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Contributor: Sweduzi Sweduzi
I'm assuming that most of you own a dildo, and should therefor be pretty good at estimating the sizes of men you've had sex with.

Im not asking because im insecure, this is purely out of curiousity since im a male who never came in contact with any erect penises in real life, honest answers!

Ignore everything you've heard about averages you've read in studies or heard in media, only vote in the poll based on your own experiences!

Also, feel free to leave a comment.
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5
1
9
Total votes: 57 (39 voters)
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05/21/2014
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Average dildos tend to be a bit longer and a good deal thicker than the average penis, from my experience.
05/22/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
What exactly is the poll asking?
05/22/2014
Contributor: Sweduzi Sweduzi
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
What exactly is the poll asking?
What you percieve to be the average penis size.
05/22/2014
Contributor: Sweduzi Sweduzi
Quote:
Originally posted by That Man from Mars
Average dildos tend to be a bit longer and a good deal thicker than the average penis, from my experience.
So around what dimensions?
05/22/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
If you want to compare dildos to the average penis, dildos are easier to sterilize in boiling water.
05/24/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
If you want to compare dildos to the average penis, dildos are easier to sterilize in boiling water.
owwww!!! - just the thought of boiling water getting close to his penis.
05/25/2014
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
owwww!!! - just the thought of boiling water getting close to his penis.
Yes, NOT a happy thought!
08/30/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
If you want to compare dildos to the average penis, dildos are easier to sterilize in boiling water.
very. now
09/01/2014
Contributor: symbol symbol
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweduzi
I'm assuming that most of you own a dildo, and should therefor be pretty good at estimating the sizes of men you've had sex with.

Im not asking because im insecure, this is purely out of curiousity since im a male who never came in ... more
I did the best I could to come up with an estimate based on my own experiences and take an average. However, this comes with a bit of a disclaimer...
1) I'm terrible at estimating things like size and volume!
2) Not only am I trying to come up with an estimate in the absence of any sort of measuring devices, I'm doing it from memory.
3) My estimates are based mostly on how large I remember it feeling, not how large it looked. (I don't tend to spend a lot of time looking at penises.)
4) I couldn't even begin to come up with a rough estimate for girth. All I can tell you is that I've been with at least one guy who felt "slender" to me, two who felt "girthy", and one who felt "very girthy". The other ten or so felt... let's call it "average". As for what constitutes "slender" or "girthy"? I have absolutely no idea!

If you're just curious about average size because you've never seen a real, live erect penis before why not just look up one of those studies? Or search Wikipedia? I'm curious as to why you're trying to gather this information through an informal poll rather than turning to the meticulously collected data already easily available online.
09/23/2014
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
It's harder to quantify girth for most people I think, but 5-6 inches long seems pretty average to me.
08/27/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Raymaker
It's harder to quantify girth for most people I think, but 5-6 inches long seems pretty average to me.
Girth can be circular, oval, square or even star shaped. That's just to name a few.
10/13/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Girth can be circular, oval, square or even star shaped. That's just to name a few.
We are spoilt for choice these days.
10/13/2015
Contributor: Honeymuffin33 Honeymuffin33
Usually find that most guys I've been with have been between 5-6.
10/21/2015
Contributor: NJ casanova NJ casanova
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
What exactly is the poll asking?
Their asking you ladies, to use your assorted/extensive,LOL , collection of toys , to gauge the "average" size Penis, that you come in contact with(your average).
10/22/2015
Contributor: dhig dhig
5-6"
10/22/2015
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I feel like a lot of dicks are thicker than most dildos, which makes me want a thicker dildo. ;p Or maybe I'm just lucky and have been with a lot of guys with bigger dicks.
12/05/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I ,OH never paid no mind to dils OW used before. However since getting the Vixen Creations Bandit, feel quite a bit threatened.
05/09/2016
Contributor: Evoluchun Evoluchun
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweduzi
I'm assuming that most of you own a dildo, and should therefor be pretty good at estimating the sizes of men you've had sex with.

Im not asking because im insecure, this is purely out of curiousity since im a male who never came in ... more
i would say around 6 is the norm
07/10/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We or one of us is now into BD dils. Most of them are no where near average or above average in length, girth and shape.
07/24/2016
Contributor: Peg Peg
Besides Clone-a-Willy just wondering if anyone has found anything that matched a real penis they may have encountered. Nathans Quarter Pound Beef Fank is really really close in both length and girth with the exception of the head/tip
07/30/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
Besides Clone-a-Willy just wondering if anyone has found anything that matched a real penis they may have encountered. Nathans Quarter Pound Beef Fank is really really close in both length and girth with the exception of the head/tip
The Vixen Creations line is very lifelike. And come in various sizes." Well worth every inch" is there motto.
07/31/2016
Contributor: Peg Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
The Vixen Creations line is very lifelike. And come in various sizes." Well worth every inch" is there motto.
Imagine if you could custom order based on personal size requests...
07/31/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
Imagine if you could custom order based on personal size requests...
Well I do know that there are kits out there where you can cast your own dildo if you have a penis model or penis you wish to cast
07/31/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
Imagine if you could custom order based on personal size requests...
Some companies will.
08/03/2016
Contributor: Peg Peg
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Some companies will.
Really looks like I need to do some research...
08/03/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Peg
Really looks like I need to do some research...
If you like sealed wood or eco toys there are a few boutique companies I recall that will make to your specifications.
08/26/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Lol, I just learned a gal with a strapon can fuck a gal better than a guy with an average penis. Not only is the dildo bigger, but can go on and on and on.
02/10/2017