Cock Ring Vs. Prolonging Cream-Which works better?

Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine 01/15/2012

Hubby and I have been in the market for something to help him "stay in the game" a bit longer. Either he has a problem medically or Im entirely too good at what I do. ( I got my money on the first LOL). So, we've purchased a few vibrating cock rings with the removable bullets and tried them out. He has never worn a cock ring before (Yes, shocking, I know LOL). He's not really had ANY kind of sex toy/adult aid experience at all. So, when I try asking him "Which one do you want to try honey?" I get a blank stare and a "You know more about this stuff than I do!" . Needless to say, Im still clueless as to what to get. Ill be placing an order within the next day or two and want to know: Which is best? Cock Rings or Creams. The cock rings we've tried so far haven't worked at all. Im afraid of the creams because I don't like the "numbing" factors on him OR me lol. I thought about going with a smaller cockring but all those smaller ones don't look much fun in the way of "adding to OUR experience". So, which should I go with and why?

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Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Which do you find works best for you and your partner? Cock Rings or Prolonging creams?
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Shunga sensations balm (Mint)
MamaDivine
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Dolphin cock ring (Blue)
OhMy! , Subbi , Breas , Do-Re-Mi , switzerland , Jon S , ellejay , eeep , Ghost , potstickers , EdenJP , jay28 , Dear Ruby , Howells , spineyogurt , BuckeyeGal04 , bayosgirl , Teacookie , John E W , dv8 , Apirka , MamaDivine
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Don't use either, Don't know
married with children , Undead
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Total votes: 25 (24 voters)
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Contributor: OhMy! OhMy!
We voted for the cock ring, but you may want to choose a different one. Perhaps the problem has been with how tight the fit is. You may want to look at the Titan Men, or others that are a step up. We have a review of the Titan here
01/15/2012
Contributor: Subbi Subbi
I would say get him a cock ring.
Titan men stretch-to-fit is my fiances favorite so far.
01/15/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
My partner doesn't like the prolonging creams. He prefers cock rings.
01/15/2012
Contributor: Do-Re-Mi Do-Re-Mi
I would go with a cockring. You might have to try a few out before finding the right one that works you both of you.
01/15/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
My boyfriend and I have had the best luck with cock rings. Lots of sizing and material options.
01/15/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Sounds like most of you agree with our methods. The creams worry me because I don't really feel like being numbed either lol....however the cock rings are usually not tight enough. I ordered some that are really small this time, so hopefully those will work out better. Thanks everyone for the comments!
01/17/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
we dont use any kind of cream. I would not suggest using prolonging cream. Go with a cock ring.
01/17/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Which do you find works best for you and your partner? Cock Rings or Prolonging creams?
Dolphin cock ring
01/17/2012
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Cock rings, definitely. The prolonging cream... if you like to change up activities, the numbing creams make for numb lips during oral, which is awkward.
01/19/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
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Originally posted by Dear Ruby
Cock rings, definitely. The prolonging cream... if you like to change up activities, the numbing creams make for numb lips during oral, which is awkward.
Numbing cream scares me, what if you're allergic
01/19/2012
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
We haven't yet found that a cream or spray works well for him. I recommend trying the cock ring as it's not an expensive investment and you may both enjoy the vibe.
01/19/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
We've tried both a numbing spray and a cock ring and I can tell you, the cock ring works WAY better. I recommend the "His and Hers" model.
01/20/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Which do you find works best for you and your partner? Cock Rings or Prolonging creams?
I've never tried that cock ring but we have a few that I like. We've tried trial sized creams that didn't do anything.
01/20/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
first few times the guy will cum FAST but ones the newness wears off they will take alot longer.
01/20/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Thanks for all the help everyone!
01/23/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
We ended up getting both LOL
01/26/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
never used either.
02/28/2012
Contributor: xwolfiex xwolfiex
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Originally posted by MamaDivine
We ended up getting both LOL
Both is always a good choice, hope you enjoyed
05/22/2012
Contributor: iabicpl09 iabicpl09
I never used either
05/26/2012
Contributor: iabicpl09 iabicpl09
I never used either
05/26/2012
Contributor: RadRach RadRach
Quote:
Originally posted by MamaDivine
Which do you find works best for you and your partner? Cock Rings or Prolonging creams?
Def go with a good cock ring. I have never known anyone to have much luck with the cream/balm
07/24/2012
Contributor: AwesomeAmanda AwesomeAmanda
i've been wondering the same thing as you, so thank you for this post
10/08/2012
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
In my experience, wearing a cock ring doesn't prolong the sex, but it does make the cock harder and keep it hard until climax. But - for me - wearing the ring makes my cock more sensitive to pleasure, so I generally have to work harder to prolong the experience.

I've never tried any type of prolonging cream. I've always assumed they work by desensitizing the penis, so I guess I've never found them appealing. If a partner wanted constant stimulation, and my erection was waning, I'd just use my fingers, mouth or even a toy until I was ready to go again.
01/02/2013