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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Actually, that sounds like an invitation and while I'm sure some of you would offer, that's not what I need -chuckles-

Basically, I have short arms and because of this, my toys tend to wind up pressing against the back wall of my vagina as opposed to the front wall. I've been playing with a couple g-spot toys lately and I'm having a hard tome of it when it comes to actually being able to position these toys. I'm using both the G Harmonyand a longer, wand-style G-spot toy.

While some positions (kneeling or on all fours) make it easier to reach my G-spot, they're not comfortable for me and discomfort really doesn't help me get off. Heh.

So I'm looking for tips, tricks, positions.. anything from others who might have a similar problem
02/17/2009
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful topic debates on G-spot vibrators:

First time g-spot toy
I've been shopping around for a while in search of my first g-spot toy, but I can't find exactly what I want...or maybe I don't know the right things...

G-spot vibes
Whats the best one you have used so far. Looking for something with alot of power.

iTap G-vibe – g-spot vibrator
Maybe I should get this one. Does anyone know how good it is?

Gspot, rabbits, bullets or massagers?
For or me I love bullets. They are straigh forward, small and easy to use during sex. What about you?

Best for the gspot?
I am on the hunt for the ulimate gspot vibe. Ideas?
02/17/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Sounds like what you need is a toy where the handle makes a "U" and comes back up, but sadly I don't know of any right off.

Perhaps something like the Rude Boy ( link ) or the Nexus O (link ) could be adapted, but what would be really nice would be something like the Crystal Wand with the handle folded back to a "U" - pity they don't make one.
02/17/2009
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
What about a double dildo? One that's especially long and curved? Also, one that isn't too floppy so you can hold onto it well.. I don't have a lot of experience in double ended dildos but I'm sure other people do here. link <-- 10" long but pricey. Would something along that line work?

How about a baton dildo? With a nice handle to hold onto?
This is only 8" but it's fairly cheap: link
All these are over 10" in length but very expensive:
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02/17/2009
Contributor: sry sry
You could send an email detailing what it is exactly your problem is to a sex toy manufacturer and see if they are willing to make something. Might be pricey for a custom BUT if you give enough info and details about what it is that you need specifically they might find they have a market for this type of toy.

ok so i got a pic of something i designed maybe you could send it in and some one would make it. i wonder if photobucket would host it..

if i had money i would make it but sadly i do not have any money.

ill post it soon as i get the link and it set up..
02/17/2009
Contributor: sry sry
Ok here it is


link

send the company the link to this if you think it would help
02/17/2009
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Like Scott said, maybe something U/C shaped.
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02/17/2009
Contributor: sry sry
Oh yeah the rock chick I think that might stay in on it's own...
02/17/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
Actually, that sounds like an invitation and while I'm sure some of you would offer, that's not what I need -chuckles-

Basically, I have short arms and because of this, my toys tend to wind up pressing against the back wall of my ... more
It helps me to flat on my back with my knees bent toward my chest. It seems to tilt my g-spot up so that I can reach it easier.
02/17/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by sry
Oh yeah the rock chick I think that might stay in on it's own...
Yes, I have the rock chick. It doesn't do much for me in terms of G-spot stimulation though. Actually, it was doing something last night and then the batteries died. Har.
02/18/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Also, there's not a lot of freedom with it to move how I want.
02/18/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Nashville
What about a double dildo? One that's especially long and curved? Also, one that isn't too floppy so you can hold onto it well.. I don't have a lot of experience in double ended dildos but I'm sure other people do here. link <-- ... more
The problem with most of the handles is that they go AWAY from my body. (like would extend straight ish out). The longer the handle (if it's shaped that way), the harder for me to maneuver. However, that second to last one could work.
02/18/2009
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
The problem with most of the handles is that they go AWAY from my body. (like would extend straight ish out). The longer the handle (if it's shaped that way), the harder for me to maneuver. However, that second to last one could work.
link <-- the bent ones look like they might be effective however I think they're only 8" long or a little over.
02/18/2009
Contributor: Snappy Snappy
I'd suggest the Marble Slimline G vibe, Ella the Lelo dildo, and Deborah Sundahl's book "Female Ejaculation and the Gspot". Don't give up! And congratulations for exploring your body.
02/18/2009
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
The easiest position for me is leaning back against something (like the headboard of my bed) with my body curled and my knees up. I agree with you that any position that requires effort to hold, like all fours, will make it impossible to come.

I'm also thinking that the Pure Wand would work well for you.
02/18/2009
Contributor: sry sry
You could get one of those dildos that attach to flat surfaces with suction and stick it on your shower wall and go at it doggy style? not sure it would stick to the wall like that because of its own weight. Dunno how much g spot stimulation that would give but if you got one you could try it or perhaps you could put it on the tub floor and girl on top it you don't have to turn the water on but you could get some padding like the things they sell for your knees when you garden and cut a hole in the thing for the dildo and rest your knees on it so it is more comfortable. Would probably be a little more work than a toy you use with your hands, but it would keep you in shape bc of the exercise... something like this for your knees so they wont hurt on the tub surface link
02/18/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Snappy
I'd suggest the Marble Slimline G vibe, Ella the Lelo dildo, and Deborah Sundahl's book "Female Ejaculation and the Gspot". Don't give up! And congratulations for exploring your body.
The Slim Line G is pretty much what I'm using. It's too long to work well with my specific shortcomings. Hardy har. I am too funny.
02/18/2009
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I always masturbate to Internet porn, so I slump back in my computer chair (so my butt is on the edge of the chair) and rest my feet on my computer desk. I pass my left arm under my left thigh to reach my g-spot with my glass toy. My g-spot is not really far in but it seems to hide behind my pubic bone and is hell to reach even with a curved dildo.

If I am masturbating in my bed I will bend my knees over my chest while laying on my back and reach behind my left thigh (rather than reach between my legs) to pump the dildo in and out. Sometimes I prop my feet against the wall or the head of the bed to get support and a better body angle.

Hope this helps
02/18/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I always masturbate to Internet porn, so I slump back in my computer chair (so my butt is on the edge of the chair) and rest my feet on my computer desk. I pass my left arm under my left thigh to reach my g-spot with my glass toy. My g-spot is not ... more
I agree with NS, the angle of approach is so important to me but I use my right hand under my right thigh as I am right handed.....works for me. I also have to be warmed up first, g spot is then more ready to receive attention.
02/19/2009
Contributor: Snappy Snappy
Try using your vibe or dildo sitting up instead of lying down. Add rocking, too. Have you tried SmartBalls or Luna Beads? I suggest that you use some Hathor Aphrodisia lube on a pair of Fun Factory Teneo Duo (like SmartBalls only smaller and with a different silicone coating). Works for me...
02/19/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Snappy
Try using your vibe or dildo sitting up instead of lying down. Add rocking, too. Have you tried SmartBalls or Luna Beads? I suggest that you use some Hathor Aphrodisia lube on a pair of Fun Factory Teneo Duo (like SmartBalls only smaller and with a ... more
Well, I own Luna Beads but they do absolutely nothing in terms of stimulation. I guess my G-spot doesn't respond to typical stimulation, heh.


Naughty Student, I will try those positions. I could probably actually do that at my desk.
02/19/2009
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
Quote:
Originally posted by sry
Ok here it is


link

send the company the link to this if you think it would help
Hmm, that link doesn't work because it's private on Photobucket. Can you upload it on imageshack or something?
02/23/2009
Contributor: sry sry
Sorry Epiphora I took it down and deleted the pic it wasn't anything special just a crappy drawing of a toy that would be hard to wield bc the handle was so long and would be hard to maneuver it on the gspot. it would require 10000$ worth of research just to balance the toy. so it would stay on the gspot while using the handle to "steer" it. I think if someone actually made it I would be very impressed they could pull it off its such an unrealistic design. But hey I came up with the idea based of the post and then drew it out in under 2 mins not a lot of thought went into it. Was just an idea...
02/23/2009
Contributor: Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
Quote:
Originally posted by sry
You could get one of those dildos that attach to flat surfaces with suction and stick it on your shower wall and go at it doggy style? not sure it would stick to the wall like that because of its own weight. Dunno how much g spot stimulation that ... more
I have never thought of this, and I don't know why! Thank you for the idea, TWG.
04/06/2010
Contributor: Pleasure gal Pleasure gal
I just recently found my g spot area by alternating between a pure wand (gets very tiring because of the weight, but great angles!) and the glass blue swirl (not as great an angle but reaches far enough for me). Glass or plastic curved similar to pure wand would be PERFECT!! I have a bent graduate that I'll try again now that I know where I'm looking for. Good luck! Enjoy.
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