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Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
Sometimes my man will start getting into things and leave the television on. It can be really distracting and ruin the mood sometimes. Anyone else have that problem?
Kill your T.V.!!
03/15/2011
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by TumorCrunch
th a such a good question. it distracts me to the point where if it's on, and i'm near it, i'll cum without realising it for like a minute :/
Ooh! No fun!
03/15/2011
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
I hate TV in general, definitely don't want it on during sex!
03/15/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
no sex during tv. it feels too strange. we at least turn the volume down.
03/15/2011
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
Sometimes my man will start getting into things and leave the television on. It can be really distracting and ruin the mood sometimes. Anyone else have that problem?
I like music in the background no TV please!!
03/15/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
Sometimes my man will start getting into things and leave the television on. It can be really distracting and ruin the mood sometimes. Anyone else have that problem?
glad to know it isnt just me!
03/16/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
I like some porn in the background sometimes to help "up" the mood but regular TV... I suppose it can be distracting but we're usually too busy getting busy to notice.
03/17/2011
Contributor: nicky51679 nicky51679
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Originally posted by Kaltir
I don't think there's much that can distract me, lol. I'm too used to background noise allll day long anyhow.
ditto. with 4 girls in the house all under the age of 8, we are used to blocking out the noise.
03/17/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
HUH? Did someone say something? The TV is on, I missed that.
03/18/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
The TV HAS to be off, because I'm very easily distracted. And I guess it doesn't help that my husband usually has some sort of comedy show on.
03/18/2011
Contributor: zracer zracer
I tune it out all the time
03/18/2011
Contributor: The Unnamed The Unnamed
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Originally posted by M121212
TOTALLY!!!!!!
2nd
03/21/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
This is precisely why we don't have a TV in our bedroom.
03/21/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Quote:
Originally posted by ichwillwaffels
Sometimes my man will start getting into things and leave the television on. It can be really distracting and ruin the mood sometimes. Anyone else have that problem?
perfer for the tv to be off , is a bit of a distraction for me
03/24/2011
Contributor: jankit jankit
We turn that off because we both distract very easy. Kind of a boner-killer when our sweet nothings consist of "HEY." and "PAY ATTENTION, MAN/WOMAN."
03/24/2011
Contributor: The Unnamed The Unnamed
yes
03/24/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I'm totally a hater when it comes to television. I would definitely not be okay with it being on during sex, especially coz my man has ADD, haha.
03/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by tickle me pink
The TV HAS to be off, because I'm very easily distracted. And I guess it doesn't help that my husband usually has some sort of comedy show on.
A comedy show. LOL! Laughing while going down. Cute.

Although, yesterday morning we were both into a new (for us) DVD Anal Princess Diaries We kept it on while we got it on and it was not really distracting. We had the sound down. We usually put the sound down, because we have kids. *sigh* I never know what they are saying on the video. My Man says "It doesn't matter. Does it?" I guess not. The video has kind of a plot, but we were fast forwarding through the plot stuff until we got into bed (we usually watch porn in the chair, starting, petting, some oral, playing until it "time" to go to bed and go on) and then we let it play.

I was proud of myself that I didn't let it distract me (and I do like the video, so it seemed to help, if I peeked during it) and he did spend enough time paying attention to what he was doing.

It worked out well for us yesterday morning. It was one of those near perfect sex sessions. I love that.
03/28/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
we turn it off, there have been though few random times when a god awful commercial has come on and totally destroyed the mood. I don't even like to have music playing anymore, after a bad moment during the song T.N.T.
04/18/2011
Contributor: Sebmissive Sebmissive
My boyfriend has roommates, and I tend to get very loud. So we always have the TV or music on. It isn't always distracting, but if it's something I really wanted to watch and having sex was spur of the moment, I catch myself focusing on the television. Luckily my man never notices.
04/18/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I leave ours on once in a while or if we just happen to find ourselves in bed it'll get left on. It doesn't effect me one way or the other the Hubby is totally distracted by it. He makes of habit of making sure it's off now.
05/01/2011
Contributor: aphroditelady aphroditelady
Not for me. The plus side of that is that you can turn the TV volume up to distract from other possible noises.
05/02/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
It depends on how loud the TV is and what is on.
05/02/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Not for me, no. But occasionally my man will want it turned off (especially when we're cuddling and chatting after sex), he likes to hear me, not the TV.
05/02/2011
Contributor: bethd1708 bethd1708
i never leave the tv on.. lame!
05/03/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
We're really bad and normally have the TV on as a habit to cover noises, especially when my sister is home since we've been able to have conversations through both doors with her across the hall. We always make sure it's something we're not going to pay attention to and can zone out easily, and the Weather Channel seems to fit that bill nicely.
05/03/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
Depends on what's on the TV, lol--but usually.
05/04/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Not at all.
05/13/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
Awkward silence is more disturbing. Sometimes we need music, or a movie in the background to be able to relax better.
05/13/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Unless it's a spur of the moment, rip his clothing off and surprise him moment, I refuse to do anything sexual with the television on. I find it slightly insulting.
05/13/2011