I was lucky to have multiple boyfriends who all brought some very great aspects to our relationship, but I must say the man I married topped them all in the areas were they were "strong", and went above and beyond in all those other areas, including being a real "old school" romantic at heart. Love notes hidden for me to find, flowers for no reason, gifts that say "I love you", at unexpected times, and his overall attitude of love and respect for me. It is why I am still madly in love with this man...and in real lust too....after over 30 years of honeymooning with him. If there were any small aspects of prior relationships I enjoyed (going to a nice restaurant on special days in life), he was happy to copy these, as soon as I mentioned them. I found that if you want any good aspect of a prior relationship, if the person you are with now is any good, they will be happy to take a suggestion, and run with it!