Men: Finding your Prostate

Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
Hi all,
I'm a new member of Eden and was looking for some feedback. I have tried to find my prostate or p-spot for well over a year now. I have attempted this solo and with my girlfriend. We've used fingers, her G spot vibrator, a glass G-spot wand, the Pro-pal for men, and an Aneros prostate toy. I want to know about your experiences with this. I think I may have found my prostate, but it was not a mind blowing occurrence like the ones I've read about. Am I doing something wrong? Or does it just not do anything for me in particular?

Would appreciate some input, Thanks!
07/14/2012
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Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Boyfriend
Hi all,
I'm a new member of Eden and was looking for some feedback. I have tried to find my prostate or p-spot for well over a year now. I have attempted this solo and with my girlfriend. We've used fingers, her G spot vibrator, a glass ... more
This thread is mirroring my experiences, how appropriate.
07/16/2012
Contributor: MrPink MrPink
I have not tried extensive searching but I found prostate stimulation to be rather underwhelming myself. Perhaps we were not quite hitting the spot correctly but it did not do much for me. Sorry for not being much help but at least you know you're not an oddball for not getting much out of this. Perhaps some men just don't feel as much from this.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by MrPink
I have not tried extensive searching but I found prostate stimulation to be rather underwhelming myself. Perhaps we were not quite hitting the spot correctly but it did not do much for me. Sorry for not being much help but at least you know ... more
Glad to hear I'm not the only one.
07/19/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Quote:
Originally posted by Boyfriend
Hi all,
I'm a new member of Eden and was looking for some feedback. I have tried to find my prostate or p-spot for well over a year now. I have attempted this solo and with my girlfriend. We've used fingers, her G spot vibrator, a glass ... more
You're definitely not alone in this. I've been playing around with prostate stimulation for an equally long time, and I also struggle to get any really pleasurable sensations from it. It can be disheartening when you hear about people achieving anal orgasms, and having that seem like a million miles away for you.

My only advice would be to keep trying different toys, because you might stumble on something that works in the most unexpected place. Electrostim butt plugs are always an idea, for example. I found that the ridges on the Tantus Echo are actually good for stimulating the prostate if you thrust quite rapidly with it.
07/19/2012