I'm not saying that it is good or bad - but my husband is the first and only guy I kissed and the only guy I've made love with.
I have no desire to try to be with anyone else...especially now that we've added toys.
And a lifestyle other than monogamy was really foreign to me (other than divorce, etc) until I came to this site (wow - have my eyes been opened).
I am 51 so my age might be part of the factor as to why I've only had one lover.
But honestly -I'm happy the way it is - just wonder if I'm the only one here who has only been with one partner.
I have no desire to try to be with anyone else...especially now that we've added toys.
And a lifestyle other than monogamy was really foreign to me (other than divorce, etc) until I came to this site (wow - have my eyes been opened).
I am 51 so my age might be part of the factor as to why I've only had one lover.
But honestly -I'm happy the way it is - just wonder if I'm the only one here who has only been with one partner.