My boyfriend is finally gonna let me use a strap on on him!! I need some suggestions on what type of harness/dildo combination to purchase to make it a pleasurable experience for the BOTH of us. I'm gonna need an extemely small dildo for him and a harness that will provide clitoral stimulation for me as well. Please help before he changes his mind!!! Thanks everyone!
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JandNat
09/04/2011
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Insightful topic debates on First Time:
Frst toy?
When did you get your first toy? What was it? How old were you? Did anyone know about it?
If you could only ever use "toys" or "gear" again, which would you use?
self explanatory.
First time
what would you recommend as a first time toy?
Ladies First Time
How long were you with someone before you tried anal for the first time. I had been dating my husband to be for several months and even then I didn't.
How was your first time anal?
How was your experience the first time you tried anal toys?
Frst toy?
When did you get your first toy? What was it? How old were you? Did anyone know about it?
If you could only ever use "toys" or "gear" again, which would you use?
self explanatory.
First time
what would you recommend as a first time toy?
Ladies First Time
How long were you with someone before you tried anal for the first time. I had been dating my husband to be for several months and even then I didn't.
How was your first time anal?
How was your experience the first time you tried anal toys?
09/04/2011
Congrats!!! The medium silk dildo or the goodfella would be a good choice, in my opinion as far as the dildos are concerned. The harness is a little more difficult because everyone prefers different things---like for me, I don't like the clitoral stimulation (it's distracting). Try one of the leather harnesses.
Also, I just wanted to give you a quick heads-up because you posted this in multiple categories, there's only need to post it in one category. If you don't get answers or aren't getting enough answers, it's perfectly acceptable to write a comment that says "bump" or "looking for more answers" so that the question goes to the top of the first page. Posting in multiple categories could cause you to be flagged if people aren't aware that you are new to the community.
Also, I just wanted to give you a quick heads-up because you posted this in multiple categories, there's only need to post it in one category. If you don't get answers or aren't getting enough answers, it's perfectly acceptable to write a comment that says "bump" or "looking for more answers" so that the question goes to the top of the first page. Posting in multiple categories could cause you to be flagged if people aren't aware that you are new to the community.
09/04/2011
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We're in a similar position and have just posted a question along these lines. We've tried a couple of harnesses, the most expensive being the Doc Johnson Ultra Harness but the whole 'putting the harness on' performance is off-putting for us. For that reason we're looking at the Rodeoh harness panties. Might be something for you guys to consider, especially since we seem to have the same taste in dildoes.
Originally posted by
JandNat
My boyfriend is finally gonna let me use a strap on on him!! I need some suggestions on what type of harness/dildo combination to purchase to make it a pleasurable experience for the BOTH of us. I'm gonna need an extemely small dildo for him and
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My boyfriend is finally gonna let me use a strap on on him!! I need some suggestions on what type of harness/dildo combination to purchase to make it a pleasurable experience for the BOTH of us. I'm gonna need an extemely small dildo for him and a harness that will provide clitoral stimulation for me as well. Please help before he changes his mind!!! Thanks everyone!
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10/26/2011
I've tried several different types, and the thing with this whole get up is, you just really have to find what works for you guys the best. This is one area that is totally trial and error. Especially the harnesses.
Some things to remember:
Remember to use lots of good lube.
Start slow
Start small
He's not going to like it at first
In my experience, if you can get a guy past the first few minutes, and maybe have him masturbate while you are doing it, it makes a HUGE difference. My husband insisted that he HATED it the first time. But I got him drunk and did it again, and he complained afterwards, but not as much. He doesn't ask for it now, but he doesn't argue when I ask to do it either. If you haven't gotten one yet, you can use code TUE at checkout for 15% off
Some things to remember:
Remember to use lots of good lube.
Start slow
Start small
He's not going to like it at first
In my experience, if you can get a guy past the first few minutes, and maybe have him masturbate while you are doing it, it makes a HUGE difference. My husband insisted that he HATED it the first time. But I got him drunk and did it again, and he complained afterwards, but not as much. He doesn't ask for it now, but he doesn't argue when I ask to do it either. If you haven't gotten one yet, you can use code TUE at checkout for 15% off
11/01/2011
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If he changes his mind, just whip him back into submission.
Originally posted by
JandNat
My boyfriend is finally gonna let me use a strap on on him!! I need some suggestions on what type of harness/dildo combination to purchase to make it a pleasurable experience for the BOTH of us. I'm gonna need an extemely small dildo for him and
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more
My boyfriend is finally gonna let me use a strap on on him!! I need some suggestions on what type of harness/dildo combination to purchase to make it a pleasurable experience for the BOTH of us. I'm gonna need an extemely small dildo for him and a harness that will provide clitoral stimulation for me as well. Please help before he changes his mind!!! Thanks everyone!
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09/25/2012
yaay have fun!
10/18/2012
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