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Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
For newbies to playing in BDSM, with a very Vanilla husband. Crop or Flogger. I like the crops but have never used one.
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Contributor: brevado brevado
I think for a starter, either would actually work.
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Contributor: smlove smlove
I prefer floggers cause I like thuddy pain instead of stingy pain. Crops tend to be more stingy. Maybe ask him what his preference of pain may be. Or test both out lightly, and see what he likes.
08/16/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Try them both.
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Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I like crops best.
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Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I would love to try both.
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Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I really like those crops!
08/19/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by travelnurse
For newbies to playing in BDSM, with a very Vanilla husband. Crop or Flogger. I like the crops but have never used one.
The flogger won't sting as much as the riding crop would. If I were trying to get someone into BDSM I'd go for a flogger... Good luck!
08/29/2012
Contributor: RoseIsSoPretty RoseIsSoPretty
Quote:
Originally posted by travelnurse
For newbies to playing in BDSM, with a very Vanilla husband. Crop or Flogger. I like the crops but have never used one.
FLOGGER!!!
08/29/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
flogger!
12/03/2012
Contributor: bog bog
Floggers with tails have a bit of a learning curve. You can't go wrong with a crop!
12/03/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
Floggers are great for starting out with, lots more room to play around with sensations and more ways to use.
12/03/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I LOVE a flogger - but a crop can make you SCREAM!
....so I'll go with a crop.
12/03/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Go for a flogger! I think they're a little more vanilla and much more versatile.
12/03/2012
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
I like both but for a first timer I would suggest a flogger as you can stroke the tails over your skin if you find you don't enjoy being hit with one as much as you were hoping to.
12/04/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We've used a crop and a slapper/paddle for mild patting of gentiles. We may ramp up the heat a little, but not into pain.

The narrow slapper is my wife's favorite - I prefer the crop.
12/04/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We've used a crop and a slapper/paddle for mild patting of gentiles. We may ramp up the heat a little, but not into pain.

The narrow slapper is my wife's favorite - I prefer the crop.
I know you meant "genitals" and not "gentiles" but that typo made me laugh my ass off. Maybe because I'm a Jew, but still.

I love my mini crop top system! I have the Fashionistas whip, but I haven't tried it out yet. It is a beautiful looking flogger, though.
12/04/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Probably a flogger for a beginner, but I prefer crops.
12/04/2012
Contributor: LunaDragon LunaDragon
Flogger but the crop can be fun too.
12/04/2012
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I prefer a flogger. I like to be able to put a little oomph behind a hit without causing too much pain. A crop is very stingy without a lot of power, and that takes a little bit of the fun out for me.
12/04/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Flogger first, followed by crop. They're inexpensive.
12/04/2012
Contributor: ArcaneBlast ArcaneBlast
Crops look great to pose with and are less intimidating than being flogged
12/05/2012
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
I prefer floggers
04/29/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by travelnurse
For newbies to playing in BDSM, with a very Vanilla husband. Crop or Flogger. I like the crops but have never used one.
we started off with a crop now we have several and we have a flogger or two also
04/29/2013
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by travelnurse
For newbies to playing in BDSM, with a very Vanilla husband. Crop or Flogger. I like the crops but have never used one.
Flogger!
04/29/2013
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Whatever works- sometimes variety is good, but either option is fun
04/29/2013