I have never had an orgasm through oral sex, not even close, despite the good will of my past lovers and boyfriends...it seems to me that my clit is too sensitive and I can't stand too direct touch or contact, making oral sex most often uncomfortable or even painful... is it me? Or was I just unlucky with the talent of my partners so far? What is your personal experience with cunnilingus? I'd love some input or advice if you have any, any hints on why this can be and any tricks on how I could get there eventually? I have no problem having orgasms during penetration sex or when masturbating.
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07/24/2012
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Oral sex. Women. Lost and confused.
As a women i've never really needed to know how to perform oral sex on a nother women. I hope to be able to do so oneday. I want to one day be with a.
My mind goes places
So basic question: does anyone else ever have their mind go places during sex? not just like thinking about your day or lists of things you need to do
swallowing
does swallowing give anyone else a slight stomach ache? i wonder if maybe its my empty stomach.
Oral Sex and Dental Dams
I have dental dams at home I got them for free at a sex program. I didn't know they exist. Do people really use these for oral sex?
The Dreaded Gag-Reflex
So my partner and I both enjoy oral play equally; she loves when I go down on her and she loves to return the favor. However, when giving a blow job..
Oral sex. Women. Lost and confused.
As a women i've never really needed to know how to perform oral sex on a nother women. I hope to be able to do so oneday. I want to one day be with a.
My mind goes places
So basic question: does anyone else ever have their mind go places during sex? not just like thinking about your day or lists of things you need to do
swallowing
does swallowing give anyone else a slight stomach ache? i wonder if maybe its my empty stomach.
Oral Sex and Dental Dams
I have dental dams at home I got them for free at a sex program. I didn't know they exist. Do people really use these for oral sex?
The Dreaded Gag-Reflex
So my partner and I both enjoy oral play equally; she loves when I go down on her and she loves to return the favor. However, when giving a blow job..
07/24/2012
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oh wow! I can't imagine that! It's the ONLY way I can get off without a toy.. I can't get off with penetration at all even though I have tried and tried. I really have no advice but I know there are plenty of others who are extra sensitive like that... but I don't know a way around it or anything
Originally posted by
sexfairy
I have never had an orgasm through oral sex, not even close, despite the good will of my past lovers and boyfriends...it seems to me that my clit is too sensitive and I can't stand too direct touch or contact, making oral sex most often
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I have never had an orgasm through oral sex, not even close, despite the good will of my past lovers and boyfriends...it seems to me that my clit is too sensitive and I can't stand too direct touch or contact, making oral sex most often uncomfortable or even painful... is it me? Or was I just unlucky with the talent of my partners so far? What is your personal experience with cunnilingus? I'd love some input or advice if you have any, any hints on why this can be and any tricks on how I could get there eventually? I have no problem having orgasms during penetration sex or when masturbating.
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07/24/2012
Honestly,it's probably just your body. Everyone is different . I've orgasmed from cunnilingus, fingering, penetration and everything yet I know females who have absolutely no feeling in their clitoris at all whatsoever.
07/24/2012
In my experience, some guys can do it and some guys can't. The ones that can't, think they're great at it, and the ones that can, don't realize how great they are! Maybe he just can't do it for you. But sensitivity is different for everyone too. I need high HIGH vrooms to get off w/ vibrator, but oral, not so much.
07/25/2012
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Really?! No feeling in the clitoris!
Originally posted by
lomejo61
Honestly,it's probably just your body. Everyone is different . I've orgasmed from cunnilingus, fingering, penetration and everything yet I know females who have absolutely no feeling in their clitoris at all whatsoever.
07/25/2012
I also have a sensitive clit and have to remind my husband to go easy on it. I cannot achieve orgasm by cunnilingus only, it has to be both clit and g-spot stimulation done at the same time. Tell your partner to lick or finger your clit with very light touches while using a toy on your g-spot - that should do it.
07/25/2012
I have only once with oral....he had a tongue ring..
07/25/2012
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Oh my! Is that so? For me it seems like being the opposite: too much sensitivity...
Originally posted by
lomejo61
Honestly,it's probably just your body. Everyone is different . I've orgasmed from cunnilingus, fingering, penetration and everything yet I know females who have absolutely no feeling in their clitoris at all whatsoever.
07/27/2012
Maybe try having your partner go lighter or even a bit lower or higher rather than right on. Try smaller movements and try to guide them to a good spot.
07/27/2012
Your partner could also move in a downward motion more, pulling the hood down to buffer and stimulate more indirectly.
07/28/2012
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My best friend has the exact same problem, too much sensitivity so oral is just too much, sometimes even painful. You aren`t alone dear!
Originally posted by
sexfairy
Oh my! Is that so? For me it seems like being the opposite: too much sensitivity...
07/28/2012
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Good to hear... makes me feel a little less odd
Originally posted by
xGOLDx
My best friend has the exact same problem, too much sensitivity so oral is just too much, sometimes even painful. You aren`t alone dear!
07/28/2012
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Yeah, I guess that would work, as it's basically the way I touch myself. Just not as obvious when it is with a tongue, since it goes generally in the other direction, upward... ish, just thinking about gives me unpleasant shivers...
Originally posted by
xGOLDx
Your partner could also move in a downward motion more, pulling the hood down to buffer and stimulate more indirectly.
07/28/2012
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