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Contributor: Twirls Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in the wrong section).
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
More Experienced.
72  (64%)
As Inexperienced.
33  (29%)
Other (in comment)
5  (4%)
Llama Option.
3  (3%)
Total votes: 113
Poll is closed
07/27/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful topic debates on First Time:

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First time in, what did you try?
So what was the first kinky thing you ever tried? My first time was fire cupping.

What was your first time like?
Who,What,When,Where,Wh y,How was you first time? I was 15 and me and a buddy were hanging out at my house after school and two of our chick friends...

First timer..
What is a good kit for just starting out with restraints etc.

When was your first time?
When was the first time you remember feeling something down there? I was 7 years old and found my dads girly magazines.
07/27/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
He only had been with one other person, once. I had no clue. That was fine with me.
07/27/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
I prefer we'd be on the same level.
07/27/2012
Contributor: Envy Envy
I prefer same level. It's embarrassing to be with someone experienced and then they expect more from you because of their experience, then slip up and say something that makes you feel bad about having no experience.
07/27/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
My partner was much more experienced and he helped guide me, it was nice =)
07/27/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
He was only with one other person before me. And I was okay with that, because he helped me learn. :]
07/27/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Well it would depend on how he acted about it, but assuming he wasn't going to expect too much of me or pressure me, I'd prefer someone more experienced. A confident demeanor is very sexy (so long as it's not over-confident).
07/27/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Oh come on, Hands Down! An opportunity to have a more experienced partner? She could rock your world and you would have a memory for the rest of your life!!! I've had my experiences, or should I say unexperiences. Show me the world baby!!
07/28/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Many of us started having sex before the age of consent - so often it's with someone of a similar age and experience - that's how it was with me and I enjoyed it.
07/28/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
My first partner was more experienced and it was great, I felt no pressure since they were just showing me the ropes. They took the lead and it was more comfortable for me that way.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I'd rather have someone much more experienced
07/28/2012
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
Quote:
Originally posted by Noelle
He only had been with one other person, once. I had no clue. That was fine with me.
My situation was exactly the same. We were still both very inexperienced, so it was fun to experiment and learn together.
07/28/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
More experienced. I imagine having with someone as inexperienced would be kind of awkward.
07/28/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
Someone with a little more experience than myself.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Abombadong Abombadong
I prolly wouldn't have turned to be such a freak( ) if he wasnt more experienced than I
07/28/2012
Contributor: Mari Mari
... Do I even WANT to know what "llama option" is?!?! I think I'm a little scared.

My first time was with a guy more experienced than me (actually the same guy I'm still with 3 years later). He was super sweet and guided me along. He also had us try out a dozen different positions to see what I liked. Basically, it was amazing and I couldn't have asked for a better time.
07/28/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
we where both virgins, and I would not change a thing about it if I could.
07/29/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I prefer someone more experienced and the guy I am talking to now has SEVERAL years more experience then me
07/29/2012
Contributor: clockwork451 clockwork451
More experienced.
07/30/2012
Contributor: MrPink MrPink
My first time was with someone much more experienced than I was; yet everything went better than expected. We both had a good time and I was capable of pleasing her by sticking to what I knew worked from lighter 'play.'

That said, if I could do it all again, I would still prefer someone with more experience because they know what they like and can guide me along the way.I think I would have been worse off having my first time with one as inexperienced as I was, her feedback would have been much less helpful since she would have been discovering all of this herself.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I'd prefer someone more experienced, as long as they weren't a dick about it.
07/31/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
more and talkitave say whats what
07/31/2012
Contributor: TigerLily9 TigerLily9
more experienced.
08/21/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
He was inexperience like me.
08/22/2012
Contributor: aryce aryce
my first time partner was a long term bf at the time and it was both our first so I think it made me feel more comfortable, but then I also had a bad past prior that made it easier that it was both our first time rather than with someone more experienced.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I think I'll stick with new to both of us. At a young age a more experienced partner is "shooting" for himself and know how he is better pleased. Now if you were going with an older man who's goal is to please a woman that could change my opinion.
10/28/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Twirls
For your first time, would you rather have(or have had) a partner who was more experienced than yourself, or someone who was as inexperienced as you?

I hadn't seen a post like this out here, so I figured I'd ask(apologies if this is in ... more
More experience.
10/28/2012
Contributor: friendly friendly
More experienced. I made love to my fiance for my first time....it'd pretty much suck if he was less experienced than me lol I have to have sex with him for the rest of my life so I'm grateful that he knows what to do! And it made for a fun teaching lesson or two
11/01/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
I didn't vote because I'm not sure. It was so fun to kind of fumble around all excited and clueless the first time, but then I think what it would have been like to have someone who could push so many buttons you never knew you had on the very first time.

Hmm?
11/01/2012