How long does it typically take a person to squirt? Besides rubbing the G-spot what other toy could you get or recommend because I have a couple and they do not work.
Squirting
04/06/2019
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Dear Thelovelysexxto1,
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Thelovelysexxto1
How long does it typically take a person to squirt? Besides rubbing the G-spot what other toy could you get or recommend because I have a couple and they do not work.
squirting takes practice. It's not only about the toys - if you can't seem to manage to squirt, the problem can be that you have a psychological block. You have to be able to truly relax your muscles and get rid of that little shy in the back of your head that says: "OMG, it's pee, I can't even", and just go with the flow, stay in tune with your body and shut out nothing else.
In regards to other toys - sure, there are many other options to get to the squirting orgasm besides G-spot dildos. First of all, it's important to check out the material of your dildo. Some products can be too pliable and soft, and so they fail to provide enough pressure needed to stimulate the process of squirting. Glass wands are usually the safest bet if you think the lack of pressure is your issue.
There is also the classic solution of the squirting problem - the wand massager. Their power is quite enough to induce squirting with nothing but some clit spur. Sure, it's a bit of a porn move, but it does pack enough punch to make you cast away all of your psychological barriers and just go gushing. If you wanna know more, just hop into our squirting guide and arm up with knowledge
04/08/2019
Ginger is correct and of course " all carnal knowing " . In our experience, one has to be very relaxed, be in a very happy state of mind, no stress andeager to have sex. My first squiting episode came after watching a good exciting adult movie with attractive performers and a story. Not the wham- bam, shove it in ones. Of course we wanted to get it on big time afterwards. He gave me a lot of oral. Then I used a Wand while he used a curved dildo on me. Four-five mins later I squirted for the first time. It was fabulous! So much so we had to do it again after he wiped me up.
From that point on it became easier. I do have difficulties in doing it by myself though. Maybe once or twice with the pure wand and a vibrator. It's much easier if he does the thrusting and I hold the wand or vibrator.
Good luck, I do hope you experience it. I will say I prefer regular multiple orgasms though.
Imo, squirting is for movies and male egos. And I hate changing the sheets.
From that point on it became easier. I do have difficulties in doing it by myself though. Maybe once or twice with the pure wand and a vibrator. It's much easier if he does the thrusting and I hold the wand or vibrator.
Good luck, I do hope you experience it. I will say I prefer regular multiple orgasms though.
Imo, squirting is for movies and male egos. And I hate changing the sheets.
04/08/2019
I haven't managed to squirt yet too, but I do believe that practice will yield results and keep hope alive I guess, the toys could be a great help in this.
And the point about changing sheets is a good reason not to be frustrated about squirt absence
And the point about changing sheets is a good reason not to be frustrated about squirt absence
04/09/2019
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I wasn't using toys when I first experienced gushing. And it was a complete surprise for me...a very nice surprise. It happened after my husband had been reading up on some stuff (The Truth About Female Ejaculation and The Cliterate Male). He was using his fingers and just pushing around and rubbing in different areas, watching my reaction and keeping track of everything I guess. He told me afterward exactly where he was and what he was doing that led to the gushing orgasm. After that, we started to use different toys and it became easier for me to reach that type of orgasm because I knew how to relax my muscles to get there. His fingers are still my favorite though.
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Thelovelysexxto1
How long does it typically take a person to squirt? Besides rubbing the G-spot what other toy could you get or recommend because I have a couple and they do not work.
10/05/2019
As so aptly pointed out by GingerAnn, OH&W and Perspicace - an attentive and skilled lover can go a long toward 'getting you there'.
The PureWand or skilled fingers combined with a clit-wand are the go-to scenarios for women who have learned the art of letting go, and yes once you've been there, it gets easier to find your way back.
I will say that if you haven't tried anal play in your squirting repertoire, you should experiment. With a well lubricated finger, I actually massage up toward her g-spot - and combined with a clit-wand the gushing can be copious. We have also achieved gushing during anal sex.
What surprises me a bit is how vigorous the anal penetration needs to be to result in gushing - so it's vital that the initial preparation is done well - i.e. plenty of lube and time to adjust to penetration.
Hope this helps...
The PureWand or skilled fingers combined with a clit-wand are the go-to scenarios for women who have learned the art of letting go, and yes once you've been there, it gets easier to find your way back.
I will say that if you haven't tried anal play in your squirting repertoire, you should experiment. With a well lubricated finger, I actually massage up toward her g-spot - and combined with a clit-wand the gushing can be copious. We have also achieved gushing during anal sex.
What surprises me a bit is how vigorous the anal penetration needs to be to result in gushing - so it's vital that the initial preparation is done well - i.e. plenty of lube and time to adjust to penetration.
Hope this helps...
10/06/2019
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