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WHAT CAN I DO TO PLEASE MY MAN MORE I THOUGHT ABOUT ANAL SEX ON HIM BUT WHAT IF HE GEATS FREAKED OUT
11/30/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Useful topic breakdown on Anal Sex:

Silver Bullets
I got a silver bullet vibrator in an anal sex kit, and I was wondering if it was me or is yours loud too??? It is a full sized silver vibe with a...

There is so much untapped sexual satisfaction possible through anal partner sex. So based on your experiences, what is your attitude toward anal partner sex?
Anal sex is one area that many people would rather not discuss and even take measures to avoid. At the same time, there is interest in anal sex...

Why does it seem straight men are obsessed about having anal sex with their girlfriends/wives?
Obsessed with wanting to have anal sex with a girl?

All Your Anal Info Are Belonging to Us!
So recently, I reviewed this book for another toy company. Prior to reading this book, pretty much all of my knowledge surrounding anal sex was based...

Is this type of shape safe? (And need a safety guide)
New reviewer here & I'm a little behind on my anal sex info. Playing around with this vibe & was curious about safety of this shape for anal play..
11/30/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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WHAT CAN I DO TO PLEASE MY MAN MORE I THOUGHT ABOUT ANAL SEX ON HIM BUT WHAT IF HE GEATS FREAKED OUT
I would try to sit down and have a nice calm conversation, find out why it freaks him out. He may just not be into it, everyone has boundaries, sometimes people can overcome and sometimes they can not. Maybe a little research on the male prostate and how to massage it would be beneficial to both of you.

Good luck
11/30/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I would try to sit down and have a nice calm conversation, find out why it freaks him out. He may just not be into it, everyone has boundaries, sometimes people can overcome and sometimes they can not. Maybe a little research on the male prostate ... more
Vik, you took the words right outta my ... fingers..

Either way, I'd sit down and have a conversation with him. You can ask him if there's anything he'd like to do that he hasn't had an opportunity to yet, and you can present to him some research on prostate stimulation and see what he says. If he's not into it, then he's not into it, but you won't know until you ask. Communication is always key.
11/30/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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WHAT CAN I DO TO PLEASE MY MAN MORE I THOUGHT ABOUT ANAL SEX ON HIM BUT WHAT IF HE GEATS FREAKED OUT
If you do talk to him and he is into trying it, make sure to start small and slow. If he has a bad experience the first time, he will be less likely to keep going. BUT, it doesn't need to be sex as in penetration. It could just be a toy.
11/30/2010
Contributor: CanMan CanMan
Just don't be shy with him. and show that this is something your interested in also. Just make sure you know how he feels about it and it'll be OK.
12/02/2010
Contributor: nyc cpl nyc cpl
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Originally posted by ass craver
WHAT CAN I DO TO PLEASE MY MAN MORE I THOUGHT ABOUT ANAL SEX ON HIM BUT WHAT IF HE GEATS FREAKED OUT
Try to massage his perineum (area under the balls leading up to hole) and see how he responds. Then playfully just massage his asshole from outside... dont try to insert anything inside and just gauge his reactions. Make a decision accordingly.
12/17/2010
Contributor: nyc cpl nyc cpl
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Vik, you took the words right outta my ... fingers..

Either way, I'd sit down and have a conversation with him. You can ask him if there's anything he'd like to do that he hasn't had an opportunity to yet, and you can ... more
I would suggest not to talk to him directly. That is going to make him consicous about it. Just start touching around his asshole playfully, without penetration.
12/17/2010
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
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Originally posted by nyc cpl
I would suggest not to talk to him directly. That is going to make him consicous about it. Just start touching around his asshole playfully, without penetration.
It is TERRIBLE advice, to tell someone NOT to talk to their partner about this sort of thing. You don't want to start playing around with his backdoor without his permission. Communication is key when it comes to the bedroom. Talk to him, but above all, I definitely do not recommend the toy in this post. A single dildo or a "strapless strap-on" would be best. Talk to him openly and honestly (and without the Caps Lock, if you please), do looots of research, and remember, you simply can NOT communicate too much with your partner.

Good luck! Pegging is lots of fun
08/14/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
Why is prostrate stimulation the only way to have an amazing orgasm? Mental stimulation has a lot to do with it too. How do you think we masturbate with our rough hands so much. Try porn, inviting another girl (if both are ready), restraints and oral, etc. The very idea of his partner willing to try new different things will make his orgams unforgettable!
08/18/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by nyc cpl
I would suggest not to talk to him directly. That is going to make him consicous about it. Just start touching around his asshole playfully, without penetration.
If someone was going to be playing around my bum, I'd want a heads-up. I've heard plenty of stories of one partner touching around the anus without letting the other know, only to be greeted with a "what the fuck are you doing?!" kind of reaction that completely killed the mood.

This extends to just about any kind of play, when you think about it. For example, I wouldn't be too happy if a guy was into golden showers and just decided to go ahead and pee on me without saying anything. Communication really is the best way to go.
08/18/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
ya start slow me and my bf have talked about it and he likes it when i rub his asshole w my finger and slide my finger in and out of his ass but he wont let me put anything else in there.
09/18/2011