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For the married people: how many of you married the only sexual partner that you have had?

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Contributor: motorcycle rider motorcycle rider
For the married people, how many of you married the only sexual partner that you have had? This question came up at work awhile back and the woman who posed the question couldn't believe that I have had only one.
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C&K0143 , OH&W, Lovebears , Airen Wolf , Checkmate , Deeder , MorganaLeFae , bighose , anonymouse , BlushingGirl , Confusedxfreak , toysforall , SexScienceAndFood , LoveReImagined , Raymaker , cutecouple614 , Mallorys , symbiasin
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Pete's Princess , edeneve , EastCoast36 , Gunsmoke , the2ofus , CharmCity , Ansley , Thong man , SecretKinksters , whatfun , jakjak , Missy27 , BeeSquared , Fetisha , kittyloveswahwah , meganthomas , Babylove09 , Zarah , RonLee , symbol , Eugler , TheToyGuy , Swing Curious , Lena Eden , wicked weasel
25  (60%)
Total votes: 42
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
For her I was the only one. We met at a young age. Myself I had a few.
12/10/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
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I wish he was but unfortunately he wasn't. I married a horrible man and divorced him first. But if I hadn't, I would never know how lucky and blessed I am to now have such an amazing man!
12/10/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
When I got married, he was not my first partner.
12/11/2013
Contributor: motorcycle rider motorcycle rider
Got married at 22 and have been married for almost 25 years and she was my first, I was not for her.
12/11/2013
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
I had only been with one other partner a couple of times. We performed oral many times but only twice or three times full intercourse. I was not my wife's first.
12/11/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I didn't get married until I was 35 - I had many partners between 16 and 34.
12/11/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Quote:
Originally posted by motorcycle rider
For the married people, how many of you married the only sexual partner that you have had? This question came up at work awhile back and the woman who posed the question couldn't believe that I have had only one.
I did things a bit backwards I married my one and only partner and then added to my repertoire so to speak!
12/11/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Not married,but as close as you could get...both of us have had numerous partners before each other and glad we have, we've learned who we are sexually before we met "the one".
12/26/2013
Contributor: Missy27 Missy27
Not the first for either of us. I think I was his second. I had a few more.
01/26/2014
Contributor: Fetisha Fetisha
He's my second, and I'm his first.
01/29/2014
Contributor: kittyloveswahwah kittyloveswahwah
Quote:
Originally posted by motorcycle rider
For the married people, how many of you married the only sexual partner that you have had? This question came up at work awhile back and the woman who posed the question couldn't believe that I have had only one.
No, sometimes I wish it was so, though.
02/05/2014
Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
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Originally posted by motorcycle rider
For the married people, how many of you married the only sexual partner that you have had? This question came up at work awhile back and the woman who posed the question couldn't believe that I have had only one.
Neither of us were eachothers first.
02/07/2014
Contributor: BlushingGirl BlushingGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by motorcycle rider
For the married people, how many of you married the only sexual partner that you have had? This question came up at work awhile back and the woman who posed the question couldn't believe that I have had only one.
He was my first, I was not his first. Only him until he divorced me.
02/09/2014
Contributor: Confusedxfreak Confusedxfreak
Yes he was my first and now we are getting divorced. Since the split I've been with a couple.
08/23/2014
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
Yep, first and only!
08/30/2014
Contributor: LoveReImagined LoveReImagined
He is my first and only. We've been together since I was 13 and married for 9 years.
09/03/2014
Contributor: symbol symbol
Quote:
Originally posted by motorcycle rider
For the married people, how many of you married the only sexual partner that you have had? This question came up at work awhile back and the woman who posed the question couldn't believe that I have had only one.
We both had other partners before and have had other partners since. Neither of us has dated anyone else for half a year or so now but, while neither of us is actively "looking", we're at least open to the idea of meeting someone new. We'll see what happens...
09/23/2014
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
Me! And I'm certainly glad. We're each the only ones for each other.
09/26/2014
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I've only had one partner, he's had a couple more. I don't think its a trend that'll ever go away entirely, but in general I look favorably upon those who try it out with a few people just as much as I do people with personalities more like mine.

If you're so inclined to, it's probably healthy.
08/27/2015
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by Raymaker
I've only had one partner, he's had a couple more. I don't think its a trend that'll ever go away entirely, but in general I look favorably upon those who try it out with a few people just as much as I do people with personalities ... more
I married the first girl I ever was sexual with, actually, the only one I ever dated. We never had intercourse while we were dating, only oral and other activities. After 23 years of a pretty bad intimate life, and numerous other issues, I finally filed for divorce. I dated one other gal before meeting my second wife, still married to her, going on 14 years now, much happier this time around. In retrospect, I do wish I would have been out there more as a young man, but that's old news, and I love my wife dearly now.
04/10/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
I married the first girl I ever was sexual with, actually, the only one I ever dated. We never had intercourse while we were dating, only oral and other activities. After 23 years of a pretty bad intimate life, and numerous other issues, I finally ... more
Wonderful, so glad to hear that. Life's too short not to enjoy
04/12/2017
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I did things a bit backwards I married my one and only partner and then added to my repertoire so to speak!
ditto!

It usually works out in these cases, but not with my ex (he didn't like sex?)

but with a different person I would do the same.
05/07/2017
Contributor: Pandorathepussycat Pandorathepussycat
My husband was my first. I've been with 3 people total. 1 from when we were divorced for a few, and another during marriage in front of my hubby. We've been married over 20 years.
06/11/2017