My boyfriend doesn't enjoy a blowjob enough to get off, what's a way I can make it more enjoyable for him, so he will get off on it?

Contributor: KovenIsKing KovenIsKing
I deep throat the shit out of him for as long as I can. I let him thrust into the back of my throat as much as he wants, and he still looses intrest in a blowjob after like 10 minutes. What can I do to make him not get so bored? Even maybe actually get off on it?
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wrecklesswords , Bignuf , eri86 , SalmiakkiVodka , PadoruLover , SaucyxGirl , BlackOrchid , RonLee , Husband and Wife , U3H , mrg5 , xoxcaitchanel , Akamai27
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03/14/2014
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by KovenIsKing
I deep throat the shit out of him for as long as I can. I let him thrust into the back of my throat as much as he wants, and he still looses intrest in a blowjob after like 10 minutes. What can I do to make him not get so bored? Even maybe actually ... more
Definitely ask him! Does he even really like blow jobs? Some men just aren't into blow jobs.
03/14/2014
Contributor: KovenIsKing KovenIsKing
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Originally posted by wrecklesswords
Definitely ask him! Does he even really like blow jobs? Some men just aren't into blow jobs.
He does. His thing is he "has to be in the mood for one" when he is, I give it to him. But he always says it's never enough to get him off.
03/15/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by KovenIsKing
He does. His thing is he "has to be in the mood for one" when he is, I give it to him. But he always says it's never enough to get him off.
Do you apply any techniques? Do you use your tongue, lips and hands to make the BJ more interesting? Or do you just let him thrust into your throat?
03/16/2014
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
You really just have to ask.
03/16/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
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Originally posted by KovenIsKing
He does. His thing is he "has to be in the mood for one" when he is, I give it to him. But he always says it's never enough to get him off.
Some men find that blow jobs don't offer enough stimulation for them to get off. Could it be possible that he is one of those men?
03/17/2014
Contributor: KovenIsKing KovenIsKing
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Originally posted by Rossie
Do you apply any techniques? Do you use your tongue, lips and hands to make the BJ more interesting? Or do you just let him thrust into your throat?
I use my tongue, hands, lips, tongue ring. Anything I can use toy advantage, I usually do. But it never gets him off. He always asks for a blowjob, but then I give him one, never seems like he wanted one from the start.
03/19/2014
Contributor: KovenIsKing KovenIsKing
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Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
Some men find that blow jobs don't offer enough stimulation for them to get off. Could it be possible that he is one of those men?
Could be. But if that's the case then I'm lost on as to why he always asks for one then.
03/19/2014
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
What about if right before he cums doing intercourse he pulls out and you finish him off.
03/19/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
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Originally posted by KovenIsKing
Could be. But if that's the case then I'm lost on as to why he always asks for one then.
According to my partner: "Because they still feel good."

He (my partner) is one of those men who find it difficult if not impossible to get off through oral stimulation. He still enjoys a blow job though.
03/20/2014
Contributor: xoxcaitchanel xoxcaitchanel
Never be afraid to ask what feels good. All guys are different.

You can always spice things up a little. Start off with a hand job, then tease a bit with your tongue. Don't be afraid to use your hands! Grab his balls and massage them, run your nails down his thighs. Put his balls in your mouth. Explore. Don't be shy or embarrassed. Work in a little bit of a strip tease too.. you can bounce your tits of his dick! Sex is supposed to be fun, but only do what you both are comfortable with!
03/20/2014
Contributor: KovenIsKing KovenIsKing
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Originally posted by xoxcaitchanel
Never be afraid to ask what feels good. All guys are different.

You can always spice things up a little. Start off with a hand job, then tease a bit with your tongue. Don't be afraid to use your hands! Grab his balls and massage ... more
Hahaha I can do everything but that whole tits thing, I'm not a chick. But I sure as hellcan do everythig else. I appriciate your advice though.
03/24/2014
Contributor: KovenIsKing KovenIsKing
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Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
According to my partner: "Because they still feel good."

He (my partner) is one of those men who find it difficult if not impossible to get off through oral stimulation. He still enjoys a blow job though.
Yeah, well I mean that could be it. He could just prefer bottoming only. But idk. I appriciate all your opinions and tips!! xx
03/24/2014
Contributor: Akamai27 Akamai27
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Originally posted by KovenIsKing
I deep throat the shit out of him for as long as I can. I let him thrust into the back of my throat as much as he wants, and he still looses intrest in a blowjob after like 10 minutes. What can I do to make him not get so bored? Even maybe actually ... more
Definitely communicate with him and a BJ is a pretty nice starting or ending point for sex too.
03/28/2014