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At what age did you lose your virginity?

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Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
i was 18
01/15/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
It was 2 months before I turned 19. It didn't hurt and I didn't bleed any.
01/15/2013
Contributor: dm dm
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
18 and was horrible
01/15/2013
Contributor: noway noway
I was lucky...best sex I"ve ever had
01/16/2013
Contributor: Anne Anne
lost mine at 18
01/16/2013
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
19-21
01/16/2013
Contributor: wanderer5964 wanderer5964
i was 15. and sadly i killed two birds with one stone. not my greatest moment but it happens. had a 3some my first time
01/20/2013
Contributor: Trixxxy Trixxxy
I was 13 and the guy was a total drug addict >.>
01/20/2013
Contributor: Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
Wow, I'm really surprised by how many people are still virgins!
01/24/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Leather & Lace
24.
24 for me, too! I'll preface this by saying that when I was in grade school, I had to have my hymen removed surgically, but I was so young, I didn't know what the hell was going on; I just thought it was another surgery from when I was hit by a car. This would probably explain why my first time did not hurt.

Anyway, I had several boyfriends & a girlfriend in high school & had done just about everything you can with the exception of PIV & anal. I educated myself about everything I could & I waited until I couldn't stand it anymore - I knew it would be right when it felt right! Well, it felt right when I found a guy who was a few years younger, (22?) & he made me hotter than I had ever been in my life. There was some serious pheromone somethin' going on!

My sister let me use the house she was watching & he & I used the king sized bed. I was so happy to be there & so ready that it was fabulous! We fucked like porn stars & it didn't hurt a bit. He kept saying, we shouldn't do it multiple times because he was afraid I was going to be sore. I eventually convinced him otherwise and we just kept trying every position we could!

I had a great 3 or 4 weeks with him, (and someone else!), before we each had to go back to school. I never saw him again, but then we weren't emotionally involved. Shortly after that, my health went to Hell & I haven't had sex since, Now I'm 45 and live alone with 5 cats
01/24/2013
Contributor: goodiegoody goodiegoody
Quote:
Originally posted by Femme Mystique
Well, I've never had "intercourse", as I've only had sex with other women. By my definition though, I was no longer a virgin at 16.
I think it's silly to define lose of virginity as needing a penis to be involved- go by your own definition
01/24/2013
Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
15, and I wrote about the topic on Sexis
01/24/2013
Contributor: bowzer311 bowzer311
I was about 16 1/2
01/24/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
i was 18
02/09/2013
Contributor: CD007 CD007
I was 17 and it was with one of my good friends gf at the time. They were currently fighting/broken up but I still regret it. But she definitely knew what she was doing and climbed on top and did everything. Did not last long at all. then we did it three more times.
02/10/2013
Contributor: Sarebear&Del Sarebear&Del
Marriage!
02/14/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Eighteen
02/16/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
i was 12
02/21/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
i was 18
02/21/2013
Contributor: t2720 t2720
16.
02/21/2013
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
21 X3
02/21/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I was 19... almost 19.5... with my soon-to-be-girlfriend (now ex).

I guess that's on the older end of the spectrum, but I'm glad it happened then. I wouldn't have been ready before that. I had enough of my own issues to deal with.
02/21/2013
Contributor: myluv myluv
I was 16. I was nervous
02/24/2013
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
seventeen
02/25/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
i fall in the 13 - 15 range.
02/25/2013
Contributor: purpledesert purpledesert
Haven't had partner sex and I'm cool with that.
02/25/2013
Contributor: wanderer5964 wanderer5964
i was about 16. it wasnt the best but wasnt the worst either!!
02/28/2013
Contributor: hotinpink hotinpink
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetBound
I would define "losing ones virginity" as consenting to sexual intercourse. Feel free to elaborate or suggest otherwise.

Also, I would love to hear about your first experience. How was it? Where was it? Etc.

Er, hopefully ... more
Virginity is an outdated term
02/28/2013
Contributor: Qozt Qozt
I was 16. It was a positive experience for me.

Though I must say I dislike the term "losing your virginity" because I didn't lose anything
03/01/2013
Contributor: ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
I lost my virginity about 3 weeks after my 21st birthday!
03/05/2013