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Contributor: Lily Night Lily Night
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Originally posted by CPTInsanity
I give my wife sex toys at every holiday. She seems to like it, and its only a little part of her gift. I try to shower her with just about whatever she wants. To me it helps make the holidays "special". Though now that I think about ... more
That's a fun idea, I never thought of presents for somewhat "non tradtional" gift giving holidays
02/10/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
I say it all depends. If its for your partner then sure why not. Or for a friend as a goofy gift sure.
But maybe it should go along with something non-sexual as well. Just my opinion.
02/10/2011
Contributor: *Huxley* *Huxley*
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
If I was in your situation, I'd say ti is appropriate. I understand that you want other things too though! I would be dissapointed if all I got from my sig. other was a toy. I would like something that I can tell my family about too.
I agree with this too.
I can't imagine telling my dad I got a new cyberskin dildo.
A kitchenaid mixer, yes.

But yes, I buy my partner sex toys just because all the time. I as well love being surprised when he buys me toys. Good times. Enjoy it!
02/11/2011
Contributor: IndependentlyHappy IndependentlyHappy
I think that it's appropriate as long as it's just something that you share with your partner or a very close friend, and not in front of Grandma and the kids.
02/22/2011
Contributor: gumbyD gumbyD
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Originally posted by Lily Night
So, my boyfriend and I share custody of this account and I told him I would post this discussion: He and I really love this website and he keeps looking at all the Christmas toys and he was thinking about getting something for me. However, I already ... more
For your lover, maybe. For your grandma, NO.
03/15/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
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Originally posted by Lily Night
So, my boyfriend and I share custody of this account and I told him I would post this discussion: He and I really love this website and he keeps looking at all the Christmas toys and he was thinking about getting something for me. However, I already ... more
If you are not comfortable with it he should just get it for you some other time.
03/19/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
I've bought some for my now wife. I also plan on it for our anniversary this year.
03/22/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
yes for some like me and my friend is a prone star and thats what i get her
04/02/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
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Originally posted by Avant-garde
They are appropriate in my opinion as long as the person you get them for will be glad to accept them.
agreed
04/04/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I've given a toy as a Christmas gift to a co-worker once. She had never experienced toys so I went and bought her one! LOL! I had pulled her name for the office gift exchange so it was just perfect, lol.
04/04/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I think that's a great gift idea!!
04/04/2011
Contributor: KrystalFayeO KrystalFayeO
I know I'm pretty late for this, but I think that if you are getting a gift you should be thankful, but you should also be open with your partner of your feelings about what is an appropriate gift for the appropriate occasion. Hopefully he didn't get you want you didn't want, and also hopefully you didn't open it on X-mas day in front of friends or family! haha
04/10/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
I think it's totally appropriate personally but it really is up to those involved. Like you say, if it's not something you want then that should be respected as well.
04/16/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Ill take a naughty gift anytime of the year! Holiday or not lol
04/16/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Hell Yes!
04/17/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Depends on the person you are gifting to.
05/01/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
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Originally posted by Lily Night
So, my boyfriend and I share custody of this account and I told him I would post this discussion: He and I really love this website and he keeps looking at all the Christmas toys and he was thinking about getting something for me. However, I already ... more
I think toys are appropriate anytime of the year! My bf got me a toy for my birthday and I loved it! Of course he gave it to me privately and we tried it out right away... He did get me another present too. So maybe next year, your bf can get you a fun new toy as well as some other gifts. And who knows... maybe you will find a better toy! = )
05/01/2011
Contributor: Mewt Mewt
I think there would be nothing wrong with getting a toy like that for the holidays as long as it wasn't the main gift. If I were to give my girl a toy I'd also get her something non-sexual that was special and showed I cared
05/01/2011
Contributor: Retro Retro
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Originally posted by Lily Night
So, my boyfriend and I share custody of this account and I told him I would post this discussion: He and I really love this website and he keeps looking at all the Christmas toys and he was thinking about getting something for me. However, I already ... more
I chose other because I suck at gift giving in a non-sexual/spicy manner. I usually am the lame person who opts for a gift card for any occasion. I have a lot of friends who do like sexual items and I have gifted them. For a wedding present I got some stockings, rabbit and lotion. I have gifted other toys or gift cards. These are friends that I know like these types of things but I do not only gift sexual items.
05/02/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
sure
05/02/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I think it really depends on the person. My man just got me a very high end toy for our anniversary, and I am THRILLED with it. But, I don't think that works for everyone. If you're uncomfortable with it, then I'd say skip it - because you can do naughty gifts whenever you want. But, if you're buying for someone who doesn't mind, I think it's a really thoughtful gift. (Probably best to give it in private though, not when you're opening gifts under the tree with all the relatives. lol)
05/02/2011
Contributor: ladiewithswagg1 ladiewithswagg1
yes
05/02/2011
Contributor: Dizzykakes Dizzykakes
I think its awesome if it comes from a close friend or a bf/gf.. but it would be weird coming from a parent.
05/14/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
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Originally posted by Lily Night
So, my boyfriend and I share custody of this account and I told him I would post this discussion: He and I really love this website and he keeps looking at all the Christmas toys and he was thinking about getting something for me. However, I already ... more
why not?
05/14/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
I do not know your holiday traditions, but if I was feeling apprehensive about ruining the Christmas spirit, I would try making the gift a stocking stuffer! You can still accept a beautiful present, but as a stuffer it seems more lighthearted. No cards, no notes, just a silly morning surprise.
05/14/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by Lily Night
So, my boyfriend and I share custody of this account and I told him I would post this discussion: He and I really love this website and he keeps looking at all the Christmas toys and he was thinking about getting something for me. However, I already ... more
We actually enjoy doing both. I typically buy my wife a naughty gift and a regular gift. The naughty gift is to open privately at night after enjoying the day with the kids. Works for us.
05/14/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I think naughty gifts are great for the holidays, but only if the people involved feel comfortable with that.
05/14/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
The appropriateness of the gift depends entirely on where it will be opened and in whose company. Gifts are as much a pleasure for the giver as the receiver, as much what someone wants to have or share with you as what you would like. If christmas makes you feel childish and you enjoy that "innocence" then create a separate tradition with your lover: naughty santa's night before christmas. It's reasonable for you to both be able to get what you want but to forbid your lover to give you a toy which interests him/her for ANY holiday or to not accept a well-intended gift graciously... that's hardly "appropriate".
05/15/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
I would not have a problem with it myself, but I think that if you or someone else were uncomfortable or disappointed by the idea of a naughty X-mas gift, that's your own feelings, and your other half should respect that. :]
05/15/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
depends on who its for.. I guess
05/16/2011