Do you ever wonder if it'd be easier to masturbate if you were more attractive?

Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
indeed?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
hard, because I hate my body
HARD, because I LOVE my body.
no
35  (78%)
yes
2  (4%)
maybe
4  (9%)
sometimes.
4  (9%)
Total votes: 45
Poll is closed
09/25/2012
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Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
indeed?
Oh my! Lol.

No. My looks have never played a part in my orgasm. However, with my partner, I'm way better and enjoy myself much more when I don't dislike myself, but feel attractive. When we first got together 6 years ago my self-esteem had been totally robbed from me just months before, and I normally had average confidence, so this was a huge turn around. Now days I'm back though, and I do notice that I enjoy myself so very much more when I'm not hating my body!
09/25/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
indeed?
Um no?
09/25/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Never had a problem, but I guess I could see it being an issue in some extremes.
09/25/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Can't say it's ever been an issue for me.
09/25/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
helps cuz I watch porn when I am doing it
09/25/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
I don't think about myself when masturbating.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I found it'd be easier to get laid if I were more attractive.
09/25/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I don't really have this problem; I'm actually quite attractive according to other people (I just happen to agree with them). I don't think about myself when I'm masturbating anyway. I find it would be much easier for me to masturbate if I weren't hurting all the damn time though.
09/25/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
I think that it is much more a matter of health rather than a matter of looks...
09/25/2012
Contributor: pixylove101 pixylove101
No cause I can be me or make myself feel prettier while I masturbate.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Kind of a strange question, but...

I'm gay, so if I was strongly attracted to myself then that would be an unhealthy level of narcissism. I can just imagine sitting in front of the mirror masturbating all day, and it isn't an appealing thought, lol.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Incendiaire
Kind of a strange question, but...

I'm gay, so if I was strongly attracted to myself then that would be an unhealthy level of narcissism. I can just imagine sitting in front of the mirror masturbating all day, and it isn't an appealing ... more
I've always wondered about that - if gays and lesbians find their genitalia more attractive than hetero peeps. Seems to me it would make sense...just one of those questions you shouldn't ask people, I suppose.
09/25/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Never had a problem.
09/25/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I think I'm attractive, but even if I didn't I don't think it would make a difference.
09/25/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't think my self confidence and my masturbating habits coincide at all. Sex with my partner does though because if I feel sexy then I'm more apt to be frisky.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
I've always wondered about that - if gays and lesbians find their genitalia more attractive than hetero peeps. Seems to me it would make sense...just one of those questions you shouldn't ask people, I suppose.
It's always fun to play the "do I find your penis more attractive than mine?" game when comparing with someone, haha.

Personally, one of the things I love most is the tiny differences between people's anatomy, which is why I don't think I could ever tire of looking at swathes of naked men.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Incendiaire
It's always fun to play the "do I find your penis more attractive than mine?" game when comparing with someone, haha.

Personally, one of the things I love most is the tiny differences between people's anatomy, which is why I ... more
That's all kinds of awesome. I wonder if it ever creates insecurity, though. (Sometimes I'm too curious for my own good.)

Like does penis SIZE matter when it comes to gay relationships? As you can probably tell, I don't have any close gay friends (circumstance, not choice).
09/25/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I don't think my self confidence and my masturbating habits coincide at all. Sex with my partner does though because if I feel sexy then I'm more apt to be frisky.
I agree.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Incendiaire
Kind of a strange question, but...

I'm gay, so if I was strongly attracted to myself then that would be an unhealthy level of narcissism. I can just imagine sitting in front of the mirror masturbating all day, and it isn't an appealing ... more
Strange question indeed
09/26/2012
Contributor: butts butts
ABsolutely, but I'm transsexual, I've got all sorts of self image issues If I had a dick I'd probably never stop touching it.
09/26/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I don't think my self confidence and my masturbating habits coincide at all. Sex with my partner does though because if I feel sexy then I'm more apt to be frisky.
This is pretty much how I feel. Even even I feel bad about how I look I am still able to masturbate, I don't really look at or watch myself when I masturbate anyway so I don't think it matters.
09/26/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
No. I don't like my body but whatever. That doesn't stop me from being intimate with my guy so why should it alone?
09/26/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
my wife loves me, thats all that matters.
09/27/2012
Contributor: rmiles124 rmiles124
Quote:
Originally posted by Kenneth Fort
indeed?
No way! and if it does, just imagine someone who is beautiful on the inside and out and thinks your beautiful for who and what you are!
12/12/2012