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Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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When I use my toy, it hurts passed the tip point. Have you ever had this before? is there a way to get rid of it.?
06/16/2012
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Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by jjesssica
When I use my toy, it hurts passed the tip point. Have you ever had this before? is there a way to get rid of it.?
Which specific toy are you using?
06/16/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
You might want to use a smaller toy to get used to it, or stick to clitoral stimulation, that's what I do because I find inserted toys to be uncomfortable...for now.
06/16/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Also, don't rush penetration. Really work yourself up and then go slowly. I also agree that you may need a smaller toy.
06/16/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I agree with Krissy. Tease yourself into oblivion first, then include penetration if you feel like more. Let the sensitive areas have some fun first, find out more about yourself before you go ramming the cucumber in.
06/16/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
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Originally posted by jjesssica
When I use my toy, it hurts passed the tip point. Have you ever had this before? is there a way to get rid of it.?
Yes, I actually still do. I have pain when it comes to insertion unless the toy is really slim. I am basically more focused on clitoral stimulation toys for the time being. I keep trying to rush it but it still hurts, so now I'm just taking my time with it. We'll both eventually get to the point when we'll be more comfortable with insertion.
06/16/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Breas
Which specific toy are you using?
I use this one. link

Its my first and only toy.
06/17/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Geogeo
You might want to use a smaller toy to get used to it, or stick to clitoral stimulation, that's what I do because I find inserted toys to be uncomfortable...for now.
yea it is uncomforting at times, it feels awkward because of how hard the shell is. I wanted to use a well lengthed toy in order to get used to the size and the toy I own is 5 inches but I cannot get it all the way in without it hurting so bad.
06/17/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by KrissyNovacaine
Also, don't rush penetration. Really work yourself up and then go slowly. I also agree that you may need a smaller toy.
Yea lol, It frustrates me because its hard to get it in because Im a beginner and I believe im "tight". If i get a smaller toy and get used to it, It will cause me to go through lots of pain having sex with over sized penises?
06/17/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
I agree with Krissy. Tease yourself into oblivion first, then include penetration if you feel like more. Let the sensitive areas have some fun first, find out more about yourself before you go ramming the cucumber in.
lol! ramming the cucumber in, nice line(: yea that is what i basically do. Im striving to find my G spot so I can learn how to orgasm vaginally. :/ its hard.
06/17/2012
Contributor: jjesssica jjesssica
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Originally posted by LadyDarknezz
Yes, I actually still do. I have pain when it comes to insertion unless the toy is really slim. I am basically more focused on clitoral stimulation toys for the time being. I keep trying to rush it but it still hurts, so now I'm just taking my ... more
i hope so ): maybe i need to get loose lol.
06/17/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
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Originally posted by jjesssica
Yea lol, It frustrates me because its hard to get it in because Im a beginner and I believe im "tight". If i get a smaller toy and get used to it, It will cause me to go through lots of pain having sex with over sized penises?
You work up to sizes. Your body has to be ready for it. If you use a thin toy, eventually it won't be as satisfying, so you will get a slightly bigger one. The process repeats. Vaginas were made to accommodate penises. I wouldn't stress about that.
06/17/2012