pretty uncomfortable and I couldn't get over the feeling of needing to use the bathroom. I want to love it, so we will keep trying
01/19/2013
Contributor: QueenOfPain QueenOfPain
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Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
My first try was so painful. We continued to try after that and it was still terrible! Finally recently he was able to get all the way in and finish. It was still pretty uncomfortable and I couldn't get over the feeling of needing to use the ... more
i'm way too nervous to try. i have ulcerative colitis, and well, i tend to have some poop issues...so yeah...i'm way too scared to try!
01/20/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We're new to anal - but with adequate lube and preparation it quite enjoyable.
01/20/2013
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
My first time was okay at best. I really didn't enjoy it with the person I was with at the time as he was too rough. For anal play I really believe that being "primed and prepped" is the best approach. The more turned on you are when you try it the more you may like it.

I love it now with Hubby. He takes his time and gets me ready so that by the time we do the deed it doesn't hurt at all.

The best tip is lots of lube!
01/20/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I loved my first time. But I'd also been practicing with toys for a long time before I had anal sex, so I was pretty prepared and knew I would like it.
01/20/2013
Contributor: wanderer5964 wanderer5964
my first time wasnt real painful. it was different and somewhat uncomfortable. i really love it! and glad that he took it slow and let me get a feel from it then just going full force.
01/20/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
The first time my SO and I attempted anal, we failed pretty badly. Even though we warmed up and used an astronomical amount of lube, things just wouldn't fit. Fortunately, it wasn't too painful for her--I went as slowly as possible and made sure she told me to back off at the first signs of pain--so we both decided to try again later. I'm pretty sure that the anticipation and stress of "the first time" was the source of that initial failure, since the second attempt worked out great for both of us!
01/20/2013