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How do you like your men?

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Contributor: haley730 haley730
I like mine romantic
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
muscular
K101 , CoffeeCup , Ms. Spice , TameTemptress , BeautifulDarkness , ss143 , Akira , LostBoy988 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , GravyCakes , Sex'и'Violence , amandaco2011 , SuperSarah116 , Lady Marmelade , Pixel , dezzydezire , MaryExy , Sinfully , Ava5 , wetone123 , removedacnt6 , deletedacct , jeangel246 , Minamie , LuciFaery , Nothere , geliebt , -BillD , frell , carenautilus , toxie m , potstickers , jedent , planetrees , Graniteal , sweetpea12 , Bex1331 , BabyCheeks , Missmarc
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fat
Lady Marmelade , l'amour , Nothere , carenautilus
4
skinny
CoffeeCup , Antipova , LostBoy988 , Envy , SuperSarah116 , Eucaly , Screaming Violet , Kayla , Elaira , Minamie , SilverIsis , -BillD , GONE! , Blinkfat , cburger , jedent , Bex1331
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romantic
haley730 , K101 , ThoughtsAblaze , TameTemptress , BeautifulDarkness , ss143 , LostBoy988 , Ansley , bayosgirl , GravyCakes , Sex'и'Violence , amandaco2011 , Lady Marmelade , Eucaly , Pixel , dezzydezire , Lady Nina , MaryExy , Sinfully , Ava5 , wetone123 , removedacnt6 , Kayla , PropertyOfPotter , l'amour , tickle me pink , jeangel246 , Elaira , Minamie , LuciFaery , geliebt , SilverIsis , -BillD , carenautilus , toxie m , potstickers , GONE! , cburger , jedent , planetrees , Badass , mistressg , Graniteal , ellejay , ksparkles16 , hall5885 , BabyCheeks , Missmarc , Ms. N
49
badass
Ms. Spice , TameTemptress , BeautifulDarkness , ss143 , LostBoy988 , Ansley , GravyCakes , Sex'и'Violence , Screaming Violet , Pixel , dezzydezire , MaryExy , Sinfully , removedacnt6 , l'amour , jeangel246 , Elaira , Nothere , geliebt , WetJenn , toxie m , Badass , mistressg , Graniteal , Bex1331
25
cocky
Ansley , Sex'и'Violence , Pixel , l'amour , Elaira , LuciFaery , Nothere , WetJenn , toxie m , Bex1331
10
sweet
K101 , CAKES , Waterfall , CoffeeCup , zracer , ThoughtsAblaze , Ms. Spice , TameTemptress , BeautifulDarkness , ss143 , Akira , LostBoy988 , Ansley , bayosgirl , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , GravyCakes , Envy , amandaco2011 , SuperSarah116 , Miss Anonymous , Lady Marmelade , Eucaly , Screaming Violet , Pixel , dezzydezire , Lady Nina , MaryExy , Sinfully , Ava5 , darthkitt3n , wetone123 , Kayla , deletedacct , PropertyOfPotter , l'amour , tickle me pink , jeangel246 , frisky069 , Elaira , Minamie , LuciFaery , geliebt , dhig , -BillD , carenautilus , toxie m , potstickers , GONE! , cburger , jedent , planetrees , Badass , mistressg , ellejay , hall5885 , panthercat23 , pasdechat , BabyCheeks , Missmarc , Ms. N
60
clingy
Nothere , geliebt
2
other
K101 , zeebot , Shellz31 , Waterfall , CoffeeCup , null , dv8 , Antipova , ThoughtsAblaze , BeautifulDarkness , ss143 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Envy , amandaco2011 , SuperSarah116 , Lady Marmelade , Eucaly , Pixel , dezzydezire , MaryExy , Sinfully , Ava5 , ladyred , darthkitt3n , wetone123 , removedacnt6 , l'amour , jeangel246 , frisky069 , Minamie , sarki , Nothere , domistar , WetJenn , carenautilus , lilly555 , potstickers , cburger , InnocentISwear , Badass , mistressg , ellejay , ksparkles16 , sweetpea12 , hall5885 , Ms. N
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Total votes: 252 (82 voters)
Poll is closed
07/16/2011
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Contributor: haley730 haley730
07/16/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Well, I'm with you on this one. I like them romantic. My partner is really romantic. I don't like skinny, but not just totally overweight to the point of being unhealthy, but I seem to go more for the muscular, stalky type. I like manliness in my man, but with lots of kindness and gentleness. I got very lucky. Mine's a pretty good mixture of manly, but still very kind and always doing things to make me smile and surprise me.
07/16/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Interesting!
07/16/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I like my men average to solid build - I prefer them softer without all the over the top bulging muscles, I don't like hugging brick walls!

They must be very dominant too, who won't allow me to walk all over them and take advantage.

I'm not the romantic type so I'll skip on that and I hate cocky men - unless it's just in their pants (not upstairs!).
07/17/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
Average sized or a little bigger than average is my preference for body type. They have to have a sweet side and be able to make me laugh
07/17/2011
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I'm a big fan of variety! I like my men tall, short, solid build, light build, fuzzy, smooth...

ya know, as long as they aren't an asshole. Gotta be a nice guy
07/17/2011
Contributor: null null
The way I like my computers: always on!
Seriously though, give me a nerdy guy with a healthy libido and I'm all set.
07/17/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Mostly I like my men 'brilliant,' or able to teach me something (hopefully a lot of things). Doesn't really matter which realm... economics Ph.D student or mechanic, database guru or genome researcher... so long as you've got something that lights your eyes up when you show it to me.

More-than-healthy libido is a must, too, Sthr

Matching sense or humor, and the ability to challenge me when I need to be challenged, and make me feel comfortable when there are no challenges on the immediate horizon are also next-to-vital.

Physically I'm mostly a fan of the skinny body type... it's best if his BMI is lower than mine (which is at the heavier end of healthy, which puts me in "medium"-siz ed clothes. But I'm not super strict about it.
07/17/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Mostly I like my men 'brilliant,' or able to teach me something (hopefully a lot of things). Doesn't really matter which realm... economics Ph.D student or mechanic, database guru or genome researcher... so long as you've got ... more
I agree with you wholeheartedly about him being brilliant and able to teach me something, as well as have a sense of humor and willing to challenge me. Those are two of my favorite things about my man.

I also prefer some sarcasm with that humor, musical talent (not a requirement, but it's an instant turn-on for me and to his benefit) and a medium build.
07/17/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i love muscular guys with a sweet personality; they also HAVE to have a sense of humor. and a little bit of brains is always appreciated.
07/17/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Really, all the things you have listed mean nothing without brains! I can get a pretty picture out of a book or the TV, but lots of brains, humor and masculinity are how I like my man!
07/17/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
I like a well rounded not full of himself man
07/17/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Without brains, romance is goofy, awkward and somewhat creepy (I know, I dated a complete brainless, idiot once...it was only once! Met him in a bar, thought he was pretty and gave him my number. I found out he couldn't even make conversation! augh!)

A badass without brains is trouble waiting to happen. A cocky attitude without brains is likely to get him an ass-beating and trip to the hospital. And clingy...clingy ewwggs me out!
07/17/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Depends on the type of guy my mood always changes.
07/17/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I definitely go for older and different ethnicity/culture. Romantic and sweet is nice too.
07/18/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
...and also smart!
07/18/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Mostly I like my men 'brilliant,' or able to teach me something (hopefully a lot of things). Doesn't really matter which realm... economics Ph.D student or mechanic, database guru or genome researcher... so long as you've got ... more
I am with you on the brilliant part. I've dated people who were content to never learn anything and it drove me crazy.
Of course there are other things I look for, but this is definitely the most important.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
muscular cocky bad ass with a hint of romantic.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
Skinny, sweet, intelligent, feminine, nerdy, responsible, honest, and trustworthy.
07/18/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
Too many qualities to list.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
sweet
07/22/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Almost all the men in porn are too muscular for me. I like skinny guys.
07/22/2011
Contributor: Screaming Violet Screaming Violet
I dont know why but tall, skinny almost junkie looking guys are my kind of guy - like ewan mcgregor in trainspotting - preferably without a habit though.
07/22/2011
Contributor: null null
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
Skinny, sweet, intelligent, feminine, nerdy, responsible, honest, and trustworthy.
You just described my ex. :p
07/23/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I look for men who are intelligent, honourable, brave, strong and who have a warrior's spirit.
07/23/2011
Contributor: Lady Nina Lady Nina
romantic
07/25/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
"Other" Black or Puerto Rican is how I like my men
07/25/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
Nerdy with a sense of humor also.
07/31/2011
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
romantic and sweet
07/31/2011