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Best way to start a kinky discussion?

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Contributor: digit88 digit88
how is the best way to start or should i say tell your significant other that you want to get more kinky.
07/25/2012
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Contributor: NightKat NightKat
Although I'm not a huge fan of the book, a trending way right now is to talk about '50 Shades of Grey'. I would actually suggest introducing the idea of communication about your current sex life, if you don't have that already. If you can openly talk about what you do and don't like, its pretty easy to suggest something light to begin with.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
i agree with ^^^. Communication is a major part of our sex life. We talk about what we want and do not want, as well as things we are comfortable trying and such.

I recommend using this website: link
You each take the quiz separately about what you would like to do in your sex life. At the end the website will reveal to the both of you ONLY what both of you have in common. It's a great way to discover what you're both interested in without feeling embarrassed.
07/25/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
tie them up lol
07/25/2012
Contributor: succulenthunny616 succulenthunny616
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Originally posted by ejrbrndps
tie them up lol
Lmao!
07/29/2012
Contributor: succulenthunny616 succulenthunny616
07/29/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
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Originally posted by digit88
how is the best way to start or should i say tell your significant other that you want to get more kinky.
We will ask each other questions in chat or by texting each other even when we are sitting in the same room. It is very exciting and leads to some very interesting and sexually informative discussions. Most of the time we both get so turned on that we end up heading to bed and trying out what we were talking about.
07/29/2012
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
I just come straight out and say it its the fastest and easiest way plus they know your serious. If they arent into it at least you got it over with fast.
07/29/2012