i'm not very experienced in vaginal stimulation, i experience a lot of pain and discomfort when i try to penetrate during solo play. are there any good ways to make the transition?
Best way to transition from clit stimulation to vaginal?
07/04/2013
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I'd start with just a finger or a toy 1" or less in diameter (the Silk Small and Medium from Tantus are good "first time" dildos). Make sure you're fully relaxed and keep a bottle of lube handy. You might even try stimulating your clit first before moving on to vaginal - a lot of women find this helps them relax and warm up. And above all take your time.
If you continue to feel pain even with fingers/small toys and lots of warm-up, there could be a medical issue at hand. You may actually want to talk to your doctor and make sure nothing's wrong physically.
If you continue to feel pain even with fingers/small toys and lots of warm-up, there could be a medical issue at hand. You may actually want to talk to your doctor and make sure nothing's wrong physically.
07/04/2013
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thanks this is really helpful!
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
I'd start with just a finger or a toy 1" or less in diameter (the Silk Small and Medium from Tantus are good "first time" dildos). Make sure you're fully relaxed and keep a bottle of lube handy. You might even try stimulating
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I'd start with just a finger or a toy 1" or less in diameter (the Silk Small and Medium from Tantus are good "first time" dildos). Make sure you're fully relaxed and keep a bottle of lube handy. You might even try stimulating your clit first before moving on to vaginal - a lot of women find this helps them relax and warm up. And above all take your time.
If you continue to feel pain even with fingers/small toys and lots of warm-up, there could be a medical issue at hand. You may actually want to talk to your doctor and make sure nothing's wrong physically. less
If you continue to feel pain even with fingers/small toys and lots of warm-up, there could be a medical issue at hand. You may actually want to talk to your doctor and make sure nothing's wrong physically. less
07/07/2013
this dilator set might be helpful Dr. Laura Berman dilator set
07/07/2013
I start with stimulating my clit first until I'm relaxed. I then move on to my vagina using my fingers before I move on to using my toys. I always have my bottle of lube handy and take my time.
07/08/2013
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oooh thanks, i've never seen this
Originally posted by
edeneve
this dilator set might be helpful Dr. Laura Berman dilator set
07/09/2013
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thanks for the advice
Originally posted by
wicked48
I start with stimulating my clit first until I'm relaxed. I then move on to my vagina using my fingers before I move on to using my toys. I always have my bottle of lube handy and take my time.
07/09/2013
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Start with a small finger, maybe even a pinky.
Originally posted by
caramilk
i'm not very experienced in vaginal stimulation, i experience a lot of pain and discomfort when i try to penetrate during solo play. are there any good ways to make the transition?
08/05/2013
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Oh and use some lube!
Originally posted by
lalalalove
Start with a small finger, maybe even a pinky.
08/05/2013
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