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Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
So, many of you have probably at least thought about having a threesome with your partner...but have you ever looked into it?

When I was searching for the right girl to bring into the bedroom with me and my man I ran in to several issues.

1. Almost everyone I found who was attractive was a swinger, and wanted full partner swaps...daunting much?!
2. I didn't know if me (or my partner) would get jealous in this swinging type situation.
3. I was way more worried about STDs and such having to consider the safety of two new people in the relationship!

The solution...well, that's a long story. Let's stick to the question. Could your jealous handle doing swinging? Could your worry for saftey (especially if non steralizable toys are going to be used!) handle the dangers your mind found in swinging? Swingers, I'd love your take here!
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07/25/2012
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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
So, many of you have probably at least thought about having a threesome with your partner...but have you ever looked into it?

When I was searching for the right girl to bring into the bedroom with me and my man I ran in to several ... more
I could definitely not. Jealousy and worry would consume me.
07/26/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
So, many of you have probably at least thought about having a threesome with your partner...but have you ever looked into it?

When I was searching for the right girl to bring into the bedroom with me and my man I ran in to several ... more
I voted other because there's far more to cheating and than worry and jealousy! It's called love and monogamy, wanting to be faithful loyal and loving them therefore only desiring them. No, it's not a matter of COULD I handle it. It's WOULD I? And no. I'm far too good.
07/26/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
We discussed it for a time. We decided we were both too jealous for it and that it could likely end our relationship. We weren't willing to risk that and decided against it.
07/26/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband ggets jealous of me inserting dildos or insertable vibes, there's no way he could handle another mans penis in there.
07/26/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
We talked about it and decided not worth it
07/26/2012
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Me and my partner know we wouldn't be able to. We're a little possessive over each other and don't like the idea of sharing the other.
07/26/2012
Contributor: klyte klyte
Maybe. Probably not, though.
07/26/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
I voted other because there's far more to cheating and than worry and jealousy! It's called love and monogamy, wanting to be faithful loyal and loving them therefore only desiring them. No, it's not a matter of COULD I handle it. It's ... more
Totally agree!
07/26/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Been there, done that, it was okay. I prefer monogamy.
07/26/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
So, many of you have probably at least thought about having a threesome with your partner...but have you ever looked into it?

When I was searching for the right girl to bring into the bedroom with me and my man I ran in to several ... more
doubt it
07/26/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I've done it with no issues or jealousy, but I know my current partner has no interest, so I won't be doing it anymore.
07/26/2012
Contributor: Phoenix67 Phoenix67
I said other...'cause we've actually discussed it before, and while I would love having another girl, I wouldn't want my hubby to touch her! Just me! haha Selfish, right? But he says that's what he wants too sooo...I'm not sure. We probably won't try it, though.
07/26/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
its not for me
07/26/2012
Contributor: Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
I would never..
07/26/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I wouldn't mind trying it out.
07/26/2012
Contributor: rom323 rom323
what was your solution, as we are having the same issue.
07/26/2012
Contributor: princessss princessss
No thank you!
07/26/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I've never done it because of my partner's jealousy but I'm not jealous at all, and yes safety is an issue but I wouldn't bring anyone into my bedroom that I didn't trust and I'd use precautions with anyone I'm not fluid bonded with
07/26/2012
Contributor: lomejo61 lomejo61
Im certainly curious!
07/26/2012
Contributor: MrPink MrPink
I voted other because I have not approached this subject with my current girlfriend. We both have some pansexual interests but don't know how they weigh against other factors. There are definite jealousy issues as far as full relationships are involved but at least I know I separate sexual encounters from true intimacy, so it would really come down to her comfort with this.

Ultimately it would come down to having another partner help us live out a specific, mutual set of fantasies. We both have major interests in domination and role play so keeping activities under control could prove easy. Some compromise would have to happen with the outside partner(s) to ensure we're fair to them.

I too am interested in hearing how you settled this, the outside experience is always welcome.
07/27/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
Nope not for us. My bf would never be able to share me
07/28/2012
Contributor: cutiefairyprincess cutiefairyprincess
id consider it. Dont know if I could actually do it though.
08/01/2012
Contributor: Abombadong Abombadong
No way Jose!
08/01/2012
Contributor: shannyshann shannyshann
I'm not sharing my man with ANYONE else.
08/02/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
along time ago i had some 3 somes but no way if im in a real relatitionship
08/03/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
I'm NOT sharing my man with anyone. and he doesn't want to share me. I've had a three some before but that was when I was single and didn't care about either person. it might be right for some people but for me it's not. I feel like no matter what at least one person is going to feel some amount of jealousy even if they think they wont. and I'd never want to risk ending this relationship. plus I know (and he knows) that I am more than enough woman to please him
08/03/2012
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
So, many of you have probably at least thought about having a threesome with your partner...but have you ever looked into it?

When I was searching for the right girl to bring into the bedroom with me and my man I ran in to several ... more
We tried swining, but jumped in too soon, we thought we found a good couple to play with, but as soon as we hesitated the full swap, they got all butt hurt about it, and started drama. we haven't dabbled since then. I would love to try again, but hubby is still hesitant, because we had a bad experience the first time around.
09/06/2012
Contributor: mbrdr2012 mbrdr2012
Sharing is over rated!
09/06/2012