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Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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I want to get something to use on him to pleasure him with, but I need something GREAT that he won't be able to refuse, any ideas on the perfect toy?

again something I can use on him, not a sex doll or anything like that.


And any ideas to make him like the idea too would be great, thanks!
01/18/2012
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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Originally posted by sexystuffeve
I want to get something to use on him to pleasure him with, but I need something GREAT that he won't be able to refuse, any ideas on the perfect toy?

again something I can use on him, not a sex doll or anything like that.


And ... more
The reason that guys don't have as many sex toys is because, like a lot of men say, the best sex toy is their own hand! If he says he doesn't want one I wouldn't pressure him into it, but you should for sure consider his size and what stimulation he likes best!
01/18/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Master doesn't care for having his own toys, but he did enjoy the Tenga Egg I got him. Since it's a one-time (sometimes more) deal it's no real commitment to keep, but does add a different dimension of sensation for him to try. Ask him about it, let him pick it out.

(I might suggest the Stepper model, though - hands down, voted best Tenga Egg texture around.)
01/18/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'd say a tenga egg is a good choice. Some people just aren't into toys, and that's perfectly fine. Getting something like a tenga egg is a good way to test to see if it is something he would like without having to invest too much money since it would be frustrating to spend a bunch of money on a more expensive toy only to find out he doesn't want to try toys period.
01/18/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by Ryuson
The reason that guys don't have as many sex toys is because, like a lot of men say, the best sex toy is their own hand! If he says he doesn't want one I wouldn't pressure him into it, but you should for sure consider his size and what ... more
Haha, ya he doesn't do that. I'm not tring to pressure him, it isn't like that and it is hard to know what stimulation he likes when he hasn't tried anything. I got him a sleeve but we have never used it because he didn't like that idea. He more wants something for ME to use on HIM
01/19/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by Taylor
I'd say a tenga egg is a good choice. Some people just aren't into toys, and that's perfectly fine. Getting something like a tenga egg is a good way to test to see if it is something he would like without having to invest too much money ... more
Thanks for the idea, I will look into that!
01/19/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Master doesn't care for having his own toys, but he did enjoy the Tenga Egg I got him. Since it's a one-time (sometimes more) deal it's no real commitment to keep, but does add a different dimension of sensation for him to try. Ask him ... more
Thanks! someone else is saying something very similar.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I got the Tenga 3d for my partner, who had a similar attitude. He was uninterested in the eggs because they seemed too similar to a foreskin for him, but was pleasantly surprised by the 3d, and enjoys occasionally using it.
01/19/2012
Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
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Originally posted by Kkay
I got the Tenga 3d for my partner, who had a similar attitude. He was uninterested in the eggs because they seemed too similar to a foreskin for him, but was pleasantly surprised by the 3d, and enjoys occasionally using it.
We'll second the Tenga 3D - they're quite nice. We'd say blindfold him and surprise him so he can't refuse!
01/19/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by OhMy!
We'll second the Tenga 3D - they're quite nice. We'd say blindfold him and surprise him so he can't refuse!
Haha, good idea. I think he would like it, he just doesn't like opening his mind to new things sometimes. I don't force anything on him of course, but whenever he agrees to something new he likes it, so I like to at-least try.
01/19/2012
Contributor: arduous arduous
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Originally posted by sexystuffeve
I want to get something to use on him to pleasure him with, but I need something GREAT that he won't be able to refuse, any ideas on the perfect toy?

again something I can use on him, not a sex doll or anything like that.


And ... more
I've tried to get mine into toys, but they just don't do much for him. He gets a lot of pleasure playing with the toys I get for me on me, so I go with it. He really digs regular massages, so I'll get him tools for that but it's not the same.

Great question! I'll have to check out the Tenga stuff recommended by everyone else.
01/20/2012
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by sexystuffeve
I want to get something to use on him to pleasure him with, but I need something GREAT that he won't be able to refuse, any ideas on the perfect toy?

again something I can use on him, not a sex doll or anything like that.


And ... more
my ex had a anal plug he loved to use, I let him keep it when we broke up lol..
01/20/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Thanks for the ideas everyone!
01/25/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Start with things for the two of you like vibrating rings or something like the We-vibe (more expensive). Once he's used to "sharing" you with toys at the same time, he'll probably be more receptive to things like a Fleshlight or plug.
01/25/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I wouldn't force it on him. If he doesn't want to experiment with his own toys, it would be best not to pressure him. If you want to surprise him with something though, I would recommend a Tenga Egg. They're cheap, and one time use, so if he absolutely hates it, then it's not a huge deal.
01/25/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by Hallmar82
Start with things for the two of you like vibrating rings or something like the We-vibe (more expensive). Once he's used to "sharing" you with toys at the same time, he'll probably be more receptive to things like a Fleshlight or plug.
Thanks for the idea!

Anyone know of a good vibrating ring to use?
01/28/2012
Contributor: te te
I would second the Tenga Egg idea, small sleek and you could surprise him without breaking the bank.
01/30/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
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Originally posted by te
I would second the Tenga Egg idea, small sleek and you could surprise him without breaking the bank.
The Tenga egg would seem like the safest bet. Some guys aren't really into toys, the most I have is a ring I use, but that's about it. But interested in the Tenga.
01/30/2012
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
I'm gonna go with pretty much anything, since the fun part will be you using it on him. I got my boyfriend a Miho since he'd never tried toys before and he loves it when I use it on him. I've since gotten him some Tenga Eggs to play with textures but he hasn't liked them much. Still, if you're using it on him, he's probably going to enjoy it regardless.
01/30/2012
Contributor: squire squire
It's hard to know what to offer, other than a masturbation sleeve as if he's not into the idea then you're kinda out of luck. I'd suggest plugs, and whatnot, but again, ask him about his fantasies...perhaps his favorite toy is you, and that's all he needs. Doesn't mean you can't accessorize with some sexy outfits.
01/30/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by squire
It's hard to know what to offer, other than a masturbation sleeve as if he's not into the idea then you're kinda out of luck. I'd suggest plugs, and whatnot, but again, ask him about his fantasies...perhaps his favorite toy is you, ... more
He does like the idea of some kinky bondage outfits, thanks for the idea!
02/01/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by PeachieClean
I'm gonna go with pretty much anything, since the fun part will be you using it on him. I got my boyfriend a Miho since he'd never tried toys before and he loves it when I use it on him. I've since gotten him some Tenga Eggs to play ... more
I will look into the Miho. Thanks!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Nkev Nkev
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Originally posted by sexystuffeve
I want to get something to use on him to pleasure him with, but I need something GREAT that he won't be able to refuse, any ideas on the perfect toy?

again something I can use on him, not a sex doll or anything like that.


And ... more
my girlfriend and I recently heard from another couple that they have a bullet/egg vibrator (one of the ones with a cord) which they insert during sex and apparently they both love it. you could give that a try? as a guy I'm scared of getting hurt by the cord while thrusting... so that could also deter your boyfriend as well
02/01/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
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Originally posted by Nkev
my girlfriend and I recently heard from another couple that they have a bullet/egg vibrator (one of the ones with a cord) which they insert during sex and apparently they both love it. you could give that a try? as a guy I'm scared of getting ... more
Thanks, I will try looking into something like that.
02/05/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
Tenga Egg!
02/06/2012