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Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Insertable toys come in all shapes and sizes and of course everyone likes their own thing but I am curious whether if ones age plays a part in determining their size preference in their choice of toys.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Illusional , Not here , Waterfall , joja , *HisMrs* , Pixel , StrawberryEve , null , firekitten , Coralbell , fghjkl , Taylor , thegoldilocksincident , anonymouse , Annemarie , Anne Ardeur , 0letitgrow , LavenderSkies , C4ss , Airekah , cherryredhead88 , Beaners , Gallowraven , Navigator , IrishLassie , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , zeebot , Envy , Hadespark , LikeSunshineDust , lamira , Miss Jenn , DeliciousSurprise , Taylor Von , CSEA , Cream in the Cupcake , ichwillwaffels , Valentinka , Happy Camper , bbb , sbon , Eliza , lkb , 0 , aBeastlyLittleThing , potstickers , MaryExy , sassyNsensual , Willis2011 , K101 , Lolla Munz , Lithaewyn , REDRUM , PiratePrincess , Antipova , Eden C. , EndlessFrost , Corrie001 , MorbidRainbow , salaciousrex , aphroditelady , Ratito , bayosgirl , Miss Anonymous , JessCee , anonymouse58 , KinkyKrissy , BlackxxxRose , kokopelli , Rin (aka Nire) , PurpleCat23 , Ms. Spice , ellejay , Elaira , Sex'и'Violence , mizzmilla , geliebt , ninaspinkturtle , BabyL0ve , aimtoplease , Love Perpetua , SaMiKaY , LadyDarknezz , RavenWolf88 , RemusHalifax , GonetoLovehoney , SweetSurprise , sexydelphia , prttynink , interestingstuff , Peggi , Cherrylane , deltalima , spiceboy , Ice1 , solita , dbm6907 , cottonxcandy , sweetpea12 , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , Azule , pix , Bzz , Ly-Ra , BeepBop , Sam the Man , pasdechat , Aurore , ghalik , bh253 , RTC , solitudinarian , PropertyOfPotter , yeehawcutie , sevennn , hiddenmix006 , karmaqueen , Dumplingz69
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Misfit Momma , rdytogo , PussyGalore , Darling Jen , Kim! , Liz2 , AU , OroNomi , jdloelo , Emma (Girl With Fire) , deletedacct , BadassFatass , clp , VenusianThunder , sixfootsex , SexyStuff , Pleasure Piratess , Crystal1 , Miss Madeline , THUMPER , SexyySarah , UnknownGirl , froggiemoma , NaturalWoman , curlykat , Ava5 , aliceinthehole , hyacinthgirl , Joie de Cherresse , ily , PunkyB , CoffeeCup , Caprieclipse , MissCandyland , lacybutton , Churga57 , InnocentISwear , Sapphires13 , Lavender*Moon , Kitka , pokefan15 , rom323 , iovys , frisky069
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BBW Talks Toys , Shellz31 , Jobthingy , SexyTabby , Redboxbaby , swf , A Good Girl , Cowboyssweetie , KikiChrome , Linga , indiglo , padmeamidala , CAKES , Screaming Violet , shySEXXaddict , Gone (LD29) , RuMaRo34 , Snozzberries , kap214 , wrmbreze , biancajames , Apirka , VelvetDragon , SimpleHedonist , Lena Eden , PassionPleasure , Wickedly Yours
27
Gunsmoke , Airen Wolf , PolyGirl , wetone123 , Rossie , newlady , CookieBits , Ms. N , mpfm , Gracie , Lisset Finnien , madame macbeth , VanillaFreeSex , Missy27 , Soundside46
15
Tuesday , removedacnt , sarki , Otelia , Swing Curious
5
Ms. Lefty
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joja , fghjkl , deletedacct , LavenderSkies , clp , Lady Marmelade , SexyStuff , DeliciousSurprise , Taylor Von , sbon , Eliza , lkb , K101 , Eden C. , EndlessFrost , sarki , salaciousrex , Ratito , curlykat , BlackxxxRose , Rin (aka Nire) , PurpleCat23 , ily , aimtoplease , SaMiKaY , LadyDarknezz , GonetoLovehoney , lacybutton , Peggi , wrmbreze , Ms. N , Ice1 , Sapphires13 , dbm6907 , sweetpea12 , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , pix , VelvetDragon , pasdechat , bh253 , RTC , VanillaFreeSex , frisky069 , karmaqueen , Dumplingz69
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Illusional , Not here , BBW Talks Toys , Waterfall , joja , *HisMrs* , rdytogo , StrawberryEve , null , Tuesday , Jobthingy , fghjkl , SexyTabby , Taylor , Darling Jen , thegoldilocksincident , anonymouse , Annemarie , Redboxbaby , Kim! , AU , Anne Ardeur , OroNomi , jdloelo , deletedacct , BadassFatass , C4ss , Airekah , cherryredhead88 , Beaners , Gallowraven , Navigator , VenusianThunder , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , zeebot , KikiChrome , SexyStuff , Envy , Hadespark , LikeSunshineDust , Miss Jenn , CSEA , Linga , Cream in the Cupcake , ichwillwaffels , bbb , sbon , THUMPER , lkb , MaryExy , sassyNsensual , Willis2011 , wetone123 , indiglo , Lithaewyn , PiratePrincess , Antipova , Corrie001 , froggiemoma , padmeamidala , NaturalWoman , bayosgirl , Miss Anonymous , JessCee , anonymouse58 , KinkyKrissy , CAKES , curlykat , kokopelli , Ava5 , PurpleCat23 , ellejay , Elaira , hyacinthgirl , mizzmilla , geliebt , ninaspinkturtle , shySEXXaddict , PunkyB , Love Perpetua , CoffeeCup , RuMaRo34 , Caprieclipse , RavenWolf88 , RemusHalifax , MissCandyland , lacybutton , SweetSurprise , sexydelphia , prttynink , interestingstuff , Peggi , InnocentISwear , Cherrylane , deltalima , spiceboy , solita , Apirka , Lavender*Moon , Stagger13 , mpfm , Gracie , cottonxcandy , Kitka , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , Azule , pokefan15 , Bzz , Ly-Ra , BeepBop , Sam the Man , Aurore , ghalik , SimpleHedonist , solitudinarian , PropertyOfPotter , Lena Eden , Lisset Finnien , PassionPleasure , iovys , yeehawcutie , hiddenmix006 , Ms. Lefty , Wickedly Yours , Missy27 , frisky069 , Soundside46 , Dumplingz69 , Swing Curious
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Misfit Momma , Not here , BBW Talks Toys , Waterfall , rdytogo , Pixel , null , Shellz31 , firekitten , Tuesday , PussyGalore , Jobthingy , SexyTabby , Kim! , AU , Airen Wolf , swf , Emma (Girl With Fire) , removedacnt , 0letitgrow , BadassFatass , Airekah , cherryredhead88 , IrishLassie , sixfootsex , Pleasure Piratess , lamira , Crystal1 , Miss Madeline , Happy Camper , sbon , 0 , aBeastlyLittleThing , potstickers , SexyySarah , UnknownGirl , indiglo , REDRUM , Corrie001 , MorbidRainbow , newlady , aphroditelady , Screaming Violet , Sex'и'Violence , aliceinthehole , Joie de Cherresse , geliebt , ninaspinkturtle , CookieBits , Gone (LD29) , RavenWolf88 , Snozzberries , GonetoLovehoney , kap214 , biancajames , Kitka , SimpleHedonist , solitudinarian , rom323 , sevennn , Otelia
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Cowboyssweetie , Valentinka , lkb , Churga57
4
Coralbell , Gunsmoke , Annemarie , PolyGirl , Rossie , Ms. Spice , dv8 , Snozzberries , ghalik , madame macbeth
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Total votes: 459 (213 voters)
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Contributor: Not here Not here
I'm 23, and I voted medium AND larger because it honestly depends on my mood. Sometimes I want something a bit bigger, but I'd say most of the time I prefer medium size with a bit of texture, a nice angle, or strong, deep vibrations- even better a combination of it all!
01/01/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Quote:
Originally posted by Not here
I'm 23, and I voted medium AND larger because it honestly depends on my mood. Sometimes I want something a bit bigger, but I'd say most of the time I prefer medium size with a bit of texture, a nice angle, or strong, deep vibrations- even ... more
I was going to do the same, but ended up just voting for large.

Ella is one of my favorites, and I usually start with something medium sized... but when I am the most aroused I always want bigger.

I'm 28.
01/01/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
I thought I'd weigh in since there wasn't really an option for me. I'm 18-24 and I prefer no penetrative toys at all. I do use them, but if given the preference, I'd much rather avoid penetrative toys. If anything, though, I much prefer smaller ones.
01/01/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I like both medium and large sized toys but the material makes a difference. For example all of my glass toys fall in the medium range, but I have some silicone toys that are large and that I LOVE!
01/01/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I thought I'd weigh in since there wasn't really an option for me. I'm 18-24 and I prefer no penetrative toys at all. I do use them, but if given the preference, I'd much rather avoid penetrative toys. If anything, though, I much prefer smaller ones.
I did add "I do not use insertable toys" but I guess I should have worded it as "prefer not to use" but thanks for the comment! It's too bad I can't edit the poll.
01/01/2011
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
I picked both medium and large toys as like others have said it depends on my mood. If I had to pick one then it would be the medium ones.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm happy with a shorter length but I love girth - the bigger, the better!!!
01/02/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
This is an interesting question. I know I'm smaller inside now. Internal parts shrink with menopause, at least for some women. I still prefer medium or a little larger toys.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
This is an interesting question. I know I'm smaller inside now. Internal parts shrink with menopause, at least for some women. I still prefer medium or a little larger toys.
I didn't know that.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
I'm happy with a shorter length but I love girth - the bigger, the better!!!
I'm a girth girl myself, Shellz.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
I voted medium and large because it depends on the material. I love girth, but something like glass feels bigger so I am happy with medium-ish for that. Otherwise, I am a size queen all the way with my toys
01/02/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I picked other because I like toys that are shorter but not thin. 6 inches or less in length, but 1 1/2 to 1 3/4 in circumference.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
These poles are hard to do - that's why 'Other' ends up being a typical answer.

My wife is in her 40s and she definitely enjoys larger toys now than in her 30s - but it's psychological - not physical. She's less worried about how things look and more in tune with how they feel.

She likes 1.75" to 2" diameter but not too much length. About 7.5" max but 6.5-7 is more comfortable.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'm 24 and I like medium sized ones. I used to really go for smaller ones, so who know I might like larger ones when I get older.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I enjoy long, but medium-in-girth toys. My ideal toy, for daily use, is about 7" long (my vaginal canal is about 6.5" long, but it's always good to have extra) and between 4.5" and 5" in circumference. I use 5.25" and 5.5" toys every once in a great while, but mostly medium-sized. I do appreciate slim toys, too.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
When it comes to girth it depends on my mood and the toy. However, I generally do not prefer longer toys.
01/03/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Really hard for me to answer here....it all depends....longer toys are problematic as I don't enjoy hitting my cervix, girth depends on the material. And so much just depends on my mood, my state of arousal, position and so many other things.
01/03/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Insertable toys come in all shapes and sizes and of course everyone likes their own thing but I am curious whether if ones age plays a part in determining their size preference in their choice of toys.
I'm a bonefide size queen but I always have been. It's not something that changed over time.
01/03/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
I'm not sure that is specifically aging that causes us to prefer larger toys. It could also be because many of us who are a bit older, have had children. I've had four. And I think that's probably why I'm now considered a size queen.

BUT....I did always prefer larger sizes, even at a young age. It was just a tighter fit back then.

I would be curious to see if there are older women who's size preferences have increased, and yet they have no children. Or have had all C-sections.
01/05/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
I'm not sure that is specifically aging that causes us to prefer larger toys. It could also be because many of us who are a bit older, have had children. I've had four. And I think that's probably why I'm now considered a size ... more
For my wife it's all metal. When she was younger she was afraid of the appearance of larger toys - and the fear that they would stretch her out.

I started buying larger toys but not showing them to her. I'd start her with something familiar - then change to something a little larger. Now she accepts that that fuller feeling is useful and pleasurable.

I think it's related to why many women seem to enjoy sex later in life. They have to give up a lot of preconceived notions about what's 'proper'. After they get over that hurdle - look out - it's a rare man who can keep up without the help of a full toy chest!
01/05/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
To be honest I like them in all sizes.
01/05/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
Sometimes i like a smaller toy to warm up before i move onto something bigger.
01/07/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Insertable toys come in all shapes and sizes and of course everyone likes their own thing but I am curious whether if ones age plays a part in determining their size preference in their choice of toys.
I'm 18 and I prefer smaller sized toys (1 1/4" and smaller Diameter or 6" and under Length)
01/07/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
For me, it really depends on the day although I'd say that I use my medium sized toys the most.
01/07/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
I love girth, I really wish I could find something large and satisfying but it seems hard sometimes since most larger toys are somewhat high-priced. I wanna make sure I get the most BANG for my BUCK.
01/11/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Airekah
I love girth, I really wish I could find something large and satisfying but it seems hard sometimes since most larger toys are somewhat high-priced. I wanna make sure I get the most BANG for my BUCK.
Try this one - link at just $16 it's pretty good!
01/11/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Insertable toys come in all shapes and sizes and of course everyone likes their own thing but I am curious whether if ones age plays a part in determining their size preference in their choice of toys.
I'm going on 23 and my size preferencers can vary, but my favorite diameter would be 1 3/4". With textured toys I prefer a (tad) smaller of a diameter, and depending on what kind of toy they are then my prefs vary.


Sorry for the loopy post, just got out of class and I am tired!
01/11/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I prefer medium sized toys. I would prefer larger toys if my one experience with one hadn't ended so disasterously.
01/12/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
I voted for medium, because I cant seem to take as much length as I could before I had a child, but I can take a lot more girth. it used to be large for me, but now is medium, since having a child.
01/15/2011