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Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
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Dr. Dick on Demand: The Self-Sexological Exam
I love Dr. Dick. His post this week got me to thinking about how hard it really is for some women to actually "get there", to get that orgasm.

Did you have difficulty learning to orgasm? Or was it easy for you? Either way, how did you first learn? Hands, fingers, humping "stuff"? A sex toy?

I'm curious.

(p.s. I used to stick my mom's electric razor in my pillow case, turn it on and hump it and the pillow. I KNOW it's kinda icky but I was ten, damn it!)
08/31/2009
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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08/31/2009
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I love Dr. Dick. His post this week got me to thinking about how hard it really is for some women to actually "get there", to get that orgasm.

Did you have difficulty learning to orgasm? Or was it easy for you? Either way, how did ... more
Oh goodness... Thank you for the PS...I have an 11 year old daughter.

I guess, for me, it a little bit of everything - but I had the most success with toys. This was probably 13 or 14 years ago, and it changed what I thought an orgasm was. My "Oh, O" moment.
08/31/2009
Contributor: Saraid Saraid
I didn't masturbate until I was 15 because I was told it was dirty. When I did it was just with my hands. I actually wasn't sure what had happened to me and then thought, "Oh, orgasm."
08/31/2009
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
The g-spot was easy but the clitoral orgasm I had no idea about.

The first time I had an orgasm it was a g-spot one the first time I had sex with my now husband. The first time I had a clitoral orgasm was just a fluke. Hubby and I were having sex in a sitting up position on the couch with me on top. Something about the way I was rubbing up against him set it and me off. I was like Holy $#it!!!!!!!!!!! I had no idea. LOL!!!

As far as masturbation went, I was somewhere in my 20's before I ever even tried it. I know, I was late compared to most.
08/31/2009
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I didn't masturbate at all when I was young because I hated my bod and wasn't too interested in touching anything more than was necessary to keep things clean. After I started having sex, none of my partners ever managed to bring me to the "big O" so I just assumed I was one of those women who couldn't orgasm. Then I met Alan and the first time we did anything he introduced some finger play on the clit and it hit me. I was like WTF WAS THAT?! I wasn't even sure what had happened at first, and he was shocked that I'd never had one before.
08/31/2009