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Requirements to achieve orgasm - What are yours? (directed at women)

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Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
My needs have changed a bit since I first started having orgasms, and what I didn't used to think was possible is now the only way I can even get off. So, in order for you to get off, do you need:

(Penetration meaning vaginal. I forgot to add anal, but it won't let me adjust the poll now, so just group that in with the "Let me explain" option)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
17  (7%)
171  (70%)
4  (2%)
20  (8%)
31  (13%)
Total votes: 243
Poll is open
10/17/2010
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Contributor: Alicia Alicia
The only thing I HAVE to have is clitoral stimulation. Of course, I get much more satisfying orgasms when penetration is involved.
10/17/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
I absolutely have to have direct clitoral stimulation. Everything else just adds to the foreplay, escalation, and final intensity.
10/17/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I need clitoral AND penetration. I really need both, otherwise its reall hard.
10/17/2010
Contributor: kittycordo kittycordo
I need clitoral, and nipple play helps. At the moment I'm having trouble having an orgasm due to health issues. I'm toying with the idea of toys, but don't know what to spend my money on.
Ideas most welcome!
10/17/2010
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
I also have to have direct clitoral stimulation, along with some some audio help (love naughty moans, groans and words).
10/17/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I put all of the above only because I can reach orgasm with each of these including anal. I prefer clitoral orgasm, but love all of them
10/17/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The pole is poorly designed - my wife relies on penetration and clitoral stimulation - but not nipple stimulation - not an option in your poll. Allowing multiple voting would have been a better choice.
10/17/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Clit, pretty much.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
@Gunsmoke: I tried to go back and change that as soon as I posted it, but you can't change anything in the poll. That's what the "let me explain" option was for, to explain different combinations.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Unconventional
@Gunsmoke: I tried to go back and change that as soon as I posted it, but you can't change anything in the poll. That's what the "let me explain" option was for, to explain different combinations.
Understand - I've learned the hard way not to rush things. Proofing is the key.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
LOL, yep. I always read everything twice, but apparently that still isn't enough. I always end up forgetting something. I blame it on having kids, haha.
10/18/2010
Contributor: clp clp
'Don't stop in the home stretch'. My only requirement.
10/19/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
Quote:
Originally posted by clp
'Don't stop in the home stretch'. My only requirement.
Haha, no kidding! I've just learned to say "don't stop" when I'm getting close. Takes away any confusion, lol!
10/20/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Nipples. They are the key to my orgasm powers.
10/20/2010
Contributor: VampKitty VampKitty
It depends on how my body wants to act that day. Usually it's penetration, but sometimes I need to have clitoral stimulation.
10/20/2010
Contributor: toygirl toygirl
I'm jealous of those who can with penetration. I'm trying to find that "sweet spot" but nothing hits the spot like clit stimulation. My husband doesn't understand that we are all different and ends up thinking it's his fault... SOOO not the case!
10/20/2010
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
Clit stimulation and preferably penetration. Can with just clit stimulation but it's a lot more difficult.
10/20/2010
Contributor: Sensual husband Sensual husband
I will answer for my wife....She need clitoral stimulation..
10/21/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Penetration because I am so excited about having discovered g-spot orgasms and ejaculation.
10/21/2010
Contributor: crazypao crazypao
Quote:
Originally posted by Unconventional
Haha, no kidding! I've just learned to say "don't stop" when I'm getting close. Takes away any confusion, lol!
I know, right? I need to start saying something because it seems like every time I'm getting close, he changes the rhythm and it messes everything up.
10/22/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by Unconventional
My needs have changed a bit since I first started having orgasms, and what I didn't used to think was possible is now the only way I can even get off. So, in order for you to get off, do you need:

(Penetration meaning vaginal. I forgot to ... more
Clitoral, and G-spot angled vaginal.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Quote:
Originally posted by Alicia
The only thing I HAVE to have is clitoral stimulation. Of course, I get much more satisfying orgasms when penetration is involved.
Agreed. Foreplay doesn't do much for me, actually, just those two.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Oh, and pain. I need some-a that in there
10/26/2010
Contributor: Destri Destri
It's all about the clit for me... and talking dirty helps!
10/26/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I absolutely need clitoral attention to orgasm, and a good flogging or nipple clamps couldn't hurt... the situation I mean.
10/28/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Clitoral or penetration will do the trick.
11/01/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
all of the above will work for me!
11/05/2010
Contributor: jdloelo jdloelo
clitoral stimulation is a must have for me.
11/24/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I only need clitoral stimulation, but penetration, nipple stimulation, anal, dirty talk...they all make it a lot better.
12/02/2010