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Are your genitals sensitive after an orgasm?

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Contributor: Onanist Onanist
After I have an orgasm the head of my penis is very sensitive, so much so, that if it’s touched, I have to pull away from the stimulation. This sensitivity lasts up to 5 minutes. I once knew a woman whose clitoris was just as sensitive after her orgasm and hated me touching her there for a short period of time.

I’m wondering if genital sensitivity after an orgasm is common.

By using the term genital, I'm referring to the penis head and the clitoris.

Please select an answer from the following list and feel free to discuss your experience. Thanks!!

Note: To start the poll, My answers are; (#1) I’m male and (#3) I’m very sensitive and don’t enjoy genital stimulation immediately after my orgasm.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I’m male and
Kindred , ToyTimeTim , B8trDude , ScottA , mm4sa , Gunsmoke , Lummox , The Nakanas , Kitty Kitty , bloomFish , Xavier7 , dv8 , RonLee , markeagleone , leatherlover , Vaccinium , That Guy , rdytogo , ud328 , streetshark182 , Kikicrystal , Solar Ray , MontereyJak , Tidwtrguy , zracer , Love&War , Cedarlooman , Lio , Xiel , Daniel & Brittany , Howells , Nando , ac0313 , cobiffle , Virgulino , Bonesdance , ToyBoy , jay28 , stlouisxxx , newfoundlust , Trillian , Abombadong , Incendiaire , HeartThrobby , jim58 , hhh , goo , Falsepast , digit88 , Valaris , dm , sexualscientists , Yvan the Dragon , MrWill , 1001 Pleasures , spiced , srexom , Jaybird , Boosty , Bubba29 , Rokmai , TJax , Stagger13 , A&M
64
I’m female and
Dusk , DeliciousSurprise , Waterfall , ~LaUr3n~ , Miss Naughty Kitty , onehotmomma , Darling Jen , sexysweetieshan , Alicia , Pleasure Piratess , Tori Rebel , Naughty Student , Selective Sensualist , Jenniae09 , Chilipepper , beautifulpierced , twistedheartsx , nolongerhere , ZenaidaMacroura , Jobthingy , Kim! , Hannah Savage , Airen Wolf , mllebeauty , Destri , Alegria , Sammi , VampKitty , VieuxCarre , Love Buzz , Liz2 , Gatita , fae , razmataz , LikeSunshineDust , SexyySarah , Rhazya , StrawberryEve , The Girl With No Name , wondertoes , Bunnycups , null , Shellz31 , Jessica Elizabeth , Trashley , Coralbell , Raggedy Andie , I'll Miss You EF :( , Tuesday , Tart , Taylor , wolf's lil red temptation , Sebmissive , Lif3sambiguity , PrettyPurple , Not here , Persephone Nightmare , Andromeda , sbon , xfairyxtalex , potstickers , Kimbertrees , Redboxbaby , Waterlily , PropertyOfPotter , Fannybutts , lovehurts , DustBunny , Envy , jdloelo , Mistress Kitty , thegoldilocksincident , KnK , Emma (Girl With Fire) , TheSinDoll , darthkitt3n , KikiChrome , BadassFatass , Michelle Menace , Miss T , Miss Jenn , Miss Madeline , Taylor Von , CSEA , zeebot , newlady , alliegator , Airekah , yolanda2033 , Fuck it. , tigerkate , Ajax , kittychilla , Linga , C4ss , swf , Happy Camper , Hadespark , THUMPER , bbb , teeny <3 , ellejay , DixieDoo , Kaltir , ichwillwaffels , Red Vinyl Kitty , Lady Marmelade , nicky51679 , aBeastlyLittleThing , Scarlette , Alyxx , lkb , Joie de Cherresse , hiroshiro , Totogrl , qquisi , *Huxley* , CandidKinkster , TheSexista , k3 , MaryExy , Miss Zombie , sarki , K101 , chidoll , amandaco2011 , wetone123 , cnspots , starsNairguitars , sexygoddess , Misfit Momma , tickle me pink , Rin (aka Nire) , CAKES , Lolla Munz , Anjulie , padmeamidala , *Ashley* , yrnw , SexyLilPixi , sumie , LuLu Love , Rossie , Ms. Spice , Kdlips , Sex'и'Violence , Elaira , link82 , AgnesTrevejo , purple579 , pinkcupcakes , Love Perpetua , Ava5 , js250 , Chefbriapink , KrissyNovacaine , Missmarc , xOhxSoxScandalousx , AliMc , Squeaky , Vaginas , Girly Juice , Passion plum , hotcherry , AK Bunny , RatchetS , icyqueen , clockwork451 , lovekink , LAndJ , Kittybit , brevado , Voilet , Rory , roskat , SecretKinksters , Vanille , tortilla , TheirPet , Supervixen , jr2012 , Do emu , Katelyn , shorejen9 , mpfm , karenm , TJtheMadHatter , Geogeo , Cat E. , SaucyxGirl , Tom Dogface , quinceykay , Apate , hillys , ChubbyNerd , Isola , twelve13 , VeganChick (is Gone) , ashboo32 , aluminummm , bratcat , vulvalicious , NarcissisticLust , bayosgirl , Adriana Ravenlust , SF , nikki0668 , evie.amor , anonymous1298304 , AlianneCimorene , chicmichiw , November , redwolf , Fagguchan , Ayogirl230 , lilyflower , bog , sunflower , GonetoLovehoney , Pumpk1nPatch , Beautiful-Disaster , JDear , hmb12 , CallMeYourBaby , angel42539 , quackbuster , LittleBun91 , dawnkye , jackie.jfky , SourAppleMartini , sophia430 , WestTexasBarbie , edeneve , wicked48 , LoneOokami
235
I’m very sensitive and don’t enjoy genital stimulation immediately after my orgasm.
Dusk , Waterfall , Miss Naughty Kitty , Darling Jen , ToyTimeTim , Tori Rebel , Jenniae09 , twistedheartsx , B8trDude , ZenaidaMacroura , Avant-garde , Kim! , Hannah Savage , mllebeauty , VampKitty , VieuxCarre , Fun Lover , Gatita , razmataz , LikeSunshineDust , ScottA , lamira , SexyySarah , wondertoes , Lummox , Shellz31 , Jessica Elizabeth , The Nakanas , Kitty Kitty , Taylor , Sebmissive , PrettyPurple , Not here , bloomFish , Envy , jdloelo , Mistress Kitty , thegoldilocksincident , KnK , Emma (Girl With Fire) , TheSinDoll , aphroditelady , KikiChrome , BadassFatass , Michelle Menace , Miss T , markeagleone , Miss Jenn , Queenbee35 , That Guy , CSEA , zeebot , newlady , yolanda2033 , rdytogo , Fuck it. , tigerkate , streetshark182 , Happy Camper , bbb , zracer , Red Vinyl Kitty , nicky51679 , aBeastlyLittleThing , Alyxx , lkb , hiroshiro , SapphirexIce , *Huxley* , Cedarlooman , x cherri , Xiel , TheSexista , k3 , MaryExy , sarki , K101 , chidoll , wetone123 , cobiffle , starsNairguitars , Misfit Momma , Virgulino , Anjulie , padmeamidala , LuLu Love , Ms. Spice , Sex'и'Violence , jay28 , AgnesTrevejo , purple579 , Trillian , Love Perpetua , Ava5 , Missmarc , xOhxSoxScandalousx , AliMc , Abombadong , Squeaky , Incendiaire , hhh , Vaginas , Falsepast , AK Bunny , RatchetS , icyqueen , lovekink , Kittybit , brevado , digit88 , Trysexual , Rory , roskat , Vanille , tortilla , TheirPet , jr2012 , Valaris , Martiniman , Do emu , Katelyn , mpfm , Geogeo , sexualscientists , MrWill , Cat E. , SaucyxGirl , 1001 Pleasures , hillys , ChubbyNerd , Isola , VeganChick (is Gone) , ashboo32 , kandy anjel , spiced , aluminummm , vulvalicious , NarcissisticLust , bayosgirl , srexom , Adriana Ravenlust , Hazeleyes2012 , Kirill1171 , Rokmai , chicmichiw , TJax , redwolf , Ayogirl230 , lilyflower , sunflower , Pumpk1nPatch , Beautiful-Disaster , CallMeYourBaby , quackbuster , LittleBun91 , dawnkye , SourAppleMartini
157
I’m very sensitive and DO enjoy genital stimulation immediately after my orgasm.
~LaUr3n~ , Miss Naughty Kitty , onehotmomma , Kindred , Alicia , Selective Sensualist , nolongerhere , Airen Wolf , mllebeauty , Alegria , Sammi , VampKitty , Lady Venus , Love Buzz , Liz2 , fae , mm4sa , StrawberryEve , The Girl With No Name , Bunnycups , Gunsmoke , Trashley , Coralbell , Raggedy Andie , Tuesday , wolf's lil red temptation , Lif3sambiguity , Persephone Nightmare , Andromeda , XXXXXXXXXXXXX , potstickers , Kimbertrees , Redboxbaby , Waterlily , PropertyOfPotter , Fannybutts , lovehurts , dv8 , RonLee , Emma (Girl With Fire) , darthkitt3n , Mr.RightNow , Miss Madeline , Airekah , kittychilla , Linga , C4ss , ud328 , swf , Happy Camper , Kikicrystal , MontereyJak , teeny <3 , DixieDoo , Kaltir , Lady Marmelade , Scarlette , Alyxx , lkb , Joie de Cherresse , Totogrl , bobowaxer , qquisi , Lio , Daniel & Brittany , Howells , amandaco2011 , Nando , cnspots , sexygoddess , tickle me pink , CAKES , Lolla Munz , *Ashley* , Bonesdance , yrnw , sumie , Rossie , newfoundlust , pinkcupcakes , iLashe , Chefbriapink , jim58 , goo , Girly Juice , hotcherry , SecretKinksters , Supervixen , shorejen9 , karenm , sexualscientists , tunacan75 , aluminummm , bratcat , srexom , Firemenlafd2 , SF , nikki0668 , Jaybird , Boosty , AlianneCimorene , TJax , Fagguchan , bog , GonetoLovehoney , CallMeYourBaby , A&M , sophia430 , edeneve , wicked48
110
I have minor sensitivity and don’t enjoy genital stimulation immediately after my orgasm.
DeliciousSurprise , sexysweetieshan , Pleasure Piratess , Naughty Student , Chilipepper , Eeyor89 , Jobthingy , Destri , Rhazya , I'll Miss You EF :( , Tart , sbon , THUMPER , Solar Ray , Tidwtrguy , lkb , CandidKinkster , Miss Zombie , padmeamidala , HeartThrobby , LAndJ , Voilet , TJtheMadHatter , Yvan the Dragon , Tom Dogface , quinceykay , twelve13 , Bubba29 , evie.amor , November , Stagger13 , WestTexasBarbie
32
I have minor sensitivity and enjoy genital stimulation immediately after my orgasm.
DeliciousSurprise , beautifulpierced , LikeSunshineDust , moomoo89 , null , DustBunny , leatherlover , Vaccinium , alliegator , Ajax , Hadespark , ellejay , ichwillwaffels , Love&War , ac0313 , Rin (aka Nire) , ToyBoy , Elaira , link82 , stlouisxxx , newfoundlust , KrissyNovacaine , sexy34 , Apate , evie.amor , anonymous1298304 , JDear , hmb12 , jackie.jfky
29
I’m not sensitive and don’t enjoy genital stimulation immediately after my orgasm.
I’m not sensitive and enjoy genital stimulation immediately after my orgasm.
clockwork451 , Apate , LoneOokami
3
Total votes: 630 (321 voters)
Poll is closed
10/05/2010
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Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I'm extremely sensitive afterwards, and so is my partner. We sometimes torture each other by continuing to stimulate each other until we start laughing really hard and force the other person to stop. It does get painful though, I have to wait until the orgasmic feeling has stopped before I can get pleasure from stimulation again.
10/05/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
But sometimes it is so sensitive, I can't.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
most of the time I am so sensitive that I have to stop for a while, but occasionally I can keep going.
10/05/2010
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
Only on rare occasions have I not been able to keep going. I can't even think back to when the last time was lol, but I know it has happened
10/05/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
I'm very sensitive and enjoy stimulation, but it can get to the point where I just can't stand it anymore it's so sensitive.
10/05/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
I'm very sensitive and enjoy stimulation, but it can get to the point where I just can't stand it anymore it's so sensitive.
Same here, mostly when the wife performs oral, hand jobs or uses a toy on me.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I like soft stimulation after orgasm. It's usually not until several orgasms that I am so sensitive that I can't stand any stimulation at all.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
I get sensitive, but all I usually need is a 15-30 second break. Then I'm ready for #2!
As for hubby, he gets quite sensitive and although he can keep going for me, he definitely needs a break.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I'm insanely sensitive so unless it's after a very mild orgasm, there's no touching for about 3-5 minutes. But for the first 1-2 minutes afterward, anywhere I'm touched almost feels like it's being shocked because even if he touches say my knee or my shoulder, the sensation shoots through me like an electric current. I've gotten used to that now though, and am beginning to find it pleasurable.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I'm not super sensitive but I am if I am using a vibe. If I'm not using a vibe I can continue on stroking my clit but if I use a vibe I have to remove my vibe for a few seconds/minutes.
10/05/2010
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
I'm usually mildly sensitive but it really all depends on how amazing the orgasm was...
10/05/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I tend to be sensitive after orgasm, and sometimes I enjoy stimulation directly after and sometimes I don't. It depends on my mood, really.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
I tend to be sensitive after orgasm, and sometimes I enjoy stimulation directly after and sometimes I don't. It depends on my mood, really.
Same here. I am not overly sensitive but sometimes (mostly) I would rather have my 'breather'
10/05/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
I cannot stand a strong rabbit vibrator touching my clit after my orgasm. Anything else is typically fine.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I'm always ultra sensitive, but at that point more stimulation leads to more orgasms for me.
10/05/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I'm so sensitive. I cringe in pain when I'm touched again or if my partner doesn't immediately stop after I have an orgasm. It effing sucks :/
10/05/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
I get super sensitive after, but have only just discovered (after a decade or so of orgasms) that pushing it that bit further ends in this very long continuous multiple orgasm, its hard to explain, but kind of like when a whole bunch of waves try to crash against the shore at once, quite overwhelming but well worth it
10/06/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I am sensitive and do enjoy stimulation after an orgasm as it leads to additional orgasms. But I need different stimulation; usually lighter and with a different intensity. During solo play, I will grab a different toy...a dil in place of a vibe and just continue.
10/06/2010
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I voted for both "very sensitive and don't enjoy" and "mildly sensitive and enjoy". It really depends on the quality of my orgasm.
10/06/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
It's an effort to keep going after I orgasm, but if she hasn't orgasmed yet...
10/06/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
After I orgasm, I'm extremely sensitive. I need at least five minutes for my clit and my vagina to calm down before I can go again.
10/06/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
This really depends on how much stimulation I have gotten, but if it's been a lot of stimulation then it's no fun to play right after!
10/06/2010
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
It has to be gentle afterwards for me or else it really hurts. Luckily some people are very sensitive to that.
10/16/2010
Contributor: wondertoes wondertoes
My hubby and I are both very sensitive afterward, so we are compatible in that regard.
10/16/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I voted for not enjoying it but it really depends on the intensity of my orgasm. I am able to have many milder orgasms gradually leading up to more intense orgasms. Mild ones I can keep going easily but if I'm in the throws of an awesome orgasm then I can't tolerate immediately starting again. I tend to need to be held for a good while til all the tremors stop before I can be brought back to enjoyment.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
But sometimes it is so sensitive, I can't.
Me too. I do enjoy genital stimulation after an orgasm, but sometimes I can't take it because it is overwhelmingly sensitive. But in those cases I wouldn't say I hate being touched. I just need a break.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I answered for myself - but commenting about my wife. Yesterday she commented on how her orgasms have changed. When she was younger and all we knew about were clitoral orgasms - they were sharp and strong - she would push me away immediately because she was unable to tolerate additional contact.

Now however we enjoy g-spot and a-spot play and her orgasms are longer - maintaining contact extends them. After a brief pause orgasms #2 & #3 are easily achievable. At some point she is sated - but I it's not about her clit being too sensitive.
10/16/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I voted very sensitive and dont like (more so cant handle) direct stimulation straight after an orgasm. If I wait 30 sec to a minute, Im right.
11/02/2010
Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
I'm quite sensitive also. And, for the most part do not enjoy stimulation right after orgasm. I typically need a minute or two.

My boyfriend is the same way. He's *VERY* sensitive after orgasm and sometimes even air brushing the head of his penis is too much for him.
11/02/2010