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Do you have toys that you can't use? (beyond your ability, I mean)

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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Coralbell
I have a couple of toys I can't use, but I didn't know I wouldn't be able to use them when I bought them. At least they helped me discover what my body can and can't handle. I'm still drawn to some toys that I know won't work ... more
This. Different materials and shapes also mean I can't use some toys and I don't necessarily know it until I try it
11/22/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I have a Big Boy and while I can fit it in and keep it in if I'm careful, it's so uncomfortible that I can't stand to keep it in longer than a few minutes. One time I suffered through fifteen minutes of it and felt like I was kicked in the balls the rest of the day.
11/23/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by Antipova
So... I own a Tantus Cowboy. It's 16" long and 2.75" in diameter at the largest bulge. Right now, anally, I can take about 1.75", and vaginally, about 2".

I bought the Cowboy when it was on a huge sale, and ... even ... more
ive baught topys i thought i could use only to discover i couldnt or were too small in person thenw hat iw a slooking for
11/23/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I won a Tantus Rascal in white (pearly, kinda) and I've never been able to use it. It's far too large for me and at this point, I just keep hoping someone in the toyswap will want it eventually. I've also got a glass anal plug that I can't use at the moment but I think I'll be able to eventually. Working my way up
12/02/2011
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
I have several butt plugs I barely use due to my fussy butt...
12/07/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Dont' buy anything I can't use. I have smaller toys that don't get much use.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I have a couple larger butt plugs that I can't accommodate yet, but I'm working up to them.
12/07/2011
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
umm i try to stay away from those bc if i spend the money i want to use the money out of it!
12/07/2011
Contributor: kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
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Originally posted by Antipova
So... I own a Tantus Cowboy. It's 16" long and 2.75" in diameter at the largest bulge. Right now, anally, I can take about 1.75", and vaginally, about 2".

I bought the Cowboy when it was on a huge sale, and ... even ... more
For me, it's mostly materials. Jelly really doesn't do well with my body, for example. I've since stopped buying jelly toys. There was a toy just a little too big for me, however. It's about 3 in diameter at its widest. I can barely do 1 3/4 in diameter vaginally.
12/07/2011
Contributor: pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
Even the larger toys can usually be used part way, or for teasing
12/07/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I have been DRAWN to some, but so far I've never bought one that I can't use. I'd rather get it once I can than spend the money right right now.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I've got the Beginner Ball Gag from Tantus, but since I have a small mouth I can't do much with it in or I start choking. As an experiment, I intend to get an Exacto knife or something like that and seeing if I can shave it down to a usable size.

I also had their Silk Large for a while, but due to its size, shape, and firmness it was difficult to insert and painful to use, so I ended up boiling and re-homing it. Sometimes I see toys like the Eleven or the Platinum Jack Rabbit and knowing they're a bit too big but still thinking, "Someday..."
12/30/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Yeah, the Cowboy is definitely one that few of us (me neither) can fully use.
12/30/2011
Contributor: Dreaus Dreaus
Bought a plug that I thought said was 4.5 inches in circumfrence. Turns out it was 4.5 inches in diameter.
Lol oh well. Good lesson learnt. Always read size carefully
12/31/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by Dreaus
Bought a plug that I thought said was 4.5 inches in circumfrence. Turns out it was 4.5 inches in diameter.
Lol oh well. Good lesson learnt. Always read size carefully
4.5" diameter?! Holy fucknuggets, the largest anal toys I've ever seen were still under 3".
01/02/2012
Contributor: Dreaus Dreaus
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
4.5" diameter?! Holy fucknuggets, the largest anal toys I've ever seen were still under 3".
Lol. Seriously, the thing weighs like 5 pounds. On the plus side.... Makes a good doorstop or bookend!
01/02/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I'm officially changing my vote on this to "no" now...
01/02/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by Antipova
I know, right? Or pose in fun videos:


But seriously I'm really glad I own it, I love looking forward to the day I'll be able to use it.
That video brought me so much glee, you have no idea.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Yossarian Yossarian
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I'm officially changing my vote on this to "no" now...
... are congratulations in order, or did you throw something out?
01/03/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
So... I own a Tantus Cowboy. It's 16" long and 2.75" in diameter at the largest bulge. Right now, anally, I can take about 1.75", and vaginally, about 2".

I bought the Cowboy when it was on a huge sale, and ... even ... more
I have toys that I bought that were way way too big for me. The G4 big boss was painfully large for me. I didn't realize my vagina was so small, maybe a good thing, maybe a bad thing who knows.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I have a few that I don't use because the vibrations are too weak to do anything for me, but none that are too big. I don't buy things I know are too big.
03/16/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
I have problems sometimes using the dildo I have right now. It took a lot of practice and it still takes a lot of warming up to get me ready for it.
03/16/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
I have one toy that I haven't tried yet. It is larger than an other toy I own, but I am confident that when I take the time to warm up to it I will be able to take it. Then again, maybe not... it is huge!
10/31/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I don't have anything that I can't use.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Things large in girth or length are ones I need to progress to.
10/31/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
I have one dildo that I never use because it requires too much warmup and doesn't seem worth the effort, but technically I can use it. It's not even my biggest, it's the third biggest, but I like the other two big ones more.

I'm generally pretty careful in my ordering, though, and I'd never order something I couldn't use unless I was afraid it was my last chance to get it, like when Jollies was disappearing and I bought everything I could from them. All of which I've since used on multiple satisfying occasions.
10/31/2012
Contributor: friendly friendly
I'm in love with my G4 tiger and I knew I wanted him for my first toy but I can barely take in over have of him. I just excited to know that one day I will...I freaking love the toy!
11/01/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
So... I own a Tantus Cowboy. It's 16" long and 2.75" in diameter at the largest bulge. Right now, anally, I can take about 1.75", and vaginally, about 2".

I bought the Cowboy when it was on a huge sale, and ... even ... more
Yes, I bought one online from a place not near as great as EF, so I didn't realize how massive it was! Needless to say, it didn't really fit.
11/01/2012
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
I have a plug that I just can't take. Maybe one day...
02/23/2013
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I have some solid metal cock rings that I can't work my cock and balls through.
02/23/2013