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How do you feel about anal?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Supervixen
Love it--and I have since the first time I tried it. It's easy to cleanse yourself so you don't worry about mishaps, (and if they do happen, who cares? I hope you're with a partner who is mature enough to handle that possibility), using ... more
Very well said. Very well put. We don't "cleanse" anyway, and have NEVER had a "mishap" in decades of anal play....so even that is not a big worry. We just shower, and as for PAIN...NEITHER of us is into that at ALL. WE enjoy PLEASURE ONLY...thank you. Yes, anal done right is NOT a pain sport!!!!!
08/30/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by epiphanyjayne
you need to be warmed up good and get nicely rubbed around that area to loosen up, and work your way into it, it took me 4 years to eventually learn how to do it with it hurting or feeling uncomfortable. I needed to watch porn on my own and play with ... more
WOW...you persisted, but obviously a good think for you and your lucky hubby. As for "stretching out"....that is a joke. I have been having regular toy, finger and penis anal play for over three decades now, first with a couple boyfriends, and then with my hubby for over 30 years and I am STILL "tight as a tick" back there. I laughed when my gastro doctor did a routine colonoscopy last year and said "your anus is as tight as a baby's butt...I had to get a pediatric scope to really get inside you". Ha, Ha...if he only knew.
08/30/2012
Contributor: aluminummm aluminummm
I answered "tried but didn't like it," which is ~mostly true. Before I came out, I was having sex exclusively with cis-het dudes who were just generally horrible at everything. We would try anal and it was a fucking nightmare for me. However, I'm really interested in anal play now and would be super willing to try again! I really think my poor experience was due in large part to being with inexperienced and impatient partners, to not knowing my own limits, and just general boredom with cis straight guys.
08/30/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
ouch
08/30/2012
Contributor: lia ayala lia ayala
i hate it
08/30/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
It's awesome
08/30/2012
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Anal is great. What more is there to say?
08/31/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I enjoy anal.
08/31/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
Never tried it and don't plan on it.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I've never had anal and don't plan to. I don't see the appeal.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Not my cup of tea, my husband enjoys it so about every 6 months I'll give in.
09/01/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
It's not something i like regularly but nice once and a while
09/01/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Start with anal play rather than anal sex. Use fingers or toys to see how and if you like stimulation back there. If you do, see how it develops, but don't rush it, and don't let your partner push you or you push your partner much beyond your/their comfort zone. If you're worried about it you tense up and it doesn't feel good.
09/01/2012
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
That is a one way.
09/02/2012
Contributor: TWE112 TWE112
I enjoy doing anything anal to my girlfriend. Receiving though I've only had fingers and I guess it was enjoyable too.
09/02/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
I had to vote for "eh, its okay", because I will do it if my SO wants to, but I have never had an orgasm doing it, and don't really get any pleasure. I know this could probably changed if I was to practice, though.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I love it, but my wife seems like she could care less.
09/04/2012
Contributor: FallFire FallFire
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Originally posted by aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
Haven't tried it, but I'm maybe possibly consider it.
09/04/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
I am indifferent about it because my partner loves it and I love watching him feel pleasure... It really doesn't feel good or bad for me so I incorporate this act every once in a while.
09/04/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
I don't really like it and I did it a lot more than once. It's just... not my thing.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by aryce
I get curious but then kind of freak outand chicken out. What is your opinion?
We enjoy it
09/04/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
So far I haven't enjoyed it with other partners but I am currently with someone who is interested and likes anal an I am willing to try it with him.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
I gotta admit... I love it. It is definitely something that has to be practiced before it can be done smoothly in my opinion, but well worth the effort.
09/12/2012
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
I said it was ok because I've only had one guy who knew how to do anal. And with him it was great. With the others it was awkward or painful.
10/04/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I enjoy it, and he loves when I tell him to "fuck my ass baby!"
10/04/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
love it
10/04/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Eh. I don't care for it like a whole bunch, but I'll do it now and then. More prefer stimulation and not a whole penis.
10/06/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Never have, seems painful.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Katzer Katzer
Don't find it interesting in me but in another, maybe.
10/07/2012
Contributor: hem hem
I think it really depends on the individual! Don't pressure yourself into it if it doesn't seem appealing. If it does though, make sure you're prepared - take time with foreplay and use lots of lube!
10/07/2012