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Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I'm going to try to explain how I've been "in love" 3 times.
Two of those times, I was young and rather inexperienced. But I loved my partners whole heartedly. I would have done anything to make them happy. I loved as fully as I possibly could, as fully as I knew how to at that point in my life.
Now that I'm a bit more experienced, I have a deeper understanding of love, what it is to be "in love". Maybe as I age more, gain more life experience, my understanding will grow even more. But up to this point in my life, I consider myself to have been "in love" 3 times, even though my current love is so much deeper than my loves of the past.
12/17/2011
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
just once...
12/28/2011
Contributor: InnocentISwear InnocentISwear
Quote:
Originally posted by emiliaa
Three times, but a few more if you count the beginning of love and someone being too big of an asshole to allow it to develop. I don't really know if it counts.
Ditto this.
12/29/2011
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
Quote:
Originally posted by liilii080
Third time was the charm. We're looking at rings and will be official any day now... (The wait is excruciating!!!)
Congrats!
12/29/2011
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
Lust many... many times.

Love, 4. I am a cancer. I fall fast and I fall hard. But I don't regret any of it. Each and every experience has made me who I am, and for that I am thankful.
12/29/2011
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
I fall in love as often as I can.
12/29/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
It's really hard to say, sometimes I look back and question if I really was in love. I've only been in two relationships that merited actual, mutual, exclusive love. But I've "fallen in love" more times than I can count, being the helpless romantic that I am.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
First time was puppy love, and the second for keeps. Many, many crushes in between
01/19/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
Not yet! hopefully someday
01/20/2012
Contributor: CrystaCat CrystaCat
I am in love now but have been in love with someone else once before sometimes i wish things tutrd out diffrrently
01/20/2012
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
how many times have you been in love?
one time and its with the guy I am with and have been for four years, sadly we are having some major issues mostly coming from him and it looks like it may not last another year..
01/20/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
I've been in love twice. One ended badly but gave me a beautiful little boy so I will never ever regret it and the second was mutual but still sad. We still talk but bot as much.
01/20/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I've THOUGHT that I was love but I realized that it was more of a tolerance in some cases and in another more like infatuation/obsession.
02/06/2012
Contributor: freda freda
once
02/06/2012
Contributor: Nkev Nkev
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
how many times have you been in love?
once and i want to keep it this way!
02/07/2012
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
lust, lots.
i thought i was in love before, but now that i am in a real relationship and madly in love and planning a future i have realized that before wasn't really love at all.
02/08/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
I fall in love everyday.
02/08/2012
Contributor: te te
Been in true love only once.
02/08/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
Three times here and that's enough for me!
02/14/2012
Contributor: armywife2425 armywife2425
I have been in love only once and I am now married to the man after meeting and being with him I have realized that what I thought was love in the past was just lust
02/14/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Many times.

I've also fallen out of love about as many times.
02/14/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Many times.

I've also fallen out of love about as many times.
That's about my view too; maybe it was 'puppy love' but well, I included it all!!!
02/14/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
i regret both times ...
I think one was more of a lust thing though.
02/27/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
how many times have you been in love?
once
02/27/2012
Contributor: snuggly snuggly
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
how many times have you been in love?
Just once.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
how many times have you been in love?
I was so inlove with my ex husband... but since we got devorced..i just dont even know any more and we were married for 10 years. its soooo complicated.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Looking back, it's hard to tell sometimes if it was lust or love. I think as I am getting older, I have myself figured out
02/27/2012
Contributor: Wide Awake Daydream Wide Awake Daydream
Twice. First one was blind-stupid-jump face first and hit the pavement love and the second is now my husband of almost 8 years
02/27/2012
Contributor: hippie hippie
but been in lust many many times over
02/28/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
Quote:
Originally posted by Chevylady37
how many times have you been in love?
been in love 2 times
02/28/2012