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Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
Well, I chose 1-4 and I think I fit that category in most terms of "relationship."

I wish the poll specified type of relationship.
Real, longer-term relationship, is 1- my current boyfriend.

Sexual relationships, I believe it is 6.

Relationships that seemed more than sexual, but didn't last longer than 3mos, about 5.
And I've dated men without sleeping with them, but usually not more than a few weeks before one of us moved on.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I'm counting relationships as 'dating for more than a few weeks', and by those definitions, I've had 11.
04/23/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
about 2 serious ones
04/23/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
only like 3 or 4 really
04/23/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
just a few
04/23/2011
Contributor: Wednesday Wednesday
Quote:
Originally posted by PuplePleasures
How many relationships have you had?
Just one. 2 years going strong
04/24/2011
Contributor: charcat charcat
Still on my first actually. Weird.
05/01/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
3 long term relationships, more short term relationships.
05/03/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
4 serious
07/07/2011
Contributor: Endocott Endocott
This is third for me.
07/07/2011
Contributor: nori nori
4 for me.
07/28/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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6 so far, but my current one is the only one I've been really serious about!
07/28/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Not many. One serious relationship.
07/28/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i'm not sure... a lot of sexual relationships and few real ones... i really don't keep track of that stuff. i try to focus on the one at hand
07/28/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I've had two relationships. The first one I got into because I was so dang excited that I guy was interested in me (I was 23) and excused the weirdness/distance as "this is your first relationship and you don't know what you're doing." Turns out, he was gay, got to know me, and trusted that I wouldn't be judgmental of his sexuality and thought he'd ask me out to see if I could "fix" him. He admitted this one day when I'd brought up how we weren't intimate AT ALL. I expressed how accepting I was of his sexuality and how necessary it was for us to break up.

Relationship number 2 is the one I'm happily in now, and it's my first sexual/romantic relationship. I'm loving it.
08/02/2011
Contributor: Triple X Moma Triple X Moma
Quote:
Originally posted by PuplePleasures
How many relationships have you had?
I have had to many to count.
08/11/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
I currently have 3 primary partners, 6 secondary partners and maybe a dozen or so terciary partners (fwbs, playmates) and am often in the right place and right frame of mind for a new encounter/flirtation. Of those among the "numbered", all are over 1-3 years and some much longer. I consider all my primary and secondary relationships to be Lifelong commitments. I can't see why they wouldn't be.

I think I can safely say that in 45 yrs on this planet, I've hit the over 30 relationships mark.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
I have no idea how many. I also have no idea how to answer this question. I've dated lots of people, but I've only had 3 that lasted more than two months.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
About 5, more than just flings, but not quite longterm.
09/21/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by PuplePleasures
How many relationships have you had?
I voted 1-4 assuming you meant serious relationships.
09/21/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Sadly too many of them. I'm glad that I've finally found my fiance.
10/10/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Assuming you mean romantic relationships, and not any relationship ever, then one.
10/10/2011
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
2
10/11/2011
Contributor: Theaadrian Theaadrian
Really only one. and that wasn't ever officially a relationship. But it felt like one at the time...
11/07/2011
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Zero
11/19/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
2 real relationships. 1 sort of relationship. and a few flings.
11/19/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
1 sexual, 3 or 4 serious boyfriends
12/12/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
kind of a vague question
12/30/2011
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Depends. I have had several "casual boyfriends" since I was a teenage. Half of them weren't serious at all or didn't last long. The other half were "serious" or exclusive but weren't really anything to write home about. Ive had two marriages, and about 5 serious relationships.
01/25/2012
Contributor: Nicky Nicky
I've been in 5 committed relationships.
01/25/2012