'm currently dating a guy who is great in bed! He's big, I mean bordering 9ins with quite a girth big and can last forever, even after he cums, he's ready to go in under a minute! I know this may be hard to believe but it's true, and I couldn't be more lucky to have found a guy like this in the sex dept!

My concern is that he may not be as into exploring sex as I am and that's a problem. I recently had health issues which drastically brought down my libido and perhaps took a toll on our sex life (seeing as we started dating in the midst of all these and they lasted a while). He continuously asks me about anal but when it comes to me looking at toys online it's almost like he becomes a shy child that shouldn't be looking at them. There's also no ease when it comes to transitioning into sex... half the time when he initiates I want to laugh.

I want to have a sexual relationship where the transition is easy, where he's excited to try out a new toy, where he questions what we'll be doing next and how. I know I've had my limitations and I shouldn't expect too much too soon but its just odd how he reacts most of the time. Any advice from the ladies and gents out there?

PS - I'm curious about anal and BDSM which I'd love for him to get in with me, using toys and games and costumes