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Contributor: snakeinfur snakeinfur
I am currently dating a guy who is pretty shy, but I want to do more than anything is put a leash on him and "force" him to service me in exchange for the same.

I don't know how to really suggest it other than getting drunk and dropping hints.
06/27/2013
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Contributor: babyrock babyrock
that's what i would do. guys get the hint. it'll be up to him to decide whether or not to "get it".
06/27/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by babyrock
that's what i would do. guys get the hint. it'll be up to him to decide whether or not to "get it".
Guys don't get hints. They get outright declarations.

OP: Just tell him. Either watch porn that has something similar and mention how much it turns you on or just straight up ask what his opinion is on BDSM.

Being direct goes a lot farther in these situations.
06/27/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Ansley
Guys don't get hints. They get outright declarations.

OP: Just tell him. Either watch porn that has something similar and mention how much it turns you on or just straight up ask what his opinion is on BDSM.

Being direct goes a lot ... more
I have to say, I agree, I don't know that hinting is the way to go; I believe in being assertive. Mind you, that does not mean aggressive, nor does it mean blunt! But, in my experience, men don't read our minds very well The porn, or movie suggestion sounds like a nice way to bring it up where you could possibly back out if you don't get the reaction you were hoping for. Maybe you could mention you read a scene in a book and say you were unexpectedly turned on when you thought of doing that with him? Good luck!
06/27/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I have to say, I agree, I don't know that hinting is the way to go; I believe in being assertive. Mind you, that does not mean aggressive, nor does it mean blunt! But, in my experience, men don't read our minds very well The porn, or movie ... more
I completely agree with this and Stormys post. Men don't do subtle very well lol but be respectful at the same time and listen to what he says.
06/27/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
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Originally posted by shorejen9
I completely agree with this and Stormys post. Men don't do subtle very well lol but be respectful at the same time and listen to what he says.
Indeed. I once didn't get the hint: Do you want to bring me home?

Waaah. Stupid little me.

But yes, it's really difficult to introduce kinky stuff.

Maybe suggesting a match of truth or dare?
But I bet you will be surprized if you find out what is really going on behind his forehead....

You know... Still waters run deep.
06/28/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
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Originally posted by Ansley
Guys don't get hints. They get outright declarations.

OP: Just tell him. Either watch porn that has something similar and mention how much it turns you on or just straight up ask what his opinion is on BDSM.

Being direct goes a lot ... more
Yup, what Stormy said. We men are dense.
06/29/2013