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Contributor: jenn g jenn g
do you find that a kinky partner just keeps pushing the envelope?
10/20/2011
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
That depends on one's communication skills. They should only push your envelope if you allow them.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Mine does. But, he has to. If he didn't, it would never happen. Though, when it comes down to making things a reality, I'm the one that has to push him. And I don't mean push as in coerce or anything like that, encourage is probably the better word there.

It's kind of like he has to encourage me to be comfortable with the idea and I have to encourage him to be comfortable...well, okay encourage is starting to no longer fit...support, maybe? I don't know, it's kind of hard to explain. If either of us says no or not at this time, then it kind of gets dropped for awhile.
10/20/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
I would not say our sex, "escalates", but it continues and we try new stuff. We are pretty conservative I say.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Toys in Love Toys in Love
We probably are... Though, not in leaps and bounds, but slowly pushing our kinky side. Honestly, I only view it as 'trying new things', but I'm also aware that when we do, it's usually a bit more towards what would be called kink.
10/30/2011
Contributor: mh11 mh11
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Originally posted by jenn g
do you find that a kinky partner just keeps pushing the envelope?
I think I might be that partner actually lol but never to the point of uncomfrotable feelings. it's all in good play
11/04/2011
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
we try and be on the same page, to be honest it's usually her pushing the envelope, which is unusual
12/14/2011
Contributor: STM STM
I try and push the kink with my husband but not past his comfort level. If I didn't push then it would never happen but like I said, I don't push him too far.
02/17/2012
Contributor: rebeccajoykirk rebeccajoykirk
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Originally posted by jenn g
do you find that a kinky partner just keeps pushing the envelope?
Part of the fun of being kinky is finding new ways to push and explore. Just make sure you can communicate throughout the process.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
i am the one that tends to push the envelope on a regular basis.
As stated above, if i didn't then it wouldn't happen
06/13/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by jenn g
do you find that a kinky partner just keeps pushing the envelope?
We have open communication, and are okay with sharing our wants, but willing to not try anything the other says no to without feeling judged or bad.
07/04/2012
Contributor: meowpuss meowpuss
i love it
07/25/2012
Contributor: Molly Adams Molly Adams
Absolutely, I'm always pushing the envelope as we learn and try new things, but my partner enjoys it. When I suggest something, his eyebrows go up, he shakes his head and chuckles...and then says, "Alright, I'm on board!"
10/03/2012
Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
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Originally posted by jenn g
do you find that a kinky partner just keeps pushing the envelope?
Nope.

Well... once. Getting balls whipped was not a good idea.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
My partner and I are pretty good at mutually pushing each other's boundaries in a good way. We both feel comfortable expressing our various kinks and freely discussing what we'd actually want to go through with.
10/08/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Rey
i am the one that tends to push the envelope on a regular basis.
As stated above, if i didn't then it wouldn't happen
Pretty much same here. I'm the one saying "Hey Baby, let's try..."
10/08/2012