Nope. I go through them like a golfer's caddie beforehand to decide which ones I want to use that time. Then I lay them out before we even get started. My man usually can tell what kind of a mood I'm in by the toys I've chosen. LOL
Do you ever feel awkward using a toy in the bedroom?
01/05/2013
I do feel a little shy about being the one to suggest using a vibrator. Luckily for me my partner is always happy to ask me if I would like to include one in our play.
01/05/2013
never
01/06/2013
Absolutely not!
01/06/2013
Not at all!
01/06/2013
Never.
01/09/2013
I think it's part of being compatible together in bed. If one of you wants to use sex toys and the other doesn't, it could pose a problem in the relationship. So whether you use them or not, you should at least try to be on the same page.
01/09/2013
Heck no. That's what they're there for. He gets as excited about them as I do now. I suppose that wasn't always the case. He was new to toys when we met. I on the other hand was not.
01/09/2013
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No, I don't.
Originally posted by
xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
02/06/2013
Nope! He does get a little awkward at certain toys though... just SOMEtimes. I don't really understand why.
02/06/2013
Not at all.
02/06/2013
Um no.
02/06/2013
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Not in the way you ask, but I will admit, I have the iRide. I only enjoy small toys in my tush, but I wanted to give the iRide an anal try...and it worked. it is the "largest" toy I will use that way. Anyway, I was in the iRide saddle, and had the "dildo" part in my rear, and leaned way back to allow hubby to try and straddle and penetrate my vagina. Well...I lost balance (iRide is a "U" shaped saddle) and fell backwards..Off the bed. Did I feel awkward? Uh..ya think????? Yes, how sexy, watching your lover...full of toy, fall off the bed onto her head!!! Thankfully nothing was hurt by my ego and it was about an hour before we could both stop laughing hard enough to even try and have any sexual fun!!!! It's part of our mental "love life comedy reel" now. That was as awkward as it can get....except for in college, when I opened a tube of lube (with spermicide) and squeezed it (nothing would come out) and squirted my lover in the eye with wonderful, burning NonOxynol 9. There was no laughing that day!!!! Ouch.
Originally posted by
xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
02/06/2013
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That's how we feel about it.
Originally posted by
Arlinnae
Nah, my partner thinks the kinkier the better
02/06/2013
Less so now. At first it was weird because he has never used toys and I didn't want to spring them on him.
02/06/2013
I haven't had any need to take out a toy during sex, so I guess I will find out someday perhaps...
02/06/2013
I have not had this pleasure but I would like to see how it turns out when the other half moves in.
02/06/2013
Nope we use toys all the time.
02/06/2013
With some of my sexual relationships, maybe. But anyone I was really comfortable with, nope.
02/24/2013
Nope! not at all.
02/24/2013
sometimes
02/24/2013
Never
02/24/2013
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Yes when I was younger, I too would or may have been uncomfortable, but that was a very long time ago. Now? LOL no!
Originally posted by
Sweet-n-Playful
Not anymore, I did when I was younger
02/25/2013
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It's odd but ya sometimes I do feel a bit awkward depending on the partner I am playing with. I get a naughty thrill though...
Originally posted by
xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
02/25/2013
Never.
02/25/2013
Quote:
Never.
Originally posted by
xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
02/25/2013
Nope.
02/27/2013
never an awkward moment. Though if a toy doesn't work out its usually a funny moment
02/27/2013
Quote:
No i dont because thats where i use my toys at anyway,in my bedroom
Originally posted by
xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
02/27/2013
I don't feel awkward!
02/27/2013