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do you like music in the background when you have sex/masturbate?

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Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
personally i find that listening to heavy metal makes me better at sex how bout you guys? and what type of music gets you off?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
yes and...
GONE! , Falsepast , at193 , ksparkles16 , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , KinkyKatiya , mistressg , Pirate , roskat , plaidvulva , TexasFire , Jake'n'bake , aliceinthehole , C-Rae , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Dawnie , SJ88 , SubmissiveFeminist , Mwar , Do emu , ECU Pirate , nym , Lucky21 , Brandonn , Deeder , jmex83 , SexyRayne , potstickers
28  (60%)
no and...
Gone (LD29) , sweetpea12 , P'Gell , wildorchid , Tangles , Nora , Trepier , LavenderSkies , Pi , dragonn , Undead
11  (23%)
other
Sammi , Gunsmoke , Ghost , Kitka , LAndJ , Lilith Bealove , Wide Awake Daydream , Lummox
8  (17%)
Total votes: 47
Poll is closed
03/08/2012
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Contributor: Sammi Sammi
It depends on where we are and what we're doing If we are listening to music, then heavy metal it is.
03/08/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
For 20+ years the TV has been our 'background' to 'hide' what's going on from the kids. We're soon to be empty nesters and I'd like to start to incorporate music - but I'm more into smooth jazz than heavy metal.
03/09/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Yeah it makes me feel less self-conscious.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
It actually helps.
03/09/2012
Contributor: at193 at193
Depending on what kind of music it is, it definitely turns me on. Much more intense.
03/09/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
Depends on my mood...sometimes I do
03/09/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Like others have said it depends. When with my wife, some sexy music on the iPod does certainly help at times.
03/09/2012
Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Quote:
Originally posted by cheesewizz
personally i find that listening to heavy metal makes me better at sex how bout you guys? and what type of music gets you off?
I love listening to Psychopathic Records/Metal/HardStyl e/Sometimes Rap Depends on the mood ^-^
03/09/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Depends. I like music to drown out any buzzing that could be heard in the hall.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Yes and no.. so only sometimes
03/09/2012
Contributor: Pirate Pirate
depends on the mood
03/09/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
yeah, yes and no. Depends on my mood.
03/10/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
I like listening to music while being intimate, but I listen to wide amount of things, from Steven Wilson to Jay Z.
03/11/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
More distracting then anything else.
03/11/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by cheesewizz
personally i find that listening to heavy metal makes me better at sex how bout you guys? and what type of music gets you off?
Music can be distracting for me, but sometimes heavy metal can do it
03/12/2012
Contributor: TexasFire TexasFire
When I really want to be romantic, I'll make a mixed-CD for our love-making session. I'll choose the order of the songs in such a way as to create a crescendo. Slow songs to start, building up to faster songs, then peaking and a few slow songs after we climax.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Love it. Makes me feel less like I'm going to alert people as to what's happening.
03/12/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I could care less about having music. It doesn't really matter to me and is sometimes distracting.
03/12/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by cheesewizz
personally i find that listening to heavy metal makes me better at sex how bout you guys? and what type of music gets you off?
rap music pretty much always makes me horny.



but yes, i like music in general on when fucking, as long as it's going with the mood.
03/12/2012
Contributor: C-Rae C-Rae
Sex songs.. LOL They get me started
03/12/2012
Contributor: Dawnie Dawnie
I find it slightly distracting..
03/12/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by cheesewizz
personally i find that listening to heavy metal makes me better at sex how bout you guys? and what type of music gets you off?
I don't like music on when we're having sex. I get distracted easily. And I don't like it when the sex goes along with the beat of the music.

We even put the DVD on "mute" when we watch porn. Noise bothers me, and I prefer to make my own "music."

Before sex, though, Led Zeppelin and old Blues get me in the mood. But, once that bedroom is entered, I want nothing on but a white noise machine and maybe a humidifier and a fan.
03/12/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
I don't like music because inevitably, one of you starts moving to the music. Then I either get annoyed or laugh which ruin everything. I actually prefer tv on a low volume for white noise (and noise control...).
03/12/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
Depends on my mood, and if we have company over
03/12/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I prefer silence most of the time...

But this one time when we left Mudvayne on...
03/12/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I have a playlist called "My Favourite Obsession," the line is from Rocky Horror. Songs range from Chris Brown to Nine Inch Nails.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Sometimes. It all depends on the situation!
03/13/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
sometimes we do. never when i masturbate.
03/13/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
I can't handle music during sexual experiences. It just feels weird to me, like I can't take the situation seriously with someone singing in the room.
03/16/2012